Wives that won't or don't F*ck!

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“Colorful Beyond Words”

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#111
May 16, 2012
 
Agnostic Dude wrote:
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My ex girlfriend used to think the same about me. ;)
I needed a laugh !! LOL !
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#112
Jul 12, 2012
 
whythehellnot wrote:
I'm a woman and I stand behind my word. I am not saying there won't be times you will not be in the mood but IF there is a problem with your sex drive, go to the Doctor and get your hormones checked or spice it up with some porn or whatever flies your freak flag. It is an obligation because marriage is a contract and part of loving honoring and cherishing your spouse is intimacy until your are no longer able to do so. It does not mean the man isn't required to hold up his end and romance and help at home to allow his wife the time and energy to get in the mood. This is not "old school" thinking I am a very progressive female. I just think that if you don't want to please each other in the way that is exclusive to the two of you you really cannot bitch if he gets those needs met elsewhere. Just sayin!
whythehellnot I applaud you for your courage and very obvious sense of whats fair, not to mention your ability to put your finger right the gist of the problem and even offer advice on how to fix it! Kudos to you , ma'am !
It's a terrible thing when one half of a marriage just never makes the time to "touch base" and get reacquainted physically. We as humans sometimes fall into the humdrum existence of day in and day out work , kids , daily stresses and problems and just forget that we entered into a serious relationship with another person.It's called "taking our spouse for granted". Be it the wife OR the husband , sometimes ya just gotta use ya head! IF you know what I mean ! ;-P I can remember many times in my soon to be 27 yrs of marriage when I really didnt "feel like it" , tired , maybe sore from a hard days work, but I still made the time to touch my wife's heart , be intimate , carress her and love on her and if all i felt like doing was attempting to please her orally , hey it's something! Very intimate , too , I might add! I think this young lady should consider making herself available to her husband in this way ! Hey , it might even lead to something more!
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#113
Jul 12, 2012
 
KnowsPeople wrote:
<quoted text>whythehellnot I applaud you for your courage and very obvious sense of whats fair, not to mention your ability to put your finger right the gist of the problem and even offer advice on how to fix it! Kudos to you , ma'am !
It's a terrible thing when one half of a marriage just never makes the time to "touch base" and get reacquainted physically. We as humans sometimes fall into the humdrum existence of day in and day out work , kids , daily stresses and problems and just forget that we entered into a serious relationship with another person.It's called "taking our spouse for granted". Be it the wife OR the husband , sometimes ya just gotta use ya head! IF you know what I mean ! ;-P I can remember many times in my soon to be 27 yrs of marriage when I really didnt "feel like it" , tired , maybe sore from a hard days work, but I still made the time to touch my wife's heart , be intimate , carress her and love on her and if all i felt like doing was attempting to please her orally , hey it's something! Very intimate , too , I might add! I think this young lady should consider making herself available to her husband in this way ! Hey , it might even lead to something more!
i agree. You just have to want to please your mate. Even when your tired and ect. Give that extra mile. Pure love
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Jul 12, 2012
 

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[QUOTE who="Sickofbrokemen! "]I use to be the wife that wouldnt have sex....it's had to do a lot with they way he treated me. Hated when he grabbed my ass, trying to hunch me in the kitchen, grabbing my boobs...it was so degrading to me. I wouldn't even his him the last 5 years we were together. Just made me sick. I finally left because I didn't want my kids thinking this was "how a marriage" was suppose to be. No they didnt know about our sex life and they saw was me pushing him off me or asking him to stop. Although you might think its better for your kids....it's really not. I'd rather be broke with having only one income then be miserable. I found out after I left how much I missed and enjoyed sex. I'm a happier person and so are my kids.[/QUOTE]

You sound like a horrible bitch! Sounds like he is the one that is better off. And as
Far as he grabbing your titts and ass I guess you never let your new guy touch them hypocrite! Your just trading one dick in your mouth for another! Better the dick you know!
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#116
Jul 13, 2012
 
Nice wrote:
[QUOTE who="Sickofbrokemen! "]I use to be the wife that wouldnt have sex....it's had to do a lot with they way he treated me. Hated when he grabbed my ass, trying to hunch me in the kitchen, grabbing my boobs...it was so degrading to me. I wouldn't even his him the last 5 years we were together. Just made me sick. I finally left because I didn't want my kids thinking this was "how a marriage" was suppose to be. No they didnt know about our sex life and they saw was me pushing him off me or asking him to stop. Although you might think its better for your kids....it's really not. I'd rather be broke with having only one income then be miserable. I found out after I left how much I missed and enjoyed sex. I'm a happier person and so are my kids."

You sound like a horrible bitch! Sounds like he is the one that is better off. And as
Far as he grabbing your titts and ass I guess you never let your new guy touch them hypocrite! Your just trading one dick in your mouth for another! Better the dick you know!
Wow! Lol. What a jack-ass you are! No... My new guy does touch them :p but he doesnt grab them he caresses them!:) and FYI... I'm not a bitch! I'm one hell of a woman that just let the wrong person abuse me!
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#117
Jul 13, 2012
 
hey wrote:
Sometimes a marriage is based more on other things than sex. One or both of them may have medical problems that prevent them from doing it. Also, there are marriages who have lasted a very long time, and both have realized that the relationship is much more deeper than sex, and that is more satisfying than the short term pleasure of an orgasm. I am not saying that sex isnt great, but for some couples, it works. I think the couples have to have a high level of self awareness to pull it off though.
and sadly to say the husband will get it somewhere else, read Act Like A Lady Think Like a Man
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#118
Jul 13, 2012
 
Married and haven't gotten a bj in almost 5 years from my wife. Don't understand. Used to be at least monthly. She doesn't want me to please her orally either. I miss all of that!
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#119
Jul 13, 2012
 
gottaluvme229 wrote:
<quoted text>and sadly to say the husband will get it somewhere else, read Act Like A Lady Think Like a Man
lol. Read that book. I am going to have to agree with it.
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Jul 13, 2012
 
Wow wrote:
Married and haven't gotten a bj in almost 5 years from my wife. Don't understand. Used to be at least monthly. She doesn't want me to please her orally either. I miss all of that!
I'm sorry. You can change that of you want to. You have to do it the right way thou. Communication is one of the big keys. If your married, love each other and don't want to lose that person you make compromises to make the other one happy. If getting a blow job every morning will make you happy...then talk to her about it and ask her what would make her happy. Help me help you kinda thing. Good luck!:)
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Jul 13, 2012
 
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lol. Read that book. I am going to have to agree with it.
:) thanks
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#124
Jul 13, 2012
 
Sickofbrokemen wrote:
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Wow! Lol. What a jack-ass you are! No... My new guy does touch them :p but he doesnt grab them he caresses them!:) and FYI... I'm not a bitch! I'm one hell of a woman that just let the wrong person abuse me!
And I am sure your kids are better off without their father either. NOT!!!! Just like a typical bitch thinking about yourself and not the kids. Keep telling yourself they are better off, but every, every study will show they are not.
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Jul 13, 2012
 
TodayVSTomorrow wrote:
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And I am sure your kids are better off without their father either. NOT!!!! Just like a typical bitch thinking about yourself and not the kids. Keep telling yourself they are better off, but every, every study will show they are not.
wow and why is it any of your business to talk ish to someone like that, its really none of your damn concern she shared how she felt and u have no right to put someone down like that and I bet money that ur ass is alone and miserable:/
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#126
Jul 13, 2012
 
gottaluvme229 wrote:
<quoted text> wow and why is it any of your business to talk ish to someone like that, its really none of your damn concern she shared how she felt and u have no right to put someone down like that and I bet money that ur ass is alone and miserable:/
and fyi women like to be shown affection and feel totally appreciated and that our partner is in to us and doesnt just treat us like a piece of meat, love lasts a lifetime, but infatuation eventually plays out :/ in laymans terms sex gets played out especially if you dont think about your partners emotions as well!
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#127
Jul 13, 2012
 
If I could go back and do it all over, knowing what I know now, I would have tried harder to stay married for the children's sake. I would have accepted a sex life that wasn't perfect, appreciated his good points and tried to overlook his faults instead of dwelling on them, realized it's ok to love your spouse but not 'be in love' with him, and accepted the fact that he is not responsible for my happiness. I also would have understood that I'm not a perfect spouse either so why do I expect him to be one.
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#129
Jul 14, 2012
 
Outspoken in Owensboro wrote:
If I could go back and do it all over, knowing what I know now, I would have tried harder to stay married for the children's sake. I would have accepted a sex life that wasn't perfect, appreciated his good points and tried to overlook his faults instead of dwelling on them, realized it's ok to love your spouse but not 'be in love' with him, and accepted the fact that he is not responsible for my happiness. I also would have understood that I'm not a perfect spouse either so why do I expect him to be one.
Good point. But remember. At the time. You did what you thought was best. But your right, nobodys perfect. Its all what is not perfect that your willing to tolerate. And since you wasnt in love. You didnt tolerate much. I couldnt and wouldnt stay just for kids. U should tho. I just couldnt. I have to be happy to fuction
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#130
Jul 14, 2012
 
TodayVSTomorrow wrote:
<quoted text>And I am sure your kids are better off without their father either. NOT!!!! Just like a typical bitch thinking about yourself and not the kids. Keep telling yourself they are better off, but every, every study will show they are not.
Oh my! Not that i have to justify myself...but yes, my kids are better off. They aren't seeing the abuse and for once seeing their mother happy. We share 50/50 custody and no child support to either. You ass! I'm not the average woman!
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#131
Jul 14, 2012
 
gottaluvme229 wrote:
<quoted text>wow and why is it any of your business to talk ish to someone like that, its really none of your damn concern she shared how she felt and u have no right to put someone down like that and I bet money that ur ass is alone and miserable:/
Lol...probably isn't getting laid either!
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#132
Jul 14, 2012
 
Outspoken in Owensboro wrote:
If I could go back and do it all over, knowing what I know now, I would have tried harder to stay married for the children's sake. I would have accepted a sex life that wasn't perfect, appreciated his good points and tried to overlook his faults instead of dwelling on them, realized it's ok to love your spouse but not 'be in love' with him, and accepted the fact that he is not responsible for my happiness. I also would have understood that I'm not a perfect spouse either so why do I expect him to be one.
There are other things in marriage that has to work well also. You have to be respectful to your spouse, not force yourself on them, appreciate the small stuff, not buy them expensive gifts out of your joint bank account or send them a $3000 bill 3 months later, work together paying the bills, help with the house work and taking care of the kids...etc...when you have no respect for yourself, your kids see that and they have no respect for you and will walk all over you just like the other parent did. It wasn't just about sex in my marriage and apparently the SOB that responded early thinks they no it all....lol well they don't!
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#133
Jul 14, 2012
 
I think one of the reasons women don't want to have sex is because they had children and gained weight....sometimes a lot of weight. They don't feel good about themselves. They don't like their bodies. Having a child is not an excuse to get FAT! Take care of yourself and I guarantee you'll want to show off your body. My husband and I have been married for almost 25 years. I'm still the same size I was when we got married...and so is he. We can't keep our hands off of each other!!
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Jul 14, 2012
 
Happily Married wrote:
I think one of the reasons women don't want to have sex is because they had children and gained weight....sometimes a lot of weight. They don't feel good about themselves. They don't like their bodies. Having a child is not an excuse to get FAT! Take care of yourself and I guarantee you'll want to show off your body. My husband and I have been married for almost 25 years. I'm still the same size I was when we got married...and so is he. We can't keep our hands off of each other!!
happy for you. Your rite. Congrats on successful marriage

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