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I just can't stand to see folks, still so dear to me, ripped on.
Not that they'll even acknowledge that either.
I feel so confused and broken.
I am so sickened

paisleyposey wrote:

I just can't stand to see folks, still so dear to me, ripped on.
Not that they'll even acknowledge that either.
I feel so confused and broken.
I am so sickened

PP, I wouldn’t want to rip on anyone, but those that where our friends during the summer have chosen to disassociate on their own terms. Sometimes these things just need time to heal and can’t be rushed. It never helps when there’s bullying and yelling and finger pointing. But I know in my heart that I did nothing wrong. And I do not accept the title of being a “bad” person because of childish BS behavior. I will say though, that I do not wish to contribute in finger pointing, making accusations or bringing up a sore subject that needs to be left alone.

I also don’t agree with someone who doesn’t understand how he needs to mind his own business and stay out of everyone else’s as far as old friends or acquaintances are concerned. Perhaps this is why no one will back him up when he keeps getting ripped a new one. I luv you as a friend and care very much about you Paisley. I hope things get better for all of us soon!

Lady Of The Pacific wrote:

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PP, I wouldn’t want to rip on anyone, but those that where our friends during the summer have chosen to disassociate on their own terms. Sometimes these things just need time to heal and can’t be rushed. It never helps when there’s bullying and yelling and finger pointing. But I know in my heart that I did nothing wrong. And I do not accept the title of being a “bad” person because of childish BS behavior. I will say though, that I do not wish to contribute in finger pointing, making accusations or bringing up a sore subject that needs to be left alone.
I also don’t agree with someone who doesn’t understand how he needs to mind his own business and stay out of everyone else’s as far as old friends or acquaintances are concerned. Perhaps this is why no one will back him up when he keeps getting ripped a new one. I luv you as a friend and care very much about you Paisley. I hope things get better for all of us soon!

Your last paragraph. Thanks a bunch. Here slap my other cheek.

Why am even trying? Ya know posting was supposed to be about having fun and enjoying each other's company, right Cali? That was my mantra all Summer. Come to the pub and enjoy. Well, me and I could name about 50 others were ignored and it became a clique. I know now most didn't see it that way, but it was. Heck, that is why harrison and myself kept saying what we were saying.

You guys (and girls) took off from TOPIX and that was ok. We even wished you all well! Want to see the post where I say that? Then you come onto Top Stories inviting everyone to the new pub and I called you on that. Remember? Because not everyone WAS GOING TO ACCEPTED!!! Not everyone was. I don't let crap slide so easily and I don't forget.

So, now you continue to bash me for preaching the truth. I am now done re-visiting this crap and maybe done with posting.

Thanks for your post. It is an eye opener.

Rick wrote:

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Your last paragraph. Thanks a bunch. Here slap my other cheek.
Why am even trying? Ya know posting was supposed to be about having fun and enjoying each other's company, right Cali? That was my mantra all Summer. Come to the pub and enjoy. Well, me and I could name about 50 others were ignored and it became a clique. I know now most didn't see it that way, but it was. Heck, that is why harrison and myself kept saying what we were saying.
You guys (and girls) took off from TOPIX and that was ok. We even wished you all well! Want to see the post where I say that? Then you come onto Top Stories inviting everyone to the new pub and I called you on that. Remember? Because not everyone WAS GOING TO ACCEPTED!!! Not everyone was. I don't let crap slide so easily and I don't forget.
So, now you continue to bash me for preaching the truth. I am now done re-visiting this crap and maybe done with posting.
Thanks for your post. It is an eye opener.

You can’t seem to understand how people all around are getting hurt by all of this? So what if those three want to be left alone? So what if they don’t want to be in Topix. That’s their personal decision. You keep looking for a fight when these people just want to be left alone. RH left Topix because of the excessive trolling. He considered you a troll as well.

You keep wanting to fight when everyone wants and needs to be left alone.

I’ve said my peace to them over there and what I said is none of your business, Rick. I’m sorry that your feelings are hurt by it but I’m not backing down on this one.

And if you think you’re getting banned because of any of this, think again. I’m better than that and I wouldn’t.

I’ll type the names of those that have and still are getting affected by all of this:

Billy R, PaisleyPosey, A Bug and a wish, Me (Lady of the Pacific), Jojo Bell, Idiota Unos, Rotor Head, Matt from Akron, Hites Run Princess, Luann Dale, Sean, Rods1

I know there’s more but I’m just pretty busy now. Please find peace with this Rick, because I really don’t consider you a troll at all!=(

Lady Of The Pacific wrote:

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You can’t seem to understand how people all around are getting hurt by all of this? So what if those three want to be left alone? So what if they don’t want to be in Topix. That’s their personal decision. You keep looking for a fight when these people just want to be left alone. RH left Topix because of the excessive trolling. He considered you a troll as well.
You keep wanting to fight when everyone wants and needs to be left alone.
I’ve said my peace to them over there and what I said is none of your business, Rick. I’m sorry that your feelings are hurt by it but I’m not backing down on this one.

I am not wanting a fight. I am done. Done posting done with all this nonsense.

This crap is so stupid.....Let's leave them alone, they are not to be disturbed, etc. They were the freaking problem in the first place!!!

How come not one of you has the back to stand up to any one of them? You all swarmed on me in the Summer and to tell you the truth, I wasn't nearly as mean and nasty as they were/are. Did you see/read matt's post to George? Dear Lord! It was absolutely horrifying. Or his post to me mocking my going to church and being mentally deranged/biploar, alcholic, drug addict? Oh, but that is OK! It is matt! Who the feck cares who it is and boy it was nasty! When he said that crap against G, only me and Bugs came to his aid. Where were all of you?

THEY ARE AND WERE WRONG! Keep defending them. I won't. As a matter of fact, they win. They always do.

Rotor thinks I am a troll. Who cares!!!!! In the scheme of life, who cares??? They can swarm, make fun of folks, call people retarded, make fun of those who are not Conservative (like me), and just keep being the great people they think they are! Rotor can come and post and be the king like he thinks he is.

I am done.

Again, thank you for the post and your friendship here.

Bye.
Rick

Finally, as I have said in the past I will say again.

The term troll is stupid. Better term would be troublemaker.

Oh, and I forgot, Rotor says I am stalking him....

Dear Lord have Mercy.....

This is not fun anymore.....

<shaking head...>

<shaking head but looking up with tears in eyes>

Rick wrote:

<shaking head but looking up with tears in eyes>

No tears love, please forgive me for hurting your heart. I too wear my heart on my sleaves and get emotional. Can we have some peace with each other and this now?

Lady Of The Pacific wrote:

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No tears love, please forgive me for hurting your heart. I too wear my heart on my sleaves and get emotional. Can we have some peace with each other and this now?

Oh my God yes!{{{{{{{HUGs}}}}}}}}}} gotta have those with Ricky (my wife and aunts call me this!)! LOL.

Rick

Okay, I would like to put my two cents in if I could.

Rick, I know you're hurting inside. But please take it from someone, who like Paisley, has been here from the beginning.

LET IT BE. PLEASE, JUST LET IT BE.

I don't like to yell but you are just nitpicking this thing to death. Why can't you just accept the fact that people have moved on? We all have scattered to the four corners of this wonderful forum, but we all have pieces of us left behind with others.

After Columbus day weekend (sorry P), I spent a enormous amount of time genuflecting on what happened and why it happened. After a while, I simply accepted that things were permenantly broken with a few people, and I moved on.

If anyone should be making an enormous stink about things here, rightfully it would be Paisley. And to a lesser degree, I could be included into this picture as well.

Can't you see that all you're doing is simply driving everyone away with your incessant behavior? I'm not trying to single you out, but man, you got to learn to let it go.

Just let go, file it away as a lesson learned, and move on.

It's not that hard to do, is it?

Me personally, I'm just tired. It's December, and I just want this nonsense with you to stop. You're a great guy, but man, if you don't give it a rest, you'll cross my line in the sand.

Do you really want to go there?

George Miller Jr wrote:

Okay, I would like to put my two cents in if I could.
Rick, I know you're hurting inside. But please take it from someone, who like Paisley, has been here from the beginning.
LET IT BE. PLEASE, JUST LET IT BE.
I don't like to yell but you are just nitpicking this thing to death. Why can't you just accept the fact that people have moved on? We all have scattered to the four corners of this wonderful forum, but we all have pieces of us left behind with others.
After Columbus day weekend (sorry P), I spent a enormous amount of time genuflecting on what happened and why it happened. After a while, I simply accepted that things were permenantly broken with a few people, and I moved on.
If anyone should be making an enormous stink about things here, rightfully it would be Paisley. And to a lesser degree, I could be included into this picture as well.
Can't you see that all you're doing is simply driving everyone away with your incessant behavior? I'm not trying to single you out, but man, you got to learn to let it go.
Just let go, file it away as a lesson learned, and move on.
It's not that hard to do, is it?
Me personally, I'm just tired. It's December, and I just want this nonsense with you to stop. You're a great guy, but man, if you don't give it a rest, you'll cross my line in the sand.
Do you really want to go there?

Thanks for your sincerety, G. No, I don't want to cross you. Never wanted that. I always liked you. You are a good guy and I knew it from the moment I met you!

I have buried the hatchet as it were.

Thanks though for the slap!!! Sometimes, I need. No more more nonsense and I PROMISE.

With incredible affection for you and to you.
Your friend,
Rick

I'm glad to see that, for the most part, everyone here has decided to let bygones be bygones. Yes, LOTP, I was negatively affected by the crud going on, and tried to restrain myself as best I could.(I couldn't resist commenting on that "WOW" woman though, she was just a complete loon!) Rick, I'm sorry if I seemed aloof, but I hope I'm better now. Take care, and be well. Same goes for everyone else. See you around Topix, I still stop in about once a week or so.

Sean1980 wrote:

I'm glad to see that, for the most part, everyone here has decided to let bygones be bygones. Yes, LOTP, I was negatively affected by the crud going on, and tried to restrain myself as best I could.(I couldn't resist commenting on that "WOW" woman though, she was just a complete loon!) Rick, I'm sorry if I seemed aloof, but I hope I'm better now. Take care, and be well. Same goes for everyone else. See you around Topix, I still stop in about once a week or so.

And I've enjoyed your emails!

paisleyposey wrote:

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And I've enjoyed your emails!

Thanks, Paise, that's nice of you to say. Did you get the one I sent today? I hope so, and hope you enjoy the gift when it gets there.

Sean1980 wrote:

I'm glad to see that, for the most part, everyone here has decided to let bygones be bygones. Yes, LOTP, I was negatively affected by the crud going on, and tried to restrain myself as best I could.(I couldn't resist commenting on that "WOW" woman though, she was just a complete loon!) Rick, I'm sorry if I seemed aloof, but I hope I'm better now. Take care, and be well. Same goes for everyone else. See you around Topix, I still stop in about once a week or so.

Yeah, I know how it is, that's why I do my best to be of good character whenever I post. You always gave me a good impression Sean. Others maybe not, but for the sake of those I wouldn't want to hurt, I've practiced to keep myself together (I'm sure you know what I mean by that)! Have a good one today!

paisleyposey wrote:

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And I've enjoyed your emails!

Hope you have a good day today Paisley! Chat soon!=)

Lady Of The Pacific wrote:

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Yeah, I know how it is, that's why I do my best to be of good character whenever I post. You always gave me a good impression Sean. Others maybe not, but for the sake of those I wouldn't want to hurt, I've practiced to keep myself together (I'm sure you know what I mean by that)! Have a good one today!

You do the same, lovely Lady. And I agree, a little more civility couldn't hurt, both here and in the RW. I've seen the effects of petty bickering go too far, even in my own family for a while, after my Grandmother died in '93. Some of those wounds still haven't completely healed. I don't wish those kinds of feelings upon anyone.