Fatherless child has fifth birthday

Excuse me, if he didn't hit rock bottom when he murdered two men, what do you call it???? And, a wasted life you call it, his life is a total waste of flesh! At least they can visit the Skum Bag, that murdered two innocent men, we have to visit our loved one's at their grave! And, I do believe he needs to be charged with more than just manslaughter, try MURDER! Times Two! If their deeply saddened, try deeply grieving, because our sons and brother and father to a little boy is Dead, because of the habitual repeat offender drunk! I don't really care if he gets help, I care that he is put away for hopefully the rest of his life. He had too many chances of reforming himself, wasted time! He just kept on until he murdered two men. Who cares about Ricky????Not the families of the two murdered men. He can drop dead for all I care!

Fortunate driver wrote:

I myself have been hit by a drunk driver. My dad has also been hit by a drunk driver. I feel terrible for the little boy who has lost his father. I am very blessed that I didn't lose my life before I had the opportunity to marry my boyfriend who was driving when we were in the accident. I have been married to my boyfriend of the time for twenty years and have two beautiful children. My dad who also survived been hit by a drunk driver, God willing, will be able to see his grandchildren grow up. But I am also a friend of some of the Crase family, although Ricky and I were never close friends. Ricky has a terrible past of drinking and violence. I definitely do not approve of his actions and I was terribly upset by the news of the death of others in the car, I hope he can get help while he serves time here in Oklahoma and Missouri. I do think he should have manslaughter charges brought against him. Ricky has not hit bottom yet. I don't know his wife Rhonda too well, but I do know his children from his first marriage and his extended family. Please stop saying hurtful things about his family. They are hurting too because of a wasted life. It deeply saddens them. I pray that healing will come to all involved. I agree that there needs to be stricter laws concerning drunk driving. Oh, by the way, just that you know, I have never drank or have had the desire to drink because of extended family members that were alcholics.

Thank you so much for your concern for my children and us. Please no matter what happens dont let this idiot bait you into a converstaion or comments. This truly does feed her ego. and only keeps up something that will do you no good to have an opinion about. She is truly crazy and will never see that this is a tragidy for ALL involved. Thankyou and God bless whoever you are.

If anyone is crazy, it's you for being with and defending such a waste of flesh, even after he tried to arson your home! You are the bait, for you insured this habitual drunk's truck, omitting the fact the he was a driver! As he drove on a revoked license, on probation and parole, not even suppose to be out of the state of Okla and a HUGE STACK of DUI convictions! A FELON on parole for ARSON. Violating it once with a DUI in April and a second for leaving the state of Ok. on which he slammed his truck into the Noel bridge, murdering two innocent men! You don't leave a rapist in a room with a bunch of children.....You also don't illegally insure a habitual drunks truck, knowing what he is capable of doing! You lyer, and fradulent person! The only tragidy that is involved with you heartless CRAZEES is the fact that the drunk you enabled is finally having to face his charges! When you finally turned in the insurance claim on your insurance, you didn't even mention the fact that two men had been killed. You are a heartless, no good for nothing, just like your waste of flesh. You belong together, maybe your insurance fraud will place you right along with him!You have your children, one of mine was murdered and the murderer you can protect, make excuses, and enable all you want. He's now been sentenced to five years in Ok on his violation on his ARSON charge. Now Missouri's waiting and I don't believe you can get him off of those two murders either.

If anyone is crazy, it's you for being with and defending such a waste of flesh, even after he tried to arson your home! You are the bait, for you insured this habitual drunk's truck, omitting the fact the he was a driver! As he drove on a revoked license, on probation and parole, not even suppose to be out of the state of Okla and a HUGE STACK of DUI convictions! A FELON on parole for ARSON. Violating it once with a DUI in April and a second for leaving the state of Ok. on which he slammed his truck into the Noel bridge, murdering two innocent men, THREE TIMES OVER THE LEGAL LIMIT FOR INTOXICATION, GOING 85 IN A 45MPH IN A CITY LIMIT ZONE! You don't leave a rapist in a room with a bunch of children.....You also don't illegally insure a habitual drunks truck, knowing what he is capable of doing! You lyer, and fradulent person! The only tragidy that is involved with you heartless CRAZEES is the fact that the drunk you enabled is finally having to face his charges! When you finally turned in the insurance claim on your insurance, you didn't even mention the fact that two men had been killed. You are a heartless, no good for nothing, just like your waste of flesh. You belong together, maybe your insurance fraud will place you right along with him!You have your children, one of mine was murdered and the murderer you can protect, make excuses, and enable all you want. He's now been sentenced to five years in Ok on his violation on his ARSON charge. Now Missouri's waiting and I don't believe you can get him off of those two murders either. hope he gets the needle!

YOu are so crazy you dont pay attention. See everyone this is exactly what I am talking about. I havent been with Ricky for over 18 years. YOUR right about one thing I do have MY children. You are not messing with his current wife!! Dont threaten me or my children you have no idea who you are dealing with. Get your facts straight you certified psycho! Leave MY FAMILY ALONE. You need to go get your shit straight somewhere else besides here. Not one fact you keep screaming out is true. Now who is the liar. Point fingers where you want but best suggestion to you is, and I will only repeat myself ONCE, back off my children. As much as you wanted to protect yours I WILL protect mine! Final word!!!!

A mom wrote:

YOu are so crazy you dont pay attention. See everyone this is exactly what I am talking about. I havent been with Ricky for over 18 years. YOUR right about one thing I do have MY children. You are not messing with his current wife!! Dont threaten me or my children you have no idea who you are dealing with. Get your facts straight you certified psycho! Leave MY FAMILY ALONE. You need to go get your shit straight somewhere else besides here. Not one fact you keep screaming out is true. Now who is the liar. Point fingers where you want but best suggestion to you is, and I will only repeat myself ONCE, back off my children. As much as you wanted to protect yours I WILL protect mine! Final word!!!!

You idiot, Colleen. No one has threatened you or your children. You, however, are making threats and I don't take kindly towards that. Go play with your sugar gliders, pigs and goats and get a real job, or finish up with your EMT or is it EMS. And, what happened with your God professing tongue....Shows what a hyprocrite you are. I will protect my children and even if your children's father murdered one of them, I will still see the court process through, whether he is your ex- and for a reason.....or your children's father! They can't help it that they have a habitual repeat drunken offender and arsonist for a father. And if they don't like what is being said about him, there is a turn off valve. Believe it or not, the victems of drunk drivers are fed up with them murdering their loved ones. And the victems are not supporters of them, doesn't matter if they produced children, has nothing to do with them. They can't help it. It's freaks like you that need to keep their mounths shut!

Maybe Colleen needs to take one of her sugar gliders to her baby dady on the green mile. he'll be needing a little sugar where he's goning.

maybe colleen needs to take one of her sugar gliders to her baby dady in J9L-2 he will be needing some sugar where he's going! Oh, but from what i understand, on the green mile they make due with their sugar and find a hole to put it in.

any further comments about my wife family or children from this point on will result in a class action law suite against you. you may of lost your child to stupidty and the way the oklahoma laws view and treat drunk drivers. but i have been around this for years pulling dead bodies out of vehicles due this type of situation. i am truly sorry for your lose and understand the grieving process. but this is taking it to an unnatural and even a unhealthy psychological level that will do nothing but lead to self distruction and will eventually lead you down a path that will wind up in a jail cell do to your threats and actions by you and the people you are involving in this. i deal with psych patients on a dailey basis and i under stand your thought process, but i will protect my family to the fullist extent of the law.

a stepfather wrote:

any further comments about my wife family or children from this point on will result in a class action law suite against you. you may of lost your child to stupidty and the way the oklahoma laws view and treat drunk drivers. but i have been around this for years pulling dead bodies out of vehicles due this type of situation. i am truly sorry for your lose and understand the grieving process. but this is taking it to an unnatural and even a unhealthy psychological level that will do nothing but lead to self distruction and will eventually lead you down a path that will wind up in a jail cell do to your threats and actions by you and the people you are involving in this. i deal with psych patients on a dailey basis and i under stand your thought process, but i will protect my family to the fullist extent of the law.

No one has threatened your family or your children. You may want to seek counseling yourself, and quit being so paranoid. Keep your wife from making mean and nasty comments about the dead. They can't defend themselves. I plan on seeking the court process myself on this murderer, who killed our sons. And quit blaming the passengers, that lost their lives. I did not loose my child to stupidity, I lost him due a habitual drunk repeat offender, and that's no one's fault but the driver's. We can't help it who were related to. They didn't drive the vehicle, he did and he is to blame.

I lost a sister in a drunk driving accident when she was 15. Luckily the drunken driver was killed also. A drunk makes the choice to get behind the wheel and knows the possible outcome of doing such. It is murder pure and simple. It is no different than making the decision to kill someonewith thier own hands. it is sad that politicians do not have the guts to raise this crinimal act to murder. A life lost to a drunken driver is no different than a life lost to a gun toting crinimal. They both have made the choice.

sad in pineville wrote:

I lost a sister in a drunk driving accident when she was 15. Luckily the drunken driver was killed also. A drunk makes the choice to get behind the wheel and knows the possible outcome of doing such. It is murder pure and simple. It is no different than making the decision to kill someonewith thier own hands. it is sad that politicians do not have the guts to raise this crinimal act to murder. A life lost to a drunken driver is no different than a life lost to a gun toting crinimal. They both have made the choice.

As you know the pain doesn't subside with time. It's a proven fact, we as surviving victems of our murdered loved ones, will live with the grief and loss for the rest of our lives. No excuses can be made for these drunk murderers, although their family members often try to defend their acts of murder. We live with the pain. I agree with all you've said. We have not only lost a son and his friend to this murderer, we've lost a niece and her four yr old daughter and six yr old son, all to a drunk driver, they were from Noel, the same place in which my son and his friend were murdered. Their drunken murderer luckily died too, not so lucky in my son's case, for he lived!

Missouri has handed down charges on Ricky Neal Crase on Monday, Nov 26th. MURDER IN THE SECOND DEGREE, 2 COUNTS, FELONY DWI, FELONY DRIVING ON REVOKED LICENSE. IF CONVICTED HE COULD FACE UP TO LIFE IN PRISON! Crase has a history stemming back over twenty years of drunk driving convictions. Also, he was on parole for a ARSON CONVICTION, he violated that and it had been accelerated in July, 08, bond on 7/11/08 and only twenty days later, he murdered Aaron Gillming and John F Lackey, in Noel, Mo. He was three times the legal limit for intoxication, driving 85 mph in a 34 mph city limit zone, when he lost control and slammed his truck into Noel Bridge, murdering Aaron and John on impact. He was sentenced in Tulsa County in October on his ARSON charge and received five years in the DOC. Now, he is awaiting his arraingment in MCDonald County, on the MURDER CHARGES. Thank you Missouri for doing your job, Shame on you Okla for slapping him on his drunken wrists for twenty years, and allowing him to commit two murders. He had been driving all along on his revoked license, arrested three times already for that, when were you going to really give him the punishment he earned? Did you have to wait until he murdered two innocent men? Now, Missouri is forced to deal with Oklahoma's clean-up. And, so far, their doing a pretty good job of it. Let's pray they send him to the pen for the rest of his life. They will only be doing society a huge favor, saving lives is and should be at the top of the list, when it comes to the court system. Okla needs to enforce the LOCK IGNITION SYSTEM AND THE NO TOLERANCE POLICY. Too many murders at the hands of these serial killers.

Drunk Driving Crashes

Drunk driving crashes
Leave lives in ashes
Hopes are lost
At a high cost
Dreams are shattered
People are battered
When will it stop?

Drunk Drivers say
"I won't pay
for my crime"
Time after time
They get away with murder
Justice says it is just manslaughter
When will it end?
What message do we send?

The crime continues
That is no news
Innocent or guilty
We all pay for it completely
Insurance rates increased
To pay for the deceased
We pay for the injured
In which there is no way to be cured
When will it cease?

If the criminals are caught
And justice is sought
We all still pay for their stay
In court or in jail
Without fail
We pay with our taxes
While the criminal relaxes
When will it quit?

It is time to fight
There is no end in sight
We must raise our voices
And exercise our choices
Murdering of the innocents
Is nefarious
Injuring the blameless
Is completely atrocious
When will it disappear?

We can end it here
The end of this crime can be near
If we all choose not to lose
Any more lives!

With a vigorous
Shout and a zealous
Cry to the lawmakers
We can show the lawbreakers
We will suffer no more!
There is much in store
For their criminal acts.

© Kimberly Endicott, 1997. All Rights Reserved.
(Author’s e-mail: survivorgrrl(at)hotmail.com