What attracts women to married men?

Created by need an answer on Jun 7, 2008

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need an answer

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#1 Jun 7, 2008
I think it is more common for married men to desire another woman, maybe even cheat. But what is it about a married man that an asstranged women would want? Ofcourse the men usually accept the strange, but why take the chance (either of them) creating drama and disfuntion or ruining a family?Do women want be with a man who is already taken or committed? Why do women purposly seek out and prefer married men?
horney women

Andersonville, GA

#2 Jun 10, 2008
In my oppinion women seek married men to start trouble at home.They need more security in there life. What happens in a home should stay in a home and not discussed with another married women. That wright there shows an opening for her to step in if there is trouble and SHE WILL take advantage of that just to keep that married man hanging on to her, calling her or her calling him. Its not so much the men anymore but the women out there now a days are so free with themselves, that they really dont care who they hurt.
muzik_tenn

Union City, TN

#3 Jun 15, 2008
horney women wrote:
In my oppinion women seek married men to start trouble at home.They need more security in there life. What happens in a home should stay in a home and not discussed with another married women. That wright there shows an opening for her to step in if there is trouble and SHE WILL take advantage of that just to keep that married man hanging on to her, calling her or her calling him. Its not so much the men anymore but the women out there now a days are so free with themselves, that they really dont care who they hurt.
you could not be more wrong...excample i was single 12 yrs very careful not to be involve with a married man i be damn had a guy sweeped me off my feet took me to his house knew he was married an had filed for div but he lied in so many ways end up he wanted a double life soon as i found out he was lying he was gone...so its not akways the woman could be , but most of the time its a 50/50 thing on both parts..
In Search Of Wisdom

Katy, TX

#4 Jun 19, 2008
It's the thrill of not getting caught, The rebeling thing a way to prove to their self that they can get away with it. The rush of how far they can get him to go. Like a kid told not to get into the candy jar. Sometimes it's to see what they can get out of it.To be able to get the ungetable.The attention
Newbern Resident

Martin, TN

#5 Oct 4, 2008
I think it is all the benefits of a relationship without the committment. You can have the sex on the side, sleep by yourself at night and still be able to come and go as you please with noone to answer to. Its wrong for it to be that way but in my honest opinion I think they look at it as a benefit by not having all the committment of a serious relationship. If the one doing the cheating sat down and thought how they would feel if their spouse was cheating like they were then it might stop.
need an answer wrote:
I think it is more common for married men to desire another woman, maybe even cheat. But what is it about a married man that an asstranged women would want? Ofcourse the men usually accept the strange, but why take the chance (either of them) creating drama and disfuntion or ruining a family?Do women want be with a man who is already taken or committed? Why do women purposly seek out and prefer married men?
dcprd85

Nashville, TN

#6 Oct 4, 2008
I agree with "In Search of Wisdom". I think that it is just as tempting for a married woman to want to cheat though. Unfortunately, we grow just as bored as men do and crave that thrill. You never mean to hurt anybody, it's just like an addiction that you find hard to stop. It's an escape from day to day problems, stress, etc. Not that any of that makes it right, as it is far from it. It's the worse thing a person can do, but it isn't always just men that want to do it.
we are

Arlington, TN

#7 Oct 7, 2008
always looking 4 that ultimate BJ.....!!!!!
christian

Brownsville, TN

#8 Mar 16, 2010
Single ladies do the right thing, wait for a single man. Dont go out with married men.
ms funny

Dyersburg, TN

#9 Mar 18, 2010
everyone knows that most women want what good women have, our husbands. most of us have good husbands, then again most of us have husbands that want other women. whats a women to do
one who knows

Dyersburg, TN

#10 Apr 7, 2010
muzik_tenn wrote:
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you could not be more wrong...excample i was single 12 yrs very careful not to be involve with a married man i be damn had a guy sweeped me off my feet took me to his house knew he was married an had filed for div but he lied in so many ways end up he wanted a double life soon as i found out he was lying he was gone...so its not akways the woman could be , but most of the time its a 50/50 thing on both parts..
you knew he was married you should have said your cuss words to him and said NO. not defending the scum bag at all. but there are w---- and mongers. no one can tempt you no matter how lonely anyone that trespasses marriage vows is stepping on holy ground and then one tat doesn't know has a right to a divorce and know. sooner or later they will. love blinds but everything comes up and is exposed not of God.
you were wrong and so was he. single men are out to choose from leave married people alone.neither is something to joke about with a married person avoid it completely.
one who knows

Dyersburg, TN

#11 Apr 7, 2010
christian wrote:
Single ladies do the right thing, wait for a single man. Dont go out with married men.
amen, and search the guy out if his first words express anything about bed ,not a good choice, make him respect you right off. or tell him where to go. a one night stand most probably is what he looks for . don't be afraid to tell him what you are looking for in a man and if he can't fill it he's not the right one. he's out there keep looking .
one who knows

Dyersburg, TN

#12 Apr 7, 2010
he also needs to say what he is looking for also, communication, communication, communication.
one who knows

Dyersburg, TN

#13 Apr 7, 2010
pray about it tell GOD! and be patient
Hard Truth

Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

#14 May 24, 2010
one who knows wrote:
pray about it tell GOD! and be patient
Oh! Then how are you different from those from the YFZ Ranch?
howdyyall

Cottage Grove, TN

#15 Jul 23, 2010
That is one thing I've never went for..There are a million single guys out there..Why destroy someones family by doing everything in your power to get a married man? In my opinion, anyone who does that gets whatever is coming to them because they know they're in the wrong.
Boo Boo

Milford, MI

#16 Jul 24, 2010
they wanna get wit this
M7BabyKitten

Huntersville, NC

#17 Aug 9, 2012
need an answer wrote:
I think it is more common for married men to desire another woman, maybe even cheat. But what is it about a married man that an asstranged women would want? Ofcourse the men usually accept the strange, but why take the chance (either of them) creating drama and disfuntion or ruining a family?Do women want be with a man who is already taken or committed? Why do women purposly seek out and prefer married men?


I particularily find married men attractive because they, for the most part, are trained to have a sense of responsibility to the family they have at home by the wife.(As if women don't "train" their husbands before you marry them, to teach a man respect and love and how to take care of the family..you know I'm right) Bottom line is that they seem responsible after they get their wedding ring. Responsibility is largely attractive but If I knew he was married, I wouldn't mess with a married man because I have a responsibility and respect to my own self. I have been single for many years and have had married men hit on me, but I never done anything with them to disrespect myself. Responsibility is also attractive if the married man can keep his wife and kids. If I knew a married man wanted to cheat with me; I would drop him like a hot potato...because he's lost my respect. Flirting can only go so far, for that very reason. Respect. If you don't love and respect yourself before finding anyone else; you are hopeless in finding true love.

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