mothers that put guys b-4 their children

wonder how the kids feel

probaly like there nothin, theres a bunch of crapie moms like that n this town. I feel so sorry for all the children that has to deal with it. You know they notice it

Yeah, it's a sad situation. They should have thought about how having a kid changes your life. The kid should be the number one priority & not themselves.

90%just want the checks off the kids a got of mother dont need they kids some of thier dads are better parents the laws just arent far to everyone to bad for the children but the courts dont care either the judges dont want to listen or see anything

lot of the mothers are just big w hores that use the men they are using the system

for years I watched men come and go,even was encouraged to call some daddy,I hated all of them.Mom would promise when they left that she would never take them back but time after time she did.It finally got to where I didn't believe anything she said when I turned 18 I leftmnow I have a good life and I know I would never put ANYONE before my kids

props to survivor! Glad to here from the inside and keep up the good work! this world needs more like ya.

to survivor thats my grandkids problem right now one man today another next week and she dont care

conserned wrote:

wonder how the kids feel

i use to b n that positon a long time ago it sucks but i cant say it got to much better even tho at least now she nos i igsist.

i loce my kids with all of my heart and soul and being. no man is worth the lose of my babies. me and my kids have been throu hell. i love them dearly.

I dont get it, there isnt a man alive worth not putting your kids first. The ones who drive me crazy is the one who allows the new man to punish or tell their kids what to do. I mean hello they arent their daddy, you are the mom stand up for yourself and your kids and raise your kids.

There are several women who put their kids last and that is something I don't understand. To me there is no one or nothing on this earth that will come before my children except my Lord and Savior Jesus christ. These women need to get their priorities in line and kick these men aside and do whts right for their kids.

The reason these women put a man before their children is simple,they love themselves more than their kids.They want to be happy and it doesnt matter if the kids are happy or not.They will take the food out of their own childrens mouths to feed a drug habit for their man,They will send their kids to someone elses home in order to give them more time with their men.They allow the man to talk to their kids in any way they want and never open their mouths to defend the kid.Watch your TV,there's a story every week of a live-in boyfriend that rapes,and even murders some womans child.But then it's to late to give a damn about the kid, Yet you see her in tears,consern came to late.

I agree with you. I have someone in my family that is this way.....She would rather put her kids through hell then to put them first. Its really sadf

in tazewell wrote:

lot of the mothers are just big w hores that use the men they are using the system

would her name be vanessa S.

I say...I say.....There are a lot of spoiled children around these here parts that needs to let they're Moms have a life too!! I say, Do you think your Momma should have to give up her entire life to hold your hand, wipe your butt, wash your clothes, clean your room for you?? I say...I say...when a child reaches the 7th grade he/she should be given chores to do and expected to get them done in a reasonable amount of time. I say, then maybe you could be rewarded with an allowance based on how well those chores are completed. If'n...If'n....ya ask me there are way too many pansy assed Moms around who let the kids decide everything that happens, never lift a finger to help with anything around the house, are about as fat as a barn because all they do is lay around doing nothing and want dear mother to think that they know everything there is to know about life.

I say......I say.....its about time some of these "moms" get some backbone and let they're kids know where they're place is in the home, start punishing the children when needed and start teaching responsibility by example because if'n ya don't, you ain't never gonna have no life of your own.

Thank you...

Foghorn Leghorn wrote:

I say...I say.....There are a lot of spoiled children around these here parts that needs to let they're Moms have a life too!! I say, Do you think your Momma should have to give up her entire life to hold your hand, wipe your butt, wash your clothes, clean your room for you?? I say...I say...when a child reaches the 7th grade he/she should be given chores to do and expected to get them done in a reasonable amount of time. I say, then maybe you could be rewarded with an allowance based on how well those chores are completed. If'n...If'n....ya ask me there are way too many pansy assed Moms around who let the kids decide everything that happens, never lift a finger to help with anything around the house, are about as fat as a barn because all they do is lay around doing nothing and want dear mother to think that they know everything there is to know about life.
I say......I say.....its about time some of these "moms" get some backbone and let they're kids know where they're place is in the home, start punishing the children when needed and start teaching responsibility by example because if'n ya don't, you ain't never gonna have no life of your own.
Thank you...

Well I agree with you children need to be taught responsibility but that aint what this threads about.....I dont care how old the child is a mother doesnt need to put a man before them.Thats just not what a mother does

my mother has been with guys. im use to that. but she fell head over heels with this one guy. he is my sisters dad and he was really nice to me. i had no problems with him. but one night he kissed me while she was sleeping. i told my very close friend who lives next door then she came with me to tell my mom. when we told my mom i was in tears. i knew this guy was just testing to see if i would tell and i didnt want it to go any further. when i told my mom she was in shock and called the guy. he immediately came from work (which he usually doesnt do no matter how many times u call him) she confronted me (she stood on his side facing me) and asked him what happen. he lied through his teeth and i caught him in the lies. my mother at this point was still standing by his side. then he took off his coat to hit me and i ran and got things to hit him. my mom still on his side and trying to pull him away. i was ready to fight. i ran him to the door and he left. long story short i spoke to a d.a etc and later found out my mom told them she didnt want to take the case any further. i just received an order of protection. then all the stories came out from my mom friend (who no longer talk to her) and how my mom was telling them she thought i wanted her boyfriend and previous boyfriends. I was 16/17. I have always been hurt since then. when my mother and i argue i bring things like that up. now she is still with the guy and is pregnant again for him. though i dont think he wants the child.(and she hasnt told me word of mouth. i accidently bumped into one of her text messages and notice how different she is acting) she still tells me things like how thanks me to everything is ruined or how i ruined their relationship with my "lies". it hurts so much and i have so much anger build up. HOW COULD YOUR OWN PARENT NOT BELIEVE YOU WHEN IT COMES TO SOMETHING LIKE THAT? i am just thankful he didnt get to hurt me any further.

when i was younger after my parents got a divorce my mom went through a bunch of diff. men she ,married this guy that was a drunk and alcoholic and he was verbal, emotional, and physical abusive my mom divorced him, than married him again and the abuse was worse. When I was 17 she got with this guy that was a creep and perv. and tried to put the moves on me and i told my mom but it was my fault always, now she believes that i slept with the men and was doing drugs with him. I got away from that and moved in with my dad where I finished high school and I stopped talking to my mom for a little bit until she called me boohooing saying that she was sorry and it will never happen again. After I graduated school I moved back in with my mom and she got with this one guy which was the best guy for her. Now I am, 21 and have a very good husband and we are expecting and just recently my mom broke up with the guy that was good for and went back to the alcoholic guy ( I told her I was done with this). She left the alcohlic guy and got back with the guy that was good for her and they just recently got married but now my mom wants me to come crawling back and be bffs again and I cant I wont for my families sake and my sake, but In her eyes I'm being the disrespectful brat. What she dont understand is that I have a family that I have to protect and a daughter that will be here in december to keep away from that crap.

i dont understand wrote:

I dont get it, there isnt a man alive worth not putting your kids first. The ones who drive me crazy is the one who allows the new man to punish or tell their kids what to do. I mean hello they arent their daddy, you are the mom stand up for yourself and your kids and raise your kids.

like me!! My mother let her redneck bf call us names and hit us even tho we where very well behaved kids and nothing he wud hit us for wud not have been cus we wher brats as they liked to call us if I ever broke up with my partner and met someone new no way in hell wud he lift a finger to my kids !!!! My mother had lots of issues anyways, she is a whore narcisstic and a cheat she cheated on tht guy and had a baby wih another hu was a perv but she still let him live in a house with us leering at us not caring if he raped is thank goodness that didnt happen now she's on her own