the chatroom 4 girls with boy problems

there is this guy and i love him even though i have only known him 4 2 years (btw im 13) and yesterday my friend told my that he didnt like me n e more

just be honest and ask him if he still has feeligs for you

lol...this funny

So I have this boyfriend for almost a year & everything is perfect when we're with each other alone, but when we get in front of other people he acts totally different. I'm 18 and he's 16 so yes there is an age difference, but I don't care about that. & I do everything for him, but I don't feel like he cares. His friends tell me he does and I feel like it alone, but not all the time. I will sit at his wrestling meets for 8 hours at a time and never get a thank you. I can't be without him, but I don't know how much longer I can do it...
what should I do?

Hey okay so I really like this guy from another school that my friend introduced me to. When we were introduced, me, that friend, him, and two other friends (both girls) went sledding. So I like him a lot, but he told one of those other girls we went sledding with he liked her, and I found out all 3 of us like him. It's really hard bc I felt so special, and then I find out hes texting and doing the same thing with other girls! So his twin told him I like him and then he said he wasnt sure that he liked that girl who he told he liked, and wanted to get to know all three of us b4 he decided. I really like him, but is it worth it for me possibly getting hurt if he chooses them? I just feel really stupid for like being one of those girls who falls for him and then has to wait. HELP!

Theres this boy i like named Sam and a few days ago i wrote him a love letter but i put it in the wrong locker so i feel rlly embarrased. Few days later he finds out that i like him and the whole love letter thing so now he keeps on ignoring me and everyone keeps asking him if he likes me and he said he doesnt know so i feel like he doesnt care and doesnt know his answer and i dont want to bother him what do i do?

Yes:/ could u help me?

I'm having some boy problems

Girls out in the snob alley known as Chicago's collar county area better really straighten themselves up and change their twisted snobby attitudes around and learn to be nice to other people, otherwise they'll be having boy problems every single time they are out in the community!

just avoid him for the name sake before him.....go for him all the time.....but dont forget to avoid him in front of him.....make him jelous on u.....b happy....:)

Hi sarah how r u my name is waqas baig will u friend ship with me im waiting ok my num is 03343164150

i really like this guy and hes in my tutor group. i asked him out last year and i got embarressed and walked off so my friend asked him for me. he said no and now i feel really awkward around him. i want to ask him out this year but im afraid he will just say no again. what should i do???

Cristina wrote:

does any1 have any problems?

(please read this and help me out)
arrrghhh!! I have a boy problem and its really bothering me!!!!!!!

There's this guy and he's takes the bus with me sometimes (although i havent seen him on the bus for a while) he asked me for my number as a joke, and like he came upto me with his friend and they began teasing me asking me to get off with them and go for a walk and like give them my number, and all i did was just be soo quiet rather than laugh and joke and show him attitude (which is what i should of done) then the next day i saw him again and he was trying to grab up conversations but i was so quiet i was just UGH!!! SUCH AN IDIOT I BARELY REACTED!!!!!.. My bestfriend became good pals with him because she is confident and they talked a few times!! He was being so sweet the 2nd time i saw him..!! Like i took my glasses out my bag and he tried them on and everything..!!!!
Then i hadnt seen him for a while, i thought he'd forgotten about me, but i saw him like 2-3 weeks later in the bus and he was staring constantly and when he was getting of he asked to take me on a date but not literally, more of a flirty jokey way.. and basically thats what happened again, i saw him on the bus and he would stare and flirt..:/ after that the next time he was onthe bus he didnt talk he talked to my mates and his friends, he looked at me like 2-3 times but thats it.. I

I started liking him ALOT!!!!!! My friend said he REALLY liked me but she doesnt knw abt now because although he stares all the time he doesnt talk, he has a really serious look on his face!!

The problem here is that his ex happens to be a right cow!! She liked him when i did and she tried to get it out of me but thankgod i didnt tell her (i actually thought she tried setting me up with him, but no she was trying to find out if i liked him so she could ruin my life if i did) then some rumours spread (long story) about the fact that apparently i purposely take the bus for him and stalk him!! then her cheeky little brother started to piss me off by telling people that i stalk that guy!! Which is all SHIT!!!!!
Anyways i dont knw if he likes me anymore because i saw him yesterday after almost more than 4 months, although it feels like its only been a couple weeks.. He was staring at me constantly, my friends told me! I reaally really like him, but i dont knw if he only likes my looks, or if he just stares just coz he notices me and remembers what happened between us ages ago, or because he likes me???!!!!! I dnt have any way to talk to him.. Im not allowed facebook, i dnt want to add him on msn coz he'll be like how the hell did she get my msn and i am NOT gonna talk to him in public because i could get into alot of shit if i do (long story).. Pleeeaaassseee help meee!!!!!! Im so upset and i cant get him out of my head.. he thinks im an idiot i bet because i was so weird and quiet and ARRRGGHHHH!!! I WISH I TALKED TO HIM!!! WE WOULD HAVE BEEN FRIENDS BY NOW!!:'''''(

Hey guys so I have a friend that I work with him I go to school with him he's two years older then me but that's not the problem the problem is that I like him like so much and I want to date him so badly but I really don't know if he likes me back but I'm also scared that if I tell him my feelings for him that he won't like me back and that will crush mee!!!!! Please write back I really need to know what to do!

hey

well i was good friends with a guy and we started going out things were ok but i found out he was cheating on me with his x after 4 months i moved and a couple months later moved back we started talking and we got back together and it was like everything was perfect he was perfect well i got in a car accident an the first two days he wouldnt leave my side then i didn't hear form him in a weekand when i called he wouldnt answer and now i found out tht he was cheating on me with mmy best friend but they make me feel like its my fault and idk wat to do he didn't call me back or anything after i called him on it and my friend says its me not doing him right

Theres this boy and he wants me to give him a blow job and he wants of finger me but I'm 13 is that to young? I'm not looking or lose my virginity till 15 or so but anyway m sorta scared I case it goes around and stuff what should I do? I want to get it over and done with I've tossed a boy off before but that was with a boy I've know for ages from a different city so what do you suggest and the boy that wants to do all this stuff goes to my school and hes in yr11& He's 16 in 2 weeks time and he's had sex loads what shall I do?

Hey everyone i need some boy advice.
So, ever since the 4th grade theres this guy that like totally likes me (told me hes loved me ever since he saw me- lets say his name is Louis), but the thing is, i dont like him back. and now that hes JUST started to realize that, he's avoiding me everywhere: i dont see him anymore (we were pretty good friends once), he blocked me on FB, and hes totally changing... cussing and doing all these things he wouldnt normally do. and hes just the beginning.
I really, really like this other guy- lets say his name's Ron. Ron is amazing, and itd take to long for me to describe him. he told me a while ago that he likes me back, and he was sweet in saying he wanted me to be his valentine this past february, but lately hes been avoiding me... we used to make eye contact a lot and talk and email but he hasnt looked at me in a LONG time and stopped talking to me and ignoring my emails... what's this about??
and another guy- Ron's best friend,(lets say Danny) and hes a MAJOR player. he SAYS he likes me, but he also told two/three other girls the same thing. hes been trying to ask me out, but i dont want to since 1, i like Ron, 2, hes a HUGE player. so how do i stop this thing but still keep our friendship?
one more question: how do i get the bravery to talk to Ron and maybe ask him to dance (theres a dance on saturday)? we're both really shy and its kinda hard to keep a conversation going between us cus we're really that shy. help?!?

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Theres this boy and he wants me to give him a blow job and he wants of finger me but I'm 13 is that to young? I'm not looking or lose my virginity till 15 or so but anyway m sorta scared I case it goes around and stuff what should I do? I want to get it over and done with I've tossed a boy off before but that was with a boy I've know for ages from a different city so what do you suggest and the boy that wants to do all this stuff goes to my school and hes in yr11& He's 16 in 2 weeks time and he's had sex loads what shall I do?

Three words: DONT DO IT. thats all that needs saying, mkay? girl you are only 13!!! DON'T. FRIGGIN. DO. IT.

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