same boat

Morristown, TN

#2 Aug 20, 2012
I am in the same boat. My step child has lived iwth us for a year and the mom still gets food stamps. Go figure. Also the child support goes to her and the child support office tells us that they must have something from the school stating hte child is registered in the area which we live to be able to stop the child support. LOL he is only 28 months old.
i know

Morristown, TN

#3 Aug 22, 2012
My best friend is raising her step kid. She loves her like no other. Takes much more care of her than her own parents ever did. People say stereotype things about stepparents but my best friend is awesome with her stepdaughter. She is raising her single handed. The dad and step mom divorced and my best friend got custody. The mom was no good to begin with and when they got divorced my best friend and her ex went to court. It wasnt about money either because my best friend is not rich by any means but she showed the court that she provided for her just as much as dad did if not more, so she got custody. The dad sees her everyday and then gets her every other weekend but Iwish people would not stereotype steparents. This child is taken care of very well. And yeah dad and step mom get along great.
its true

Morristown, TN

#4 Aug 27, 2012
i know wrote:
My best friend is raising her step kid. She loves her like no other. Takes much more care of her than her own parents ever did. People say stereotype things about stepparents but my best friend is awesome with her stepdaughter. She is raising her single handed. The dad and step mom divorced and my best friend got custody. The mom was no good to begin with and when they got divorced my best friend and her ex went to court. It wasnt about money either because my best friend is not rich by any means but she showed the court that she provided for her just as much as dad did if not more, so she got custody. The dad sees her everyday and then gets her every other weekend but Iwish people would not stereotype steparents. This child is taken care of very well. And yeah dad and step mom get along great.
I know a couple of examples of people who gave birth to their kids but fail to nurture and love them. One case I know of the father got the kids and has done real well. Another case I know is the step dad got the kids because the blood parents did nothing for the kids except sit on their asses, snort pills and sleep around. kids were left unattended or put in a car with someone who got pulled over for dui and got charged for drugs. the kid was in the car when it happened and if the step dad hadnt come and got the kid then the kid would have been a ward of the state. To many lazy ass bitches laying down to pop the kids out but not wanting the responsibility.
lol

Morristown, TN

#5 Aug 27, 2012
Do you not realize that anyone with half a fu**ing brain can clearly see that you're responding to yourself? Are you really that godda*MN retarded?
its true

Morristown, TN

#6 Aug 27, 2012
Wtf? I just saw this dam thread
uptee

Morristown, TN

#7 Aug 27, 2012
I feel sorry for the kids when they are just born for someone to get a free ride.
its true

Morristown, TN

#8 Aug 28, 2012
me to Uptee. some just pop them out for the food stamps and support.
A true mom

Morristown, TN

#9 Aug 31, 2012
I also know a family where the dad and step-mom have custody of the kids, the birth mom got child support and custody of them, and provided no care whatsoever for them, the dad and step-mom fought for and finally got custody. The step-mom is a true mom to the kids, she loves them dearly, and they love her and call her mom. They never see their birth mom and don't want to! Giving birth does not make a mother, caring and loving them is what makes a true mom.

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