men who cheat on their girlfriends, right or wrong, scum or king?

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annonymous

Dandridge, TN

#1 Dec 24, 2009
I WANT I want to know what people think of this. I know this lady who is about 35 years old. She has been with this man for 4 years. Their relationship is always good until 3 women place telephone calls to him. They lie on his girlfriend who has never met them. She herself has told these women to stay out of their relationship, yet they dont. It has hurt her so deeply, that it physically makes her ill. The sad part is, is that he always gets caught and he always tries to lie his way out of it. He even sends them gifts and flowers and doesnt do anything nice for her. She takes good care of him when he is sick and she is good to him, and she loves him. Personally, I would dump his ass and let the homewreckers put up with it. The women know about it, but they like to have affairs with married men. The women know about the girlfriend and obviously dont give a damn about who it hurts or what damage they cause. One of these women he had an affair with when he was married before. That cost him a lot. She really loves him, but I dont think she needs this kind of relationship. Its mean and cruel to hurt her like that. Please give this woman some advise, because I am not doing a good job of convincing her that their is another man out their that will love her and appreciate her. She is a beautiful woman and the women he plays around with are, well, lets just say, gross.
reality-check

Kingsport, TN

#2 Dec 26, 2009
whoever annoymous is talking about... if you wont listen to her, then please listen to us other women who have been there and know how it is to live in constant torture. love a man that you know cheats on you and just takes advantage of the fact that you do love him. you sound like a woman that any man "should" be thankful to have. you are better than this.. kick him to the curb.. and yew... I know ,, easier said than done.. i know..and you amy think u just cant live without him... well guess what honey! I am here to tell you that YES U CAN!!! and you will be a better person for it! you need to find ur self-respect that has evidently been stomped on all these years!!he aint the only fish in the seay! sounds to me like he is more of a "pond" scum bottom feeder type carp than anything you would ever find in the "sea" ... so girl... again i say... kick his ass to the curb!
My story

Morristown, TN

#3 Dec 26, 2009
I have found over the years men seem to be hot after some skank that is out chasing or is being chased by someone else. If they have a good woman or girl friend, that isn't good enough, they want some low life woman, plain and simple. I have notice there are alot of guys who could have found happiness with someone that truely loved them and was good to them and instead they opt out for some trash and they will sit around like whooped up mourning over the fact she crapped on him. I really think most of the guys who fall into the woman chaser mode as really insecure dumbasses who are always looking for a better piece of tail.

Since: Mar 09

Morristown, TN

#4 Dec 26, 2009
My story wrote:
I have found over the years men seem to be hot after some skank that is out chasing or is being chased by someone else. If they have a good woman or girl friend, that isn't good enough, they want some low life woman, plain and simple. I have notice there are alot of guys who could have found happiness with someone that truely loved them and was good to them and instead they opt out for some trash and they will sit around like whooped up mourning over the fact she crapped on him. I really think most of the guys who fall into the woman chaser mode as really insecure dumbasses who are always looking for a better piece of tail.
That's true. Alot of women are the same way. If she wont see it for herself or listen to anyone, it's her own fault though.
Enoch

Morristown, TN

#5 Dec 26, 2009
Not all men cheat
2centz

Morristown, TN

#6 Dec 26, 2009
If you keep putting up with a cheater, he's always going to cheat because he's getting away with it.
Set some standards for who you want to be with and live by them.
If cheating is not on your list of standards, don't tolerate it.
By letting it go, you're just making yourself miserable. A cheater doesn't care even about the ones he or she cheats with...it's all in the thrill of the game.
Trust me on this one, I know for a fact.
lazysuzzy

Washington, DC

#7 Feb 2, 2010
2centz makes sense! I suggest ALL study the history of marriage and non-Christian/Judeo cultural views regarding the importance/non-importance of love,sex,power. Oh, do not forget Greco/Roman views (for a real shock/laugh) on marriage (for procreation- NOT LOVE folks)!
Hard way

Morristown, TN

#8 Feb 3, 2010
The day I found myself looking in the mirror, tired, with dark circles around my eyes and realizing I never had a smile on my face. When I found myself for the hundredth time checking on where he was and who he was with, I took a long hard look at myself and said is this what a relationship is about? Anytime
you have to worry or feel something isn't right in a relationship, it doesn't change, it gets worse so get out early and find someone who will care about YOU. Life is way too short and such things can take it's toll on your appearance and YOUR HEALTH.
lovemoto

United States

#9 Feb 3, 2010
I wouldn't stay with someone who cheated on me.
I don't buy "the relationship was fine until 3 women started calling."
Some people will cheat no matter what...some people will never cheat.... but most people,(male or female) if they are unhappy in a relationship, will find someone to be happy with...sometimes we do things to drive our partners away or we just change and fall out of love. It happens! Pick yourself up, learn from it and move on with your life!

Since: Nov 09

Morristown, TN

#10 Feb 3, 2010
She needs to stop and ask herself if she has any respect for this man, and, if not, how can she really love him anymore?

Love without respect is just pity, and that's a sad way to live.

Since: Mar 09

Knoxville, TN

#11 Feb 3, 2010
In a word, "WRONG".
Good question

Morristown, TN

#12 Feb 3, 2010
I know a woman (yes a woman not a teen not a 30 something) but a woman who is now in her mid 50's who's never been nothing but a cheater. She owned a tanning bed salon, got one b/f to help her go in business, all the time she was out hanky panking with another guy - a real user. She suckered in a poor dumb ass who stuck with her for 7 years and what - she screwed around 4 different times with 4 different men. Everytime she got caught apparently she would go off with her new conquest for a month or two - then guess what - she was at the former boyfriends down on her knees begging him to take her back. AND guess what - he took her back and it wasn't until the last time when he caught her in another cheating lie. So the moral to this story is if you have a Kat in the Hat, the first time that bitch or anyone else screws around on - dump their a** and move on - who wants to spend their life playing that game? There are way too many fish in the water and not all of them are a carp.
monica

Morristown, TN

#13 Feb 3, 2010
how can anyone say cheating is king? you've got to be kidding me.
Sol Sixxa

United States

#14 Feb 3, 2010
My best advice is to start having better taste in men.

Women have no right to complain about what they have until they start choosing better.

I don't know why but women are so stuck on having men that give off the "bad boy" impression. It's a trick that some guys pull, and women will eat it up every time. Well, sometimes in this world of ours, you get exactly what you wish for - bad men.

Then they come to messageboards posing as their own friends asking for someone else to give them advice or bail them out.
okay

Morristown, TN

#15 Feb 3, 2010
Sol Sixxa wrote:
My best advice is to start having better taste in men.
Women have no right to complain about what they have until they start choosing better.
I don't know why but women are so stuck on having men that give off the "bad boy" impression. It's a trick that some guys pull, and women will eat it up every time. Well, sometimes in this world of ours, you get exactly what you wish for - bad men.
Then they come to messageboards posing as their own friends asking for someone else to give them advice or bail them out.
sometimes women make mistakes...that "BAD BOY" thing is fun for awhile..I'm just glad I found out before I screw up my whole life!!
dumbinrusselvill e

United States

#16 Feb 4, 2010
Women are just as bad to cheat as men are......it takes 2.....ppl dont have to just settle like I did with the Safety Director at a nursing home.....I found out he had cheated on every woman he had ever been with....That made me feel like a dumbass>>>> but he's a smooth talker and likes attention from any woman that will look his way....I was blind just like a lot of men are....Thank God i wisened up before he done me like lots of women he's been with.....But when i cheated with him and he was married at the time I done wrong by listening to all the sad stories of how his past women had done him......It wasn't them by far, I found out it was him but he wants ppl to feel sorry for him to get what he wants....Im glad I found a Good man that dont play me for the fool that I have allowed myself to be played for......Men and women both can be cheaters if they allow that in their lives......they are insecure....Be happy with what you have because it may end u lots worse than you have it now.....before you cheat make sure they aren't married or in a relationship.....that can hurt everyone.......IF THEY WILL DO IT WITH YOU......THEY WILL DO IT 2 YOU.
denise

Morristown, TN

#17 Feb 4, 2010
Enoch wrote:
Not all men cheat
how true it is!!!!!!!!!!
Yummy

Morristown, TN

#18 Feb 5, 2010
I love married men. And yes ladies if your man is married look out because I will take him from you. The chase of getting in bed with a married man is so much fun. A young foxy lady like myself can take any of your married men away.
Obviously a relic

Morristown, TN

#19 Feb 5, 2010
Yummy wrote:
I love married men. And yes ladies if your man is married look out because I will take him from you. The chase of getting in bed with a married man is so much fun. A young foxy lady like myself can take any of your married men away.
Any??? I'm a married man and you could never have me. The whole nasty skank thing doesn't do it for me. ANY married man that is worth a d*mn would agree. Sorry 'yummy', looks like your stuck screwing all the losers.
Rville

Jonesborough, TN

#20 Feb 5, 2010
Yummy wrote:
I love married men. And yes ladies if your man is married look out because I will take him from you. The chase of getting in bed with a married man is so much fun. A young foxy lady like myself can take any of your married men away.
That is true, I am a man and I guarantee that any man will cheat given the right circumstances.

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