any good women out there

i'm a white male 36 years old. I'm looking to see if there is any good women out there who want a real relationship. I don't drink, don't use tobacco, no drugs. If interested please write back. thanks

hi, i'd be interested in talking to you. shoot me an email at jesusheals43@yahoo.com

i live down the shore, and most of the women here are LESBIANS. and the ones that seem to be STRAIGHT, have a VERY BAD ATTITUDE PROBLEM and are CERTAINLY VERY HARD TO TALK TOO. they think that their SHIT DON'T STINK. it is so very hard, for us GOOD STRAIGHT MEN that are really looking to meet a GOOD STRAIGHT WOMAN for us now. i would love to hear from the GOOD STRAIGHT WOMEN TODAY.

mike says wrote:

i live down the shore, and most of the women here are LESBIANS. and the ones that seem to be STRAIGHT, have a VERY BAD ATTITUDE PROBLEM and are CERTAINLY VERY HARD TO TALK TOO. they think that their SHIT DON'T STINK. it is so very hard, for us GOOD STRAIGHT MEN that are really looking to meet a GOOD STRAIGHT WOMAN for us now. i would love to hear from the GOOD STRAIGHT WOMEN TODAY.

I can see why you have problems in the relationship department. Try a little positive attitude yourself. A smile can take you a long way.:)

Lonely wrote:

i'm a white male 36 years old. I'm looking to see if there is any good women out there who want a real relationship. I don't drink, don't use tobacco, no drugs. If interested please write back. thanks

If you have lots of money, a nice car, or several nice cars, and your own place, which must be nice also, and can spend all kinds of money on a girl, then you can find your very own "good woman" today!

If not, take a number, and get in line with the rest of us men that are sick of what we are seeing out there. I know what's important to women these days. And if a man doesn't have it, then we are disqualified. You women out there, you can respond and debate this till the end of time , it's not gonna change what you're doing, how you're going about things-

and it sure as hell isn't going to change the fact that, many other men before and after me, agree. I just have it in me to say it. And I'm not sorry. Until one of you out there can show us you can take a day off from being dishonest, shady, gold-digging, and greedy, and promiscuous, then there really is nothing to discuss.

jkm429 wrote:

<quoted text>If you have lots of money, a nice car, or several nice cars, and your own place, which must be nice also, and can spend all kinds of money on a girl, then you can find your very own "good woman" today!

If not, take a number, and get in line with the rest of us men that are sick of what we are seeing out there. I know what's important to women these days. And if a man doesn't have it, then we are disqualified. You women out there, you can respond and debate this till the end of time , it's not gonna change what you're doing, how you're going about things-

and it sure as hell isn't going to change the fact that, many other men before and after me, agree. I just have it in me to say it. And I'm not sorry. Until one of you out there can show us you can take a day off from being dishonest, shady, gold-digging, and greedy, and promiscuous, then there really is nothing to discuss.

You must be shopping in the wrong department. If you date trash you get drama queens, gold-digging pill popping greedy tramps. Look for responsible women who avoid drama at all costs and know what they want in life.

I seldom agree with JKM, but this time he has it right. I hear all the time about women complaining they cant find a good man, Or "all men are the same". I'll clue you ladies in....The good ones are staying single because of the female attitude that is prevelent in todays woman! We have to have a job,car,house,bank account,no child support payments to our previous kids,And kiss your A55.All of these things are a minimum plus any other requirements you place on us. Im sure most you females are gonna dispute this,but its what we men see.

Working man wrote:

I seldom agree with JKM, but this time he has it right. I hear all the time about women complaining they cant find a good man, Or "all men are the same". I'll clue you ladies in....The good ones are staying single because of the female attitude that is prevelent in todays woman! We have to have a job,car,house,bank account,no child support payments to our previous kids,And kiss your A55.All of these things are a minimum plus any other requirements you place on us. Im sure most you females are gonna dispute this,but its what we men see.

I don't dispute it at all. I do want a man that can support himself. I don't want a deadbeat loser who has nothing to offer. Just honest. So dispute that...

IMO, I am a professional woman and mother. I do very well for myself financially and pretty much work my ass of for my kids. I do it all, pay the bills, care for kids, do outside work, etc. Not to mention my kids are little. I "tolerate" their father to keep him in their lives, but honestly, for the most part, he is useless. He can't keep a job, still lives with his parents, has NEVER taken me out on a date that I didn't have to buy my own meal, never drives to any family events I plan for our kids, lies about everything, steals, etc. I keep putting up with him for the sake of keeping my kids father in their lives. I confess I wish I had a man with money to take me out and buy my dinner maybe once a month, or even buy me something for christmas or my birthday (he bought me something one time a few years ago but stole it back when I was at work). I'm so sick of it and would give anything to be treated like a lady for once. I don't consider myself ugly, don't consider myself a gold digger. I just want to be made to feel like a lady that someone actually cares about. I want to exchange gifts at holidays, want a surprise meal made for me when I have worked a 12 hour shift, etc. I may be stupid for letting him stay in my life and not moving on, but I don't want my kids to grow up without their dad like I did. They love him to death as they are too little to know what I know. Even though he is a job bouncing, stealing, lieing, pretty much useless man. Wow, that is the first time I've confessed this out loud. You can judge me how you want, but I do good for myself and my kids without a man, but it sure would be nice to be made to feel like a princess for once. BTW, he fed me full of lies when I first met him..lies about why he was living with his parents (said he just moved here and was in process of looking for a house, said he had his job for the last year, which I later found out was a lie, etc).

female wrote:

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I don't dispute it at all. I do want a man that can support himself. I don't want a deadbeat loser who has nothing to offer. Just honest. So dispute that...

Allow me, by all means, allow me to dispute this. Just please promise us your retort will be more creative. There's a difference in a man that can support himself and a deadbeat, lazy guy that won't do anything, won't make a move, but you're painting the gap between the two to be way wider than it actually is.

At YOUR own convenience, to beat all. The way it best serves YOU, or any other female that would pose this argument. Take for example a guy that has income sufficient enough to pay rent, electric, cable, internet, but cannot afford a car, yet can still provide gas money. But just for the sole fact he doesn't have a vehicle, you would paint him in the same light as a so called "deadbeat?"

And then of course you'd move on to the next guy who has the money, AND the car, you have your cake and it eat too. Only to find that Mr. so called hot-shot bails out, then you have 3 or 4 kids, and are alone in your 30/40s, and by then, what are us men supposed to do? Grovel at your feet begging for you to finally give us a chance you finally tell us yes????

Let me put it another way. "I don't want a deadbeat man who has nothing to offer." This could be interpreted in several different ways, but to me and most likely others of my male species, it stinks to high hell of "gold digger." So why not do us a favor, and explain to us what you mean by "what a man has to offer."

If it's money, then you've proven me right yet again. Money cannot buy love. It can however, buy sex. Just , guys out there that start thinking when I say that, don't do it in Ashland. I was up there for awhile, and alotta women up there look like they ain't bathed in days. And that's the non-hookers, for starters. I gotta give the women in Morehead at least this much credit. They look cleaner.

Now let's see some of them act cleaner......

Hello lonely are you still looking?

it is funny that a man would say that when he is lookin for the hottie that he thinks is barbie.... mostly the men i have met want a woman to support him and pay the bills while he goes to bars or hang with his buddies, the men want a quick lay and that is about it.... they don't want a relationship but they still expect women to be it all.... there are attitudes in men that make women feel the way we do also..... sorry to disagree with the men here but that is what i have run across in this world so far... we expect a man to be a man and they expect us to lower our standards while they expect us to be perfect...

lonely wrote:

it is funny that a man would say that when he is lookin for the hottie that he thinks is barbie.... mostly the men i have met want a woman to support him and pay the bills while he goes to bars or hang with his buddies, the men want a quick lay and that is about it.... they don't want a relationship but they still expect women to be it all.... there are attitudes in men that make women feel the way we do also..... sorry to disagree with the men here but that is what i have run across in this world so far... we expect a man to be a man and they expect us to lower our standards while they expect us to be perfect...

I'm not expecting you to be perfect, honey. I'm still waiting on you to email me.

to okie dokie, lonely is my screen name on here i put this ad up for my brother. He didn't feel like he could attract a lady due to him having a syndrome ...... Treacher collins syndrome.... it runs in our genes.... i'm his sister.... but i'm still tryin to get him to get his courage up to write u and at least talk and see what u think of him....

1 thing is for sure the pickins are slim around here less ya want a dope head

single guy wrote:

1 thing is for sure the pickins are slim around here less ya want a dope head

how old are you single guy?

I was single 4 years ago and I have to tell you...a good man is hard to find and I'm sure its the same for women.

Most men out there who DO WORK are looking for a bootie call...not a relationship.

Men say all women are looking for is a man with a good job, a good house, a nice car.....No what we are looking for is a man who has his stuff together who wishes to share his life with a woman who has her stuff together.

When I was looking, I wasn't looking for a daddy, or a man to support me (I was doing fine on my own)OR for a man to be my kids daddy ...I was looking for someone who could take care of themselves....didn't need me...but rather WANTED ME.

There are good women out there...they just aren't in the business of taking care of a grown man.

hey single guy email me i would love to talk i dont drink or do drugs im a mommy of 2 and thats all i do is take care of them how old are you?

jkm429 wrote:

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If you have lots of money, a nice car, or several nice cars, and your own place, which must be nice also, and can spend all kinds of money on a girl, then you can find your very own "good woman" today!
If not, take a number, and get in line with the rest of us men that are sick of what we are seeing out there. I know what's important to women these days. And if a man doesn't have it, then we are disqualified. You women out there, you can respond and debate this till the end of time , it's not gonna change what you're doing, how you're going about things-
and it sure as hell isn't going to change the fact that, many other men before and after me, agree. I just have it in me to say it. And I'm not sorry. Until one of you out there can show us you can take a day off from being dishonest, shady, gold-digging, and greedy, and promiscuous, then there really is nothing to discuss.

All thats important to me is a good attitude, considerate, and someone that has a full-time job. They dont have to be rich by any means but I still have a hard time finding this person.

Yeah its hard to even talk to someone anymore :(