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Apr 16, 2007
 
Cherokee lady wrote:
<quoted text> Yes Rebeca you are right about the speaking in tongues. My son did not "receive the gift of speaking in tongues". His counselor told him AND ME that "anyone can have the gift, but your son is REBELLIOUS and refuses the gift!"... They would circle around him at their private church meetings (not the "water-downed" ones on Sunday for public to attend) and he said they would rub oil on his head and scream and call out demons to try to get him to speak in tongues.(like the Jesus Camp you referred to.) They began to ostracize him when he did not speak, and even put him in in "behavior modification" where he was not allowed to speak to others. Also, the time (weeks) he was in behavior mod was added to the time he had to serve to "complete the program". You are also right about the recruitment pressure. They told him that they were building the "true army of god" and god would show them which ones to weed out.And they tell everyone that god called them to do another 1 year training called TCMI for Teen Challenge after they do their 1 year 4 months (more time usually due to behavior modification time-outs). AND they don't believe in other secular rehabs, so if you indicate that you would like to be referred to another program, they believe that it's better to be in prison (to be broken for "Jesus") than lovingly work with referring you to another program. All they have to do is LIE to probation and say you were "non-compliant" and fail you. It IS SCARY how they mis-use their power. I believe it's because it's not regulated. And they make so much money from being paid from the work the residents do (my son was working at least 3 different jobs) plus because they are "religious" the donations are non-taxable income...Anyway, it was one of the most horrible experiences I have gone through, dealing with this organization in California. I've read other similar accounts in different states. It may vary, due to it not being regulated.(as some have written positive experiences from other TC's...) I'm surprised that they haven't been sued for millions yet. One of my son's room mates was bi-polar, and they took his meds away because "Jesus heals". I believe that's medical mal-practice material. But I'm not an attorney. I do know that the young man's father was very upset about his meds being taken away tho'.
It clearly states that no mood altering drugs are allowed at TC--he should have been know that
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#87
Apr 18, 2007
 
I'm a pastor who has had a couple of my members go to Teen Challenge. I will not judge what happened/s there because I don't know personally. I do know though that they have not done well after coming through the program and getting out. They have relapsed and nothing that was done there has stayed with them. They could quote hundreds of Bible verses but couldn't connect them with real life or behavior in any realistic way - it's all just rote memorization. I'm not impressed.
Cherokee lady

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#88
Apr 18, 2007
 
rev wrote:
I'm a pastor who has had a couple of my members go to Teen Challenge. I will not judge what happened/s there because I don't know personally. I do know though that they have not done well after coming through the program and getting out. They have relapsed and nothing that was done there has stayed with them. They could quote hundreds of Bible verses but couldn't connect them with real life or behavior in any realistic way - it's all just rote memorization. I'm not impressed.
I appreciate the 12 step programs that teach you to live life on life's terms. I don't agree with TC's teaching that 12 step secular rehab programs are "spitting in the face of Jesus". I think THEY (TC) are guilty of giving "Jesus" a bad name. Most people need some tools to learn to live by.(More than just hyper-religiosity). Teen Challenge really changed my family's whole viewpoint on "faith-based" rehabs. I would try to encourage those people that relapsed to at least attend some AA or NA meetings. If they are brainwashed enough tho' they may be thinking that 7 times the demons of addiction are taking hold of them, and the only cure is to go back to Teen Challenge. It's a shame.

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#89
Apr 18, 2007
 
Teen challenge works for some, I had someone close to me who was not one of those that it worked for. As "evangelists" they do practice a bit of religious bigotry against Catholics or other christian denominations that do not embrace their entire view of christianity. I have heard the stories of abuse, but also stories of success. I am am certain there is some truth to both sides of the story as this organization is made up of people, and run by recovering addicts. People are imperfect creatures, and not all recovering addicts stay that way (most don't) It is easy to replace one addiction with another, and POWER over other people is a very powerful drug.
Cameron

Hibbing, MN

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#90
Apr 18, 2007
 
I'd like to point out from the above comment that not only is Teen Challenge run by recovering addicts, but many of those 'recovering' addicts are also felons and con-men who either chose or were sentenced to Teen Challenge instead of going to prison...
lori

Bakersfield, CA

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Apr 19, 2007
 
I would just like to say that anyone who goes into Teen Challenge is informed that it is a CHRISTIAN LIFE SCHOOL and if you dont believe in God and you dont believe in the Full Gospel Faith them why enter the doors? Sometimes it is used as a get of Jail Free Card, the attitude from the beginning is to work the system and then you end up worse than your were because you now have something or someone else new to blame why your havent changed..... You have to want help first and you have to be sick and tired of being sick and tired and then accept help rather than being judgemental and thinking you know everything. Maybe this is the reason that substance abuse started in lives to began with.....
My husband has been sober now for 12 years and Teen Challenge was the tool that was used to help him into a new life. But you see He believed in God and had no problem with a Full Gospel Faith and he was sick and tired of being sick and tired. Did he appreciate everything that was said or done? No! Were things done always the right way? No! But just like any other program not everything is going to be perfect. Was he abused? SOmetimes in his eye's he was (Then) because you see usualy as an addict you dont want to be told what to do. You dont want to be told you are wrong. You dont like anyone who rubs you the wrong way. Thats what was learned to survive as an addict and when you are being changed it hurts...... So maybe some call is abuse but before we call that we've been abused how about looking in the mirror and facing how we as the addict have abused others in our lives under the influence. Our parents, our Spouses, our Children and even people we dont know.
If you dont want a Christian Program then DONT enter into Teen CHallenge. Stay in jail or find another program. But please dont knock a program that God has ordained to help those that want help. Jesus is the answer but if you choose not to accept then go on your way and leave those that believe alone..... I really wonder how people have so much time to devote to such ugly, worthless bitterness hoping to see who will join the bandwagon. To each his own but as for Me and my house we will serve the Lord....
Cameron

Hibbing, MN

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#92
Apr 19, 2007
 
"a program that God has ordained"??? How do you figure that Lori? I would lay my life on your post that Teen Challenge or the Assemblies of God begged you to post the above post!

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Since: Dec 06

Clovis, CA

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#93
Apr 19, 2007
 
lori wrote:
I would just like to say that anyone who goes into Teen Challenge is informed that it is a CHRISTIAN LIFE SCHOOL and if you dont believe in God and you dont believe in the Full Gospel Faith them why enter the doors? Sometimes it is used as a get of Jail Free Card, the attitude from the beginning is to work the system and then you end up worse than your were because you now have something or someone else new to blame why your havent changed..... You have to want help first and you have to be sick and tired of being sick and tired and then accept help rather than being judgemental and thinking you know everything. Maybe this is the reason that substance abuse started in lives to began with.....
My husband has been sober now for 12 years and Teen Challenge was the tool that was used to help him into a new life. But you see He believed in God and had no problem with a Full Gospel Faith and he was sick and tired of being sick and tired. Did he appreciate everything that was said or done? No! Were things done always the right way? No! But just like any other program not everything is going to be perfect. Was he abused? SOmetimes in his eye's he was (Then) because you see usualy as an addict you dont want to be told what to do. You dont want to be told you are wrong. You dont like anyone who rubs you the wrong way. Thats what was learned to survive as an addict and when you are being changed it hurts...... So maybe some call is abuse but before we call that we've been abused how about looking in the mirror and facing how we as the addict have abused others in our lives under the influence. Our parents, our Spouses, our Children and even people we dont know.
If you dont want a Christian Program then DONT enter into Teen CHallenge. Stay in jail or find another program. But please dont knock a program that God has ordained to help those that want help. Jesus is the answer but if you choose not to accept then go on your way and leave those that believe alone..... I really wonder how people have so much time to devote to such ugly, worthless bitterness hoping to see who will join the bandwagon. To each his own but as for Me and my house we will serve the Lord....
Show me documentation that "God" has "ordained" Teen Challenge or any other program. The only people who think Teen Challenge has been "ordained" are TC supporters themselves. It's no different than a father who has a daughter who is ugly enough to scare a hungry buldog off of a meat truck, yet claims she's "beautiful."
lori

Bakersfield, CA

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#94
Apr 20, 2007
 
You guys are intitled to your opinons and I respect that just as I expect you to respect mine. I don't need documentation to show you or anyone else for that fact. I know what God did for my husband and my family and alot of others (thru teen Challenge) and you or no one else can take that away. Is Teen Challenge perfect? NO! But neither are you or I! I think it is so very sad that just because of a few bad apples you want to throw out the whole barrell. Or atleast detroy them how every you can. There are bad apples in every situtaion, in every school, in every business, in every church, in every goverment, in every occupation so why are you expecting more out of a Christian organization? Is it just because of GOD? What is really your problem? I ask you Michael if Teen Challenge was so bad why did you stay for the whole year? Or did you?
And lets keep the facts straight "I was paid by no one to post what I did". Its true and there are others that Teen Challenge is helping no matter what you want to believe. Their are alot of other christian programs out their but I hear you speak nothing about them. Maybe more research is needed.
For those families that have addicts on their hands that they have no ideal what to do with and they have no money, what do you want them to do with them? Send them to you? Maybe you want to open a home and do it the right way? Everyone wants to bash what people are doing but they have no ideal what it takes to do what they do(right or wrong) its just easier to sit around on the computer and say whatever they want to say. No matter who it hurts or how it may destroy. Whatever happen to human kindness? It has to start somewhere maybe with you and I.
lori

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#95
Apr 20, 2007
 
And by the way Cameron don't be so quick to lay down your life for things you really dont know. It could be really bad for you.

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Since: Dec 06

Clovis, CA

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#96
Apr 20, 2007
 
<<I would just like to say that anyone who goes into Teen Challenge is informed that it is a CHRISTIAN LIFE SCHOOL>>

Unless state or federal funds are involved. Then - suddenly - they're an "alcohol and drug rehab." The day I received my completion certificate in July 2003, Bush's drug czar John Walters was the guest speaker (he was on a 25-city tour checking out "faith-based" rehabs). Every TC rep that spoke used the term "rehab." The seven of us who sat in the front row to get our certificates (we were pictured on the front page of the following day's Riverside Press-Enterprise) didn't care what term they used, we were just glad to be getting the hell out of there.

Whenever money is involved, Teen Challenge will magically metamorphosize into whatever they need to be to get said money. There's a name for people like that.
lori

Bakersfield, CA

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#97
Apr 20, 2007
 
I'm glad you completed the program but remember its not easy and everything is not perfect and money control's alot of people but so does bitterness and revenge. I choose to make sure that it dosent control me and I try my best to grab on to the positive things (the good) and let go of the negative (the bad). The bitterness will destroy me much faster than what I can do to correct others. So I encourage all who had a bad experience to let it go and live a good free life. May you be blessed and have a great day!
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#98
Apr 22, 2007
 
Michael Kincheloe wrote:
<<I would just like to say that anyone who goes into Teen Challenge is informed that it is a CHRISTIAN LIFE SCHOOL>>
Unless state or federal funds are involved. Then - suddenly - they're an "alcohol and drug rehab." The day I received my completion certificate in July 2003, Bush's drug czar John Walters was the guest speaker (he was on a 25-city tour checking out "faith-based" rehabs). Every TC rep that spoke used the term "rehab." The seven of us who sat in the front row to get our certificates (we were pictured on the front page of the following day's Riverside Press-Enterprise) didn't care what term they used, we were just glad to be getting the hell out of there.
Whenever money is involved, Teen Challenge will magically metamorphosize into whatever they need to be to get said money. There's a name for people like that.
I would just like to ask a few things of those here who are not supporters of TC.
This program has been around for many years and from what I understand it has around 120 locations.Can any of you tell me that not one single person has ever been helped by TC? If you cannot say that no one has ever been helped,then you are saying some have gotten help. That being said-if just one person has been helped by TC-why are you trying so hard to tear it down? What if one person,who would recieve help thru TC, changes their mind about going because they have read this site? If you come back with a comment about trying to "SAVE" someone from TC-- then tell me what plan YOU have to help them?What are you going to do? You will never know them Michael,but you may just talk some kid out of going because of this site and that child may die from his addiction. Is that none of your concern? Is blasting a place "you" didnt like worth someone's life to you.Dont say you hold no responsibility because you do. What are you trying to accomplish? That's what I would like to know.

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Apr 22, 2007
 
At what price were these people helped? Just because a relatively small number have maintained their sobriety after completeting TC does not justify their abusive means. If you beat a dog enough times you'll stop it from barking, but is this really the proper way to do it? Of course not. Teen Challenge tries to beat you down spiritually, then build you up THEIR way, a task for which they're woefully inadequate.

Alcoholics Anonymous doesn't even keep records of "recoveries," because numbers don't matter. But at TC, that 86% B.S. figure is shouted from the rooftops. Why? To bring in more money.

I'm not trying to talk a child out of going anywhere; the vast majority of TC locations are for adults.

What am I trying to accomplish? To let people know that TC is not some wonderful place where everybody is full of the spirit, which is what they pretend to be. Read Rene's post on my Testimonies page. You have to lie and say all of this nonsense in front of the general public or be punished. Anyone who would use Jesus Christ like a pit bull on a leash to threaten others not only needs to be put out of business, but deserves the ass-kicking of the century.

I'm not the only one who didn't like the two TC locations I was at. After finding out that I had been a Journalism major in college, at least 50 other students asked me to write about our ordeal there for the very reason I have stated above. I was originally going to submit a feature article to the Riverside Press-Enterprise, but I can reach more people this way, and I can also hit TC a lot harder than I could in a family newspaper. This is only the beginning; my site has only been active since late August 2006. There's a lot more to come.
Cherokee lady

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Apr 22, 2007
 
I personally am GRATEFUL for Michael's Website. It validated what has happened to us, and many others. There are forums for defectors of cults, a place for people to vent. I believe it is healing. Also nice to hear that you're not CRAZY, as our experience w/TC was horrible. I do believe they profit off broken souls. And I pity those broken souls that need recovery from addiction, and are in a place where religious dogma is the only "cure" offered. It may work for SOME, but it also damages many mentally.... Yes, let's all write our local senators and ask for more secular rehabs! We need a system to help our addicted! Building more prisons is NOT the answer either.
lori

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#101
Apr 23, 2007
 
Michael Kincheloe wrote:
At what price were these people helped? Just because a relatively small number have maintained their sobriety after completeting TC does not justify their abusive means. If you beat a dog enough times you'll stop it from barking, but is this really the proper way to do it? Of course not. Teen Challenge tries to beat you down spiritually, then build you up THEIR way, a task for which they're woefully inadequate.
Alcoholics Anonymous doesn't even keep records of "recoveries," because numbers don't matter. But at TC, that 86% B.S. figure is shouted from the rooftops. Why? To bring in more money.
I'm not trying to talk a child out of going anywhere; the vast majority of TC locations are for adults.
What am I trying to accomplish? To let people know that TC is not some wonderful place where everybody is full of the spirit, which is what they pretend to be. Read Rene's post on my Testimonies page. You have to lie and say all of this nonsense in front of the general public or be punished. Anyone who would use Jesus Christ like a pit bull on a leash to threaten others not only needs to be put out of business, but deserves the ass-kicking of the century.
I'm not the only one who didn't like the two TC locations I was at. After finding out that I had been a Journalism major in college, at least 50 other students asked me to write about our ordeal there for the very reason I have stated above. I was originally going to submit a feature article to the Riverside Press-Enterprise, but I can reach more people this way, and I can also hit TC a lot harder than I could in a family newspaper. This is only the beginning; my site has only been active since late August 2006. There's a lot more to come.
Michael,
Again I would like to ask you if TC was so bad then why did you stay a full year? If I was being abused like you claim to have been then I would of done anything to get out... But you stayed and they gave you shelter and fed you daily for 1 year and how much did all this cost you? Your story really dosent add up...

I have a major problem with all you say because your actions in staying show that lies are being told. And I'm very offended by it all because TC helped my husband and he wasent abused or Jesus Christ was not used as a PitBull. Abuse is what your doing now thru this nonsense. What is the difference between them and you at this stage? Nothing!!!!!!!!

Your Not going to destroy TC, your in the process of destroying yourself with all the bitterness and I don't believe it started in TC. TC is just the last one in your life to get the blame....

I will be praying for you!

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Apr 23, 2007
 
Because it was either a year in TC or 18 months in jail. Nine out of ten people who go to TC do so to either get out of jail (ask Brandon Sholes) or to keep from going into jail. TC is listed by the state as an "alcohol and drug rehabilitation facility," not a "Christian Life School," since "Christian Life Schools" aren't eligible to accept people in lieu of jail. TC is a "Christian Life School" when they can get away with it, and is an "alcohol and drug rehabilitation facility" when money or government oversight is involved.

I am hardly destroying myself; I sell hardware and sporting goods at Sears to make my living, this is merely part-time therapy and - most importantly - keeping a solemn vow I made to many of my friends at Teen Challenge, which was to use my journalistic talents to expose this madhouse and those who hide behind it to take out their frustrations on those of us who, after leaving TC, actually have the ability to lead real lives. Those who stay at TC, more often than not do so because they're such lops that they cannot function at a real job. They instead EXIST (rather than LIVE) like little bitty kids who believe in the Easter Bunny and the tooth fairy.

I have no intention of destroying TC; my intention is to expose them for the frauds that they are, and to warn others about this wolf in sheep's clothing. I have already done that, and will continue with bigger and better web sites in the future. There's no way, under any circumstances, that I would stop doing what I am doing. This is waaaay too much fun.
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Apr 24, 2007
 
Bringing truth should not be fun. If someone is in error, it should be with broken hearts that we point it out. Michael, I have sympathised with you alot, I am living a 'successful Christian life' as a TC Uk graduate, but fun in others shortcomings comes from a bitter spirit. Regardless of statistics and how they are used, peoples lives have been changed through the Spirit of God moving through lives in Teen Challenge and other organisations like it. Micheal, bitterness has no place in restoration, many many people are living busy and active and successful work lives, but still have a deep rooted bitterness. This is made apparent in attacking everyone who does not believ as they do. Is not this what you are accusing Teen Challenge of doing?
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Apr 24, 2007
 
It seems that the people who stick up for teen challenge aren't reading the facts thoroughly. Please take the time to thoroughly read the following website and then maybe you'll understand why Michael and so many others are so upset with the teen challenge program- http://teenchallengecult.blogspot.com/
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Apr 24, 2007
 
www.bibleontheweb.com

Hey Cameron - here is one for you to look up - try these facts. Please take the time to thoroughly read the above mentioned website and then maybe you will understand why God is in control of lives and we are not. And if we learn to give it up to God and let him heal the addictions that the TC students are suffering from with the help of the overly judged staff of TC - you might get a better image of what this particular program is doing and a different image of what Michael is doing with his life now that he pointlessly sits day after day bashing a program that works for many of our family members. www.bibleontheweb.com - You just can't beat the reviews.

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