Pissed off

Two phases that piss me off....number one..."i am on a fixed income"...well so am i unless i get sick, then im on as lower income.

number 2....single mother....well didnt you know that you didnt have a spouse when you layed down with him? unless you are a widow or widower

yeah dumbass I did know I didn't have a spouse when I laid down with him, but I thought we were getting married. You mean to tell me you marry everyone you lay down with? Sounds like bitter party of one needs some business!

WHAT THE HELL???? i was a single mother for two years and there is NOTHING wrong with that. Alot of men talk alot of shit about becoming a "family" and being a daddy but when push comes to shove theyre OUT...So, whispering heres a little advice for you, unless you have walked a mile in our shoes, then do society a favor and SHUT UP! Not all of us single mothers go around screwing everything that walk....post something about dead beat dads next time you dumb ass

single mother wrote:

yeah dumbass I did know I didn't have a spouse when I laid down with him, but I thought we were getting married. You mean to tell me you marry everyone you lay down with? Sounds like bitter party of one needs some business!

Nope don't marry every one I lay down with, I don't lay down with everyone.....

yadda yadda yadda wrote:

WHAT THE HELL???? i was a single mother for two years and there is NOTHING wrong with that. Alot of men talk alot of shit about becoming a "family" and being a daddy but when push comes to shove theyre OUT...So, whispering heres a little advice for you, unless you have walked a mile in our shoes, then do society a favor and SHUT UP! Not all of us single mothers go around screwing everything that walk....post something about dead beat dads next time you dumb ass

Damn Dead Beat Dad's....I got 2 kids....old lady got caught f(&#(*&g around and split....she want let me see the kids...took her to court...because she is a woman the so called court won't do nothing to her but you let me miss a child support payment and they are her johnny on the spot to arrest me....then after 6 years of the shit...found out that the kids aren't even mine...Nope bitch didn't offer to pay me back and neither did the kangroo court. So Don't go blowing Dead Beat Dads...

yadda yadda yadda wrote:

WHAT THE HELL???? i was a single mother for two years and there is NOTHING wrong with that. Alot of men talk alot of shit about becoming a "family" and being a daddy but when push comes to shove theyre OUT...So, whispering heres a little advice for you, unless you have walked a mile in our shoes, then do society a favor and SHUT UP! Not all of us single mothers go around screwing everything that walk....post something about dead beat dads next time you dumb ass

alot is not a word.....it's a lot......idiot

What about this wrote:

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Damn Dead Beat Dad's....I got 2 kids....old lady got caught f(&#(*&g around and split....she want let me see the kids...took her to court...because she is a woman the so called court won't do nothing to her but you let me miss a child support payment and they are her johnny on the spot to arrest me....then after 6 years of the shit...found out that the kids aren't even mine...Nope bitch didn't offer to pay me back and neither did the kangroo court. So Don't go blowing Dead Beat Dads...

You tried to be a dad correct? If so, that doesnt make you a dead beat dad

b tom wrote:

<quoted text> alot is not a word.....it's a lot......idiot

oh my, i'm an "idiot" bc i didnt hit the space bar...its called a typo...look it up, you can google it, moron

What about this wrote:

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Damn Dead Beat Dad's....I got 2 kids....old lady got caught f(&#(*&g around and split....she want let me see the kids...took her to court...because she is a woman the so called court won't do nothing to her but you let me miss a child support payment and they are her johnny on the spot to arrest me....then after 6 years of the shit...found out that the kids aren't even mine...Nope bitch didn't offer to pay me back and neither did the kangroo court. So Don't go blowing Dead Beat Dads...

just a question here...why in the world didnt you get a DNA test? And if you found out they arent your kids, can you not get a lawyer and get your money back? Surely there is something you can do

Ever notice when weak people cannot dispute what you have to say they will resort to attacking spelling and grammer? And to whispering a "fixed income" means they cannot work more hours and get more money, for one reason or another they are stuck drawing a check.I just hope that someday you are not one of them.

yadda yadda yadda wrote:

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just a question here...why in the world didnt you get a DNA test? And if you found out they arent your kids, can you not get a lawyer and get your money back? Surely there is something you can do

Actually, no he can't. Even though he was wrong, at the time, he was the kids "father" and was court ordered to pay child support. The fact that he isn't now their dad is irrelevant in the eyes of the law.

single mother wrote:

yeah dumbass I did know I didn't have a spouse when I laid down with him, but I thought we were getting married. You mean to tell me you marry everyone you lay down with? Sounds like bitter party of one needs some business!

Being a single mother is not the worst thing in the world,however it's not a thing to be happy or tell everyone about either.

I agree that the two things I hate most are the terms "single mother" and "on a fixed income". Being on a fixed income has to be great because you always have a certain amount of money coming in per month and you can have a budget. Single mothers are playing this for all it is worth. Why even mention being a single mother at all. You are either a mother or not a mother. I could be a Princess Mother but how would putting another word with mother make any difference. This is such a stupid way to say "I am a mother".

I hate hearing the single mother or fixed income thing worse every day.

The people I know on a fixed income have it made. They pay their bills on time and ride around doing nothing the rest of the time telling everyone what a hard time they are having...this is a laugh for sure.

The mothers who are sure to add the phrase "single" to the fact they have a child must be looking for a hand out otherwise why would they add the word "single". It's none of anyones business if they are married, single, divorced or just fooled around and got the kid. This is a form of advertising as far as I am concerned.

I wish people would simply leave off all the fancy or non-important words when speaking about themselves. It is so silly to say things like "I am a single mother" or "I am on a fixed income" or "I have a challenged child" or "I am physically disabled" or "I am presently unemployed". The list is as long as my leg of all these silly terms. Just say I ain't working right now (this means you are able but just don't have a job), I had a stroke and can't work, I got a kid that can't take care of them self, I draw social security (meaning you are over 62 and retired), I draw a welfare check (meaning you are too lazy to work), I get disability because xxxx, or what ever the case my be. It tells the facts and does not lead to asking more questions due to all the fancy words used. When ask where do you work and you answer by saying I am disabled that can mean many different things from being a mental case and can't hold a job to being in a wheelchair with no legs but can answer a telephone in an office and hold a desk job. Just tell it like it is and stop all the questions before they start.

Decades ago, when my husband decided that he had "wasted his time" with me and his child, he just walked off and moved in with someone else. The fact that I was a "single mom" never came to mind. I was simply a "mother" who had go to work and raise the child. He never looked back or provided anything, but he was the loser.

metoo wrote:

Decades ago, when my husband decided that he had "wasted his time" with me and his child, he just walked off and moved in with someone else. The fact that I was a "single mom" never came to mind. I was simply a "mother" who had go to work and raise the child. He never looked back or provided anything, but he was the loser.

Well at least you left off the single mother crap. Thats a plus. I don't think the man should provide anything because the woman made the choice to have the child. She could have stopped the whole thing by just saying NO. If raising a child made you happy then everything worked out fine. You lived your life and he went on to live his the way it was meant to be. No strings is the best way for all.

beenthere wrote:

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Well at least you left off the single mother crap. Thats a plus. I don't think the man should provide anything because the woman made the choice to have the child. She could have stopped the whole thing by just saying NO. If raising a child made you happy then everything worked out fine. You lived your life and he went on to live his the way it was meant to be. No strings is the best way for all.

No, it was a joint choice. We were husband and wife. Anyway, in any relationship it takes two! He should have provided. No man should produce a child and walk off. That's one reason our society is declining.

beenthere wrote:

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No, it was a joint choice. We were husband and wife. Anyway, in any relationship it takes two! He should have provided. No man should produce a child and walk off. That's one reason our society is declining.

Agree!

You're all stupid..You're responding to a moron who thinks the key word to their starting this whole dumbass argument is "phase"...