hoping to find someone

I can't give too much detailed information because I am hoping to find the biological father of my adopted son. So let me apologize now for some of the vagueness. My adopted son is 7. His biological mother is a longtime resident and frequenter of the bars of Macon. She has many children but has lost custody of all but one. Her name begins with a N and she often dies her hair black. We were told that the mother lied to the father and said he was not the father of this child. We were also told the father suspected he was the father. We were told by the mother that the father is dead and his name was Larry, but the mother is known to be untruthful. My adopted son was born in November of 2001 with vibrant red hair and freckles galore, I suspect his father is of similar coloring. We do not want any kind of support from the father. The child has had such a confusing life and feels as though he is not lovable, he really wants to meet his father, if possible. Especially, now that his biological mother has abandoned him for the last year, not one phone call or letter. I suspect she may be having another child and is afraid of losing this one. I will try to answer questions but need to remain mysterious on some points.

Thanks for the information, we were told the last name was the same as a popular author (starts with G) there is a man in prison for wrongful death in 2002 with this last name, were we led in the wrong direction?
I like your sense of intrique "hard hat"

code name hard hat wrote:

I think the father is in moberly correctional facility. If its who I think it is he beat the hell out of his best friend and killed him and is doing time in prison for it. Like I said Im not 100% positive but I think this is your guy.

If it is the same one I am thinking of the last name of the guy starts with a B. His first name starts with a C I believe. Not positive thou but I do remember the beating thing happening. Hope you find your answers Cali girl.

Could you give me a couple more letters of the last name so I can limit my search some?

a girl wrote:

If it is the same one I am thinking of the last name of the guy starts with a B. His first name starts with a C I believe. Not positive thou but I do remember the beating thing happening. Hope you find your answers Cali girl.

Buc is the first 3 of last name.

California girl wrote:

I can't give too much detailed information because I am hoping to find the biological father of my adopted son. So let me apologize now for some of the vagueness. My adopted son is 7. His biological mother is a longtime resident and frequenter of the bars of Macon. She has many children but has lost custody of all but one. Her name begins with a N and she often dies her hair black. We were told that the mother lied to the father and said he was not the father of this child. We were also told the father suspected he was the father. We were told by the mother that the father is dead and his name was Larry, but the mother is known to be untruthful. My adopted son was born in November of 2001 with vibrant red hair and freckles galore, I suspect his father is of similar coloring. We do not want any kind of support from the father. The child has had such a confusing life and feels as though he is not lovable, he really wants to meet his father, if possible. Especially, now that his biological mother has abandoned him for the last year, not one phone call or letter. I suspect she may be having another child and is afraid of losing this one. I will try to answer questions but need to remain mysterious on some points.

I know who you are talking about and chris is not the one she is looking for , more like Dennis ! The mother is still running around somewhere cause i seen her a couple of months ago and she did not look like she was with child .

She claims he is not the father, and I just heard today, she is telling everyone she is pregnant.

Resident wrote:

<quoted text>I know who you are talking about and chris is not the one she is looking for , more like Dennis ! The mother is still running around somewhere cause i seen her a couple of months ago and she did not look like she was with child .

How old are these people?

The mom who has lost custody of seven children is in early 40's the fathers vary in age, with at least a 20 year span between them.(I was hoping menopause would hit her early but from what I hear it missed).

MOM OF 3 wrote:

How old are these people?

Is her name Nancy?

NO, but it does start with an N so you might know her since you were that close.

MOM OF 3 wrote:

Is her name Nancy?

nakia???

I have family in Macon that knows about everyone. Give me more information and I will help.

Thanks for the offer, I think I have hit a dead end though. The mom has been lying about everything in her life for so long I don't think she knows what the truth is. I was hoping to find the bio father so that someday (year) our young man could fill in that missing void, and I really think he needs it, even if it were no more than a name and a photo. But I don't think we are going to find information without the bio mom and she doesn't care enough to call her child much less think about his emotional needs. All the information I have is in previous posts, but all if it could be purposeful misdirection on the biomoms part.

Ok, if ever you need help to continue the search let me know. I will give you a phone number to contact my sister in Macon. You are a sweet person to do this. Hang in there.

NORA

Your sign in says Elk Grove Village, IL, but you seem to know a lot about the residents of Macon.

Use to live in macon

ya dirty nora, old bar slut

I just seen Nora about a week ago in Macon. I also agree that Chris is not the man. Knowing Nora's rep. no telling who the father is. Im sorry to say.