2 Sue Coroner Saying Dad Was Cremated By Mistake

What a buncha idiots. My sympathies for the double hurt forced upon this family!

I wonder why the two siblings didn't take care of their father. I wonder why they gave away their right and obligation to take care of their father????

Answer to your question??????????

I asked my father to move in with me, but he wanted to be on his own and I could not force him to move in with me. I loved him and respected what his decision was even if I felt he would have a better quality of life.

Juliette

Juliette - Knowing as I do, I know that the love and care you provided for your father - was sometimes more that I thought he deserved...But with you Julie, it came down to the fact that he was your father and you were going to do what ever you could to make him comfortable. And you did! That is one of the many things about you - that always stood out for me! I do hope that life is treating you well and that you are still able to hold onto all the good memories of your father in your heart!

what a nice thing to say. How do you know Julie?

we had something close to this happen just this week a funeral director is on probation for six months for cremating a women body before the viewing and service he is one of eight sanctioned for this kind of action in this case the family wanted cremation just not till view and the service wow no chance for anyone to say goodbye one last time i am sure the family will be bring a lawsuit against that funeral home

I only ask of no game or play from anyone,,, what happend was real and true..... How can I really except relaity and not pretend from posts... I've experienced so many negative comments from this !! And my pain will haunt me to death.. so if not real or experienced this .... please let me live the best I can in my life time ..........

James wrote:

Juliette - Knowing as I do, I know that the love and care you provided for your father - was sometimes more that I thought he deserved...But with you Julie, it came down to the fact that he was your father and you were going to do what ever you could to make him comfortable. And you did! That is one of the many things about you - that always stood out for me! I do hope that life is treating you well and that you are still able to hold onto all the good memories of your father in your heart!

Is it that you heard of me and not know me as real life? sorrow can kill some one internal and out with out knowledge of the aspect of life?????????? do you know me?????????? As I am uncertin of you who posts as if you know me??????????So many have pretented to know me to get a so called piece of the pie.......... let your self be know to me and I will trust, if not so be it.. and go your way..........

Seriously, I hold back and do not believe that anyone who responded knows me.......... if you do than post something that you really know me.? If not thann if you have suffered as I do since my fathers passing and similar experience we can talk.. Please be truthful and ni games, my fathers cremation still haunts me with out my approval.. he was not to be cremated but buried....

Juliette - Yes we do know each other and I would never make light of this situation...I do know you as a loving person who only did want was best for your father - I meant everything I said in the above statement and I only wish I could have been there for you - if only as a shoulder to lean on! I would do what ever I could have if I knew what was going on!

James wrote:

Juliette - Yes we do know each other and I would never make light of this situation...I do know you as a loving person who only did want was best for your father - I meant everything I said in the above statement and I only wish I could have been there for you - if only as a shoulder to lean on! I would do what ever I could have if I knew what was going on!

How do Iknow you? What brings you to me and this situation? Are you friend or foe? I am a bit cauticous, but that is my nature since I've suffered so much sorrow in one's life time.If you know me give me a hint as to who you are!

I am sorry for the loss of your loved one who was cremated before the viewing, it is beyond anything that can be replaced.... I feel for the family and friends... I am so sorry ... I understand since it has happend to me and my family.. Hopefully, your family will have the ability to close this horrible mistake and move one...

Juliette wrote:

<quoted text> How do Iknow you? What brings you to me and this situation? Are you friend or foe? I am a bit cauticous, but that is my nature since I've suffered so much sorrow in one's life time.If you know me give me a hint as to who you are!

It was a fluke that I ended up on this site and after seeing that it involved you - I was taken back - that you had to go through this situation and I really felt bad for you - Because I still care about you and would never wish anything bad to come your way and you do know me as more than a friend. What other James did you know that way???

James wrote:

<quoted text>It was a fluke that I ended up on this site and after seeing that it involved you - I was taken back - that you had to go through this situation and I really felt bad for you - Because I still care about you and would never wish anything bad to come your way and you do know me as more than a friend. What other James did you know that way???

Ok, but give me a time frame!!!!

James wrote:

<quoted text>It was a fluke that I ended up on this site and after seeing that it involved you - I was taken back - that you had to go through this situation and I really felt bad for you - Because I still care about you and would never wish anything bad to come your way and you do know me as more than a friend. What other James did you know that way???

How did you find this site? How did you know it was me as you had know? How was it that it brought you to enter a comment? Why was it a fluke?

This is all public as you know?//

Because as I wrote - it is your name and I did meet your father with you, You did care for him and his well being and I did feel bad that you had to go through such an ordeal...there is no ill will here - I did really feel bad for your situation and would not wish this on anyone- especially you Julie!

James wrote:

Because as I wrote - it is your name and I did meet your father with you, You did care for him and his well being and I did feel bad that you had to go through such an ordeal...there is no ill will here - I did really feel bad for your situation and would not wish this on anyone- especially you Julie!

Thank you, however, the present time what is it now?

As i've read and commented and read .... Now, what am I to think or go back in time??????// Present would be better for all........ Positive is better than negative........ Communication is a way to start and follow up on and complete anything that needs to be done? Thank you again I appreciate it James for your concer and acknowledgement...... This is what my life had to be and press on to overcome my father's wrongful cremation... but that's life!!!! Sorrow is what I've experienced and lived for a long time... So be it and I just smile and don't complain... Life is what is delt to all.........

James wrote:

Because as I wrote - it is your name and I did meet your father with you, You did care for him and his well being and I did feel bad that you had to go through such an ordeal...there is no ill will here - I did really feel bad for your situation and would not wish this on anyone- especially you Julie!

Now, is the present and the past of my fathers, what now? All of us live with the past that brings us to present! With out complaining we all move forward to what life brings to all of us!