cheaters

i got a question..if you have a relationship with a taken person and you love eachother are you a tramp?

yes you are you knew they were taken why did you go anywhere with them thats a stupid question

goforit wrote:

yes you are you knew they were taken why did you go anywhere with them thats a stupid question

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even if yall love eachother?

besides you think its a stupid question but its really not..i still argue that your not because you cannot control who and when you want someone its bad timing

You're only a tramp when you're messing around. If he leaves his wife and ya'll end up together then you used to be a tramp but he made an honest woman out of you. LOL. Just remember all the lies he told and the sneaking around he did to be with you cuz he will be doing it to you someday.

Keep it Real wrote:

You're only a tramp when you're messing around. If he leaves his wife and ya'll end up together then you used to be a tramp but he made an honest woman out of you. LOL. Just remember all the lies he told and the sneaking around he did to be with you cuz he will be doing it to you someday.

damn girl that was exactly what i wanted to hear. better beleive i go where he goes

i will alway go with what god says about adultry and coveting you know wanting something someone else has you mess around with whoever you want good luck with that...its so messed up no matter how you look at it or try to make it seem better.

iv been in a situation similar and i know that when a man cheats or woman cheats its because something is missing in the relationship..Do you think that love is still there when they cheat or for the tramp was there ever love if he goes back?

cheaters are everywhere in devine just look around once a cheater always a cheater

thats true..you think they love you but its all a game they like to play to get whAT THEY WANT FROM YOU..

wow...I get what you are saying. I feel bad cause that was my situation. I fell in love with a married man who said he and his wife were over, but they still lived together. well... It was over to him, and his wife was more like a roommate. I kinda thought that was bull, but I went with it cause I thought he was hott. Anyhow he left her two months later. He got a divorce, and when that was final we married. Is that the same thing if it was over in his eyes? In my heart i believe once a cheater always a cheater. I was 18 when he got with me. Now I'm 25. I'm always threaten that he will leave me for younger skinner girls. He works around them all the time. Should I be worried? sorry I saw this blog, and I had to say something.

Sometimes peopld fall in love when the time isnt right. I think if they love eachother enough to take the risk and leave their partners for eachother then more power to them. Everyone deserves a clean slate and another shot at true happiness.

why not just get a divorce if you no longer want to be with your spouse, don't go around having affairs! i have a friend who recently got caught cheating and her husband threw her out and she's having to live back at home with her mother at 47yrs old that's embarrassing but i am not going to offer her any help because i am totally against the cheating thing! people should think before doing something like that!

Sometimes people have affairs to fills voids in their lives, not that they necessarily want to leave their spouses but they need something they aren't getting at home. Sometimes relationships just happen and you're friends with someone and one day you can't help how you feel and yet you can't get yourself to leave your husband because ya'll have children together and don't want to break up your family. So you stay where you are until either you can't take it anymore or the kids are grown and gone!

mutual separation and cheating are two completely different things. if BOTH agree, it's not cheating. If only one is sneaking around... it's cheating.

honest wrote:

i got a question..if you have a relationship with a taken person and you love eachother are you a tramp?

Nope, your just friends with benifits...

when you meet someone,do you think it was meant to be that in that split second you were supposed to meet? Oh then you start to spend time together and the feelings start.Yetyou know that it will and cannever be.Thee will always be some obstacle to great to ovrcome. The tears,the hurt,the disappointment,the jealousy,the denial...how do yOu get by this? How!!!!!

Jeanette wrote:

when you meet someone,do you think it was meant to be that in that split second you were supposed to meet? Oh then you start to spend time together and the feelings start.Yetyou know that it will and cannever be.Thee will always be some obstacle to great to ovrcome. The tears,the hurt,the disappointment,the jealousy,the denial...how do yOu get by this? How!!!!!

Live for the moment and enjoy great sex. You know it can never be, so just enjoy each others company and reap the benefits.

You arent the cheater. He is because he is the one commited and obligated to her. But remember what he is doing to her, he will do to you once he gets tired of you. Like they say, "ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER"