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sickened wrote:

Just to clarify: I am not mad...I used the word sad, and I would prefer to believe that posters, such as you and I, are representative of society rather than losers. Also, my wife is free (not in shackles of servitude) of worry and fear of my cheating, desiring another, or bringing home a STD to her. My kids are free, too, knowing their father loves their mother and no one else, and that this love is unique and kept pure. Your "progressive" argument for your promiscuous choice of lifestyle is typical cover for selfishness and lust for things which you are not entitled to. Perhaps you could be less focused on you and your wife, and think of the "other woman" (or couple) who is probably now alone in her shame. What effect might your behavior have on her? Actions have consequences whether we are the ones to bear them, or not.
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I too, disagree with you! I have been married 10 yrs. turns out my wife is bi and just luvs luvs luvs to lick a kitty. Just one day boom she asked , if I'd do a 3sum ,I said yes and we set some ground rules.#1 no double taps only one time.#2 no one in our social group.#3 we both have to agree on her.#4 no love making:),we are into sex like a sport!! We get along better now than we ever have. We go on the prowl together,surf the net together etc...We plan our vacations around it! It is very exciting and erotic! With ground rules and zero jealousy it can work to bring you closer. If you are insecure or jealous do not even think about doing it!

I suppose this kind of marital/relational behavior is why our divore rate in America is now approaching 60%...there is no committment to one another...merely self. Again...sad.

PS: remember to use protection. STDs are also on the rise.

sickened wrote:

I suppose this kind of marital/relational behavior is why our divore rate in America is now approaching 60%...there is no committment to one another...merely self. Again...sad.
PS: remember to use protection. STDs are also on the rise.

I would say people like you are the reason divorce rates are like they are. Bet you only like missionary style once a year with the lights off. People like the other guy on here probably has a hell of a good marriage, sounds like it to me. Sex is only for making babies right.

So , come on ladies speak up! We know you girls just luv luv luv it!! It has been my exp. over the last 5 yrs or so of doing the 3 sums that about half of the women are really bi and just haven"t acted on it because of being shy?

Since I have been dissed by, I assume, a 12 year old adolescent, I will not respond harshly. All I will say is "grow up".

I bet wrote:

<quoted text>I would say people like you are the reason divorce rates are like they are. Bet you only like missionary style once a year with the lights off. People like the other guy on here probably has a hell of a good marriage, sounds like it to me. Sex is only for making babies right.

If the ladies speak up, you will find out you really aren't the love doctor!

Theluvdr wrote:

So , come on ladies speak up! We know you girls just luv luv luv it!! It has been my exp. over the last 5 yrs or so of doing the 3 sums that about half of the women are really bi and just haven"t acted on it because of being shy?

For me sex is fun and i ENJOY sex I have SPORT SEX. I like to seduce and bring out other females for their first time experiance.

Nichole wrote:

For me sex is fun and i ENJOY sex I have SPORT SEX. I like to seduce and bring out other females for their first time experiance.

How have you found the girls to be Nichole? Do you think about half are bi anyway and just haven"t acted out on it?

Whats the difference between a lesbian driving down 321 in the fog and eating pu**y?

when she is eating pu33y she can still see the as*hole in front of her!rlmao

seriously this life style will end up leaving someone hurt in the end ~ literally! lmao

Jrobert wrote:

I had the fortune to hit up on one in Ocracoke on New Years Eve in '06.
The girl I had been dating brought her "friend" to the beach with us...and walla! She asked me if I wanted to do both of them..I said HELL YEAH!
Woke up New Years day on the beach with two beautiful naked women. I said.."it's gonna be a great year" :)
Still patting myself on the back!
:)

I believe that it is too cold in January to hump on the beach.

Well Dixie you are welcome to voice the opinion you have ,but I disagree.For us, it has only brought us closer. We all 3 agree that each is a sex toy to be used at that time. Nothing more or less. Trust & jealousy are the 2 main emotions that can have this be a success or failure!

dixie cats wrote:

seriously this life style will end up leaving someone hurt in the end ~ literally! lmao

Eleven years and counting of the best marriage on earth. Not one single argument ever over the subject.

Beaver Head wrote:

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I believe that it is too cold in January to hump on the beach.

We just did it last february on the beach in myrtle so no, there are warm days just like here. In fact it was pretty warm here a few weeks ago, my wife and I had a little fun outside on the trampoline just for the heck of it lol.

Beaver Head wrote:

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I believe that it is too cold in January to hump on the beach.

We were in the back of a Jeep Cherokee with the seats folded down...and it was PLENTY warm!

Theluvdr wrote:

<quoted text> How have you found the girls to be Nichole? Do you think about half are bi anyway and just haven"t acted out on it?

I dont keep a scoreboard. when i'm attracted and interested i test the waters. it is surprising more and more of the 40 and over girls that are curious and looking to explore )~

It does seem like a lot are 40+. I don't know if they are just bored with the same ole same ole. Bad marriages and relationships or just reaching their sexual height. Maybe you can shed some light on that. My wife has been bi since she was a teen but she has always been a very sexual person. She just likes what she likes and that's all she can say so that's what I assume most are like, no rime or reason. I have always thought women have a natural desire to be with other women deep down or at least its more natural.

Jrobert wrote:

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We were in the back of a Jeep Cherokee with the seats folded down...and it was PLENTY warm!

How romantic! Just how bombed were you guys?

LOLOL wrote:

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How romantic! Just how bombed were you guys?

I dont think the idea was to be romantic, Im not that guy but I would bet he wasnt shooting for romantic. Maybe thats what is wrong with some of you people, you seem to confuse romance with sport f#cking, two different things and no one said you cant do that latter with someone you love. Just because you get married doesnt mean that things have to be mudane and boring and sex deosnt have to be just for married folks either.

Theluvdr wrote:

How many of you ever hada 3 way where the girls were bi? Any of you into that now? Where would one go to mingle with this group of people around here?

Your question could be leading. Could it be a fetish or you may suspect someone, a friend or wife. If you suspect, support dont push or press. Give HER time it's HER, about and for HER. It can ruin relationships and friendships. As for a newbi be prepared for emotional roller coaster, take it slow. Some are curious thinking they are ready and open minded then aren't. Some never thought of the situation and then it happens. I will say it's timing, right time, right place, right people. Must be comfortable and secure.

Looking and connecting its about networking. Try AFF Adult Friend Finder. That may help HER locate. Be ready for questions questions questions. Like Her age, Your age, your relationship with, length of relationship, HER rules, your rules, their rules and so on. Beware of those requesting pictures, phone numbers and other info from the start, dont give out.

If SHE is serious and curious support her, don't push or press her. Remember the rules and play by the rules. She may have her connection with a special friend.