Why do guys like big beautiful women? not gros fat but just big, what's the deal

any comments, I am trying to understand this. I just lost the guy I was dating. I am in shape and I think I am pretty but this is twice that I notice that a guy I date (not boyfriend) always ends up with a beautiful big woman instead of a woman like me. I am starting to wonder if the women just feel better in bed even if they don't look better out of it. She is a nice looking lady but come on. what is it that men find so attactive? I stopped seeing him a few months back but just saw them at walmart.

I know what you are talking about. I like the small waist with the big hips, legs and best of all a nice big butt. 220 lbs is just about right. I love my girl and she does feel great in bed. She doesn't have a big stomach but she is all around just big and beautiful. I love what i feel every night. No skinny girl will feel like that. Its just like they say once you go black you nevr go back. Well once you are with a hot sexy big beauty you never go back to skinny.

Could be personality, bigger women were bigger girls and I'm sure no one gave them the time of day so they compensated by being outgoing and friendly. I know sisters of which one is skinny and gorgeous and the other is a big pretty girl. Guys flock to the big girl cuz of her Personality the other just stares in amazement while shes ignored.

See I'm just the opposite, what is it that guys see in a big woman, I'm a big woman I work at Lowe's and I'm not the most beautiful like u would see there at Lowe's but I do see tht most of the skinny beautiful women have the nice looking men, when I catch myself looking at men, they are usually skinny, pretty and they are a guys dream... but a big girl like myself, what the heck would he want with a big woman... I find myself longing to be thin again just to find a skinny or a medium built guy, that will want a woman who is skinny and in shape like him, is it me or is most of Kingsville just shallow, and none of the men here worth it....

In my experience I've found that all (most) big girls give the best head!!! That can really hold a man down. Good head is (priceless)!!!!

I hear you harry I think they do have better personalities and great self esteem. and to the last dude. I knew it was a matter of time before someone would be so stupid as to say that. I had a few thin girls that were great so it doesn't matter in that departmnt. And to the lowes gir, there are men out there and you don't have to be with a skinny guy to be happy. Just have more confidence. When my girl walks, she owns everything around her because of her confidence. Keep you head up and your eyes open.

Thanks for the insight. I am a little shy so I think the confidence could be it. But you know for those big girls they really do seam to have it all down. That walk as if they were the sexiest thing in the room. They are usually very kind too. And people seem to be drawn to them. I guess maybe I shouldn't stress when I gain a few pounds.

whats the deal wrote:

Thanks for the insight. I am a little shy so I think the confidence could be it. But you know for those big girls they really do seam to have it all down. That walk as if they were the sexiest thing in the room. They are usually very kind too. And people seem to be drawn to them. I guess maybe I shouldn't stress when I gain a few pounds.

You hit the nail on the head, I forgot to mention the confidence and she does think she's gods gift to man. She literally struts around

I happen to be a thicker chic now for a few years, im very beautiful and attractive in my skinny days :) lol I still always got the guys but now ive noticed its a better type of man now that im a lil thicker. When I was skinny I was always the men whom wanted a throphy on their arm they didnt truely care about me or who I was as a person but now im bigger still beautiful and those other type of guys are long gone. I get real men interested in me now for who I am mind body and soul and ive come to the conclusion that it was what was in me attracting that other tyoe of guy, when I was skinny I was more self absorbed, concieted, and in some ways my self esteem was lower I always thought I was fat even when I was skinny. That has to be unattractive to other ppl its all in the attitude, im happier person, im not so self absorbed im humbled, im more interested in the conversation with a man now days where as before mayb I made the man feel like I was too good for him and made myself unapproachable in the first place. Its all in the attitude beauty on the outside can only take you so far when thats gone all you got left is what is inside your heart and soul and you can be as skinny georgeous as you want to be but if your cold and your heart and attitude is ugly you got nothing left to work with. Ive always been told by my man that im the best loving in bed he has had compared to a skinny chic so I take that as a compiment and run with it!

And just like the rest said its all about the confidence, when its no longer all vanity and its the pure real true confidence. something about me having a lil more meat on my butt, thigh and hips makes me feel more confident and glamourous and sexy, volumptuous, it shows in my walk and my talk men want to be around that !!!

i love my girl shes thick sexy and beautiful. bones are for dogs.

Thanks for all the posative comments. I guess i should not feel threatened. I need to learn to have the confidence. Thanks skinnyy
i guess i should put on a few pounds

Its real nice and sexy when a lady has something to hold onto. I think it is more attractive in my eyes. Thick women are beauties

I am a big girl and I do have confidence till the clothes come off. With them on I feel great about myself. I have men hit on me everyday (most of them are pretty good looking) but I am married and its pretty tacky. I have been volumptuous all my life. I am now in my 30's and I love the way I am for the most part. I won't undress in the light although my husband and the men before him loved to see me in the light. They love it. I am the biggest of all my sisters and I seem to get the most compliments. I think men like a woman with curves. I am told that we feel better in bed too.
REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES!

Be healthy whatever your size. If you are happy and healthy that is all that matters. If you are overwieght and ill you have a problem. You are all beautiful, I am sure excluding the vulgur person. I thing everyone was right on with the convidence thing. I wish people would be this nice on all forums.

Women are beautiful creatures indeed the femine form is mezmerizing. Everbody likes something different most real men like real women and thats not always defined by looks alone so it has to be the attitude, some people just ooze sex appeal rather they b skinny chics or thicker bigger chics people men and women alike will flock to people like that confident funny intelligent outgoing. For myself I like a bit more junk in the trunk, more curvey in thighs and hips. Its beautiful to see a fuller woman she just glows.

Has takin the woman and made her into a sex symbol. They made her june cleaver, betty crocker, Barbie, martha stewart, playmate of the year, sex sells they made her into a corporate consumer selling name, she is on every top model magazine and she is always skinny, in too perfect of shape, unrealistic, people have been trained, brought up, brain washed filled with lies about the bigger woman, they said she wasnt sexy, you only see beautiful, sexual, skinny, hot women on tv, the magazines, hollywood, fashion, every where you look so woman grow up trying to have that sexy thin body thinking that is what men want, what the like, what they need. And men too have been taught sexy, skinny is the girl you need on your arm. But since the beginning of times women were thicker, curvier, bigger and they were put on pedastals and honored that ideal for many may have left due to society putting ideals in peoples head. But I believe men do like bigger women and the sex aspect as well they just will not admit it to their friends. Men love healthy women. Societys image of bigger girls and women need to change it has done too much harm to everybody.

Bigger booty bigger boobies bigger hips bigger thighs bigger lips bigger kisses bigger hugs bigger smile bigger brains bigger lovin bigger hearts bigger is lucious bigger is unique bigger is sexy bigger is a great thing

yea its sad tha way society is! i have neices that r 10 yrs old and already worried about their weight, eatin salads and afraid of gaining weight! thats a buncha bullsh*t

Cuz they're hott!!