Loser Dads who neglect their children.

What should women do when "loser dad's" neglect their children? Anyone have "loser dad's" in their life?

My child is five and his "loser dad" walked out on him last week.

My neices' dad is from Kerrville and let me tell you he sure is a HUGE LOSER!!!

maybe they are leaving before doing harm to their pyscho wives? ever think about that?

I am sure there are plenty loser dads, but there are more than enough "Loser Moms" in Kerrville. Just go to Wal-mart at 11:00 pm....or really Wal-mart anytime. Courts are biased towards the mother and the dad gets to work 3 jobs to pay support and if he is lucky, he gets to see his kids any extra that the pyscho will let him.

I'm sure there are loser moms as well as dads. But to answer the question...I have three kids from two realationships and both fathers are LOOSERS. One disappeared when his child was months old and we havent heard from him since. The other lives in this same little bitty town and hasnt seen his two kids in almost a year. I used to try to get him to see them but finally decided that I cant make anyone be a father that he doesnt want to be....even if he did chose to have these kids as well as I did! All the kids are doing very well. I try my best and they see that even at their young age. When they grow up, they'll know who was always there!

Thats no excuse for running out on your child and not paying for them!!!!

Fathers who leave the family should nut up and take care of the children!

I am the mom of a daughter whose dad walked away when she was 12.
He is a whiner just like Goodman, an angry whiner. I have one thing to say to people (parents, male or female) like Goodman, your anger hurts your children. Clearly, you have not figure out to be "the cool parent." The one who just stands by your children no matter what. Let them figure out for themselves if their mother/other parent is psycho. Kids figure out for themselves who is psycho, who is there for them and who is a dead beat. Just go to all their events and be there no matter what. I know the legal system sucks and visitation is not best, but go to all of the events like swim meets, baseball etc. never forget them on their birthday and they will not forget you. If you operate out of anger, they will call you the psycho. Ultimately, it does not matter what the parents think of each other, it is what the children think of you over-all, that matters in the end. Kids will choose who was actually a loving parent and there for them.
All the anger just make kids not want to know either of you.
You both end up the psycho parent from hell.
Children are a family issue. It takes a village to raise children. Tell the dead beat parents in your families to go away until they are moms and dads to their children. No, Christmas dinners with family for dead beat parents who do not bring their children with them, or at least see them regularly and proudly bring lots of photos to Christmas dinner.
Say no to dead beat parents.
Let them be the ones to live without family.
Tell your brothers and sisters, boyfriends and girlfriends with babies, America is tired of sad babies and children who grow up without family love. Tell the parents of these lost children to go away until they find the heart to be moms and dads. Thank you America, we love our children.

It's not about the relationship of the Mom and Dad. If the two parents decide to end the marriage, then that is fine. Both parents have a obligation to their children for life....it's called parenting. What is even harder to understand is when grand parents of the child chose to walk away, because the son doesn't want to be inconvenienced in his life.

My ex son in law is a major loser! My daughter finally divorced him because of his abuse. Now..2 yrs after the divorce, the sperm donor is too lazy and self centered to even call his children. My 13 yr old grandson is crushed and my 4 yr old grandaughter asked her day care teacher if they could have a Dad as the class mascot while the other kids were asking for dogs and penguins for their mascot. What a deadbeat and useless piece of protoplasm! Thanks! I needed to get that off my chest.:)

My son in law sat on his behind for the last 6 or 7 years letting my daughter support him. If and when he makes money, he refuses to pay the bills. Now the house is in danger of foreclosure because he told her he paid the notes. He did not pay the notes. She pays all of the bills unless he says he makes a payment. They have two children. He should be ashamed, but he isn't. My daughter works constantly to try to make ends meet. She is a good person and deserves better than what she has. What a shame!

My ex walked out on his 2 kids under the age of 6 and after a while he stopped paying child support and moved across to the other side of the world.I got quite ill after the kids were born and im unable to work fulltime so money is tight.He lives the high life jet setting across the ocean,he seems to have the money for doin that but not to support his beautiful kids...MAKES ME SO DAMN ANGRY .
He had his own thriving business when we were marriedmaking $100000 a year and he packed it in and moved away and stopped working obviously to get out of paying child support.
I dont sleep at night worrying how im gunna afford to bring up OUR kids.
I once had a house and evrything and now i got nothing and he has everything..how can a father let his kids grow up in poverty when he had a choice for not that to happen.
I have a parttime job that i struggle to do cause of my illness but i still drag myself up out of bed to get a bit of extra spending money for the kids,while my ex is snowboarding and playng golf and living the high life.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

You know where the dead beat dads are? Go to Southway Pub on a Saturday Night! OH YEAH!

hi,start at the begining he was on drugs pregnancy, whilst giving birth to our daughter in carpark with stranger drugs,first words sucks born on a sunday he works on and off with his mum at a resturant. never helped,withdraw me from all my friends 2nd baby came still taking drugs,stopped seeing him pregnancy and toddler alone, wasnt there at our sons birth,at this stage his living the high life,evenually he finds a girl to settle with forms a family her 2 now with a 4y.o. living 20min away he sees our kids lucky 3 times a year, 1st 1 idolises him 2nd doesnt know him

Anyone can be a father, but it takes a man to be a
DAD!! I truly believe what goes around comes back around.