Husband left because I'm FAT

155 is not fat at all. he is just being ass

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Some men, as they age, become very particular about attracts them. It is called ED.
If he admits he can't get it up with a woman with high WHR, he is being honest, and it is very common, believe it or not. It is more about body shape then weight. Work hard to lose that gut.
My wife is 125 and if she was 155, I honestly would have trouble too, getting it up.
If you heard sex has little to do with happy marriage you were lied to. Good luck

I am going through something similar to Dolores at the moment. I have been with my husband for 16 years and I had 2 children in 2 years. I have never been skinny,at my smallest i was a size 14-16 (UK) now I am 18-20. Husband thinks he is being supportive by calling me 'fat, lazy etc etc', hoping that will goad me into being a fitness freak. I've had it all, he's even threatened to take the kids off me. When he's drunk he is extremely abusive, sometimes violent. My self-confidence, right now, is somewhere in the gutter. This week I have been given the silent treatment, except for one comment last night (drunk)'Why are you so fat?' I think he is preparing to leave me and there's nothing I can do about it. My worry is we are supposed to be attending a family christening next month, we can't go like this! I worry about the phone bills, and how the kids are going to take it, although I have sort of hinted at them that 'mum and daddy are having some problems right now'. The stupid thing is, I do still love him, we have been through a lot, and I know it's my fault that we are in this mess. Any advice??

i'll bet he is a homo.

Hello--I have been married for 17 years and had 4 kids in 4 years. I am 30 heavier than I was when I got married (134 at wedding, 164 today). I have been the same weight since my last baby was born 9 years ago. I am constantly making choices and trying to lose the 30 pouinds, but I am only sucessful at maintaining. My husband and I have been having marriage trouble the last 5 years, and my weight is one of the major reasons. He is not attracted to me at all. He wants to "be proud" of me he says. He accuses me of hiding wehn I wear a sweater or jacket, and yet he says he hates my stomach always hanging out. It is very devastating to me and I have zero confidence left. I workout and eat healthy, and I feel good, but I do need to lose weight to get my confidence back. It kills me to see other women who are in perfect shape and I always admire them and wonder how they do it. I always think that my husband would probably rather be with her than me. It is not good.

I will pray for you and your peace and happiness. I know how much it hurts.

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Oh I'm sorry he left you for that your not even fat if he loved you he wouldn't care what you looked like you don't need him in your life he's an ass you can do better he doesn't deserve you

Heyy a similar thing happened to me. So about 6 years ago i met the most awesome guy and i was and still am crazily in love with him. We started off as friends but then started liking eachother Im quite an old fashioned kinda girl i would never tell a guy i like him first i knw that sounds weird bt thats just how i am. Anyway he told me after a few months he was starting to like me alot so told him too how i felt. So from then we started getting close we talked on the fone day and night, met up at every chance we got. He was going through some personal issues so i helped him get through those, like trying to make him feel better was my only aim in life. I had some exams which i did ook in but had i actually stopped and studied for asecond i wouldve done better. Anyway despite how close we both were he always said we cant be together because something is missing. Yet he didnt stop getting close to me he gave priority over any other girl and we got closer and closer. Upto a point where life without him seemed unimaginable. I did everything for him, from lookibg after his finances, making sure he gave his frnds n family enough time, cooking for him, becoming friends with his friends and trying to be as sweet as i could to his female friends who i knew also liked him and hated my guts. If he was down id stay up all night till he felt better. And he always said your the only one who cares about me this much im sooo lucky to have ( we still werent together tho). Anyway he got this amazing job abroad and he promised me before he went that he would tell his family that we were more than friends n how he felt about me. When he got from London to california everything was ook for a few months we constanly kept in touch and we were both happy. Until one day his family introduced him to another girl as a possible life partner, and then he mailed me YES mailed me saying after 6 years that i think im starting to like this girl i have never felt that you were 100% the one for me only about 80% but the 20% i didnt feel for u im starting to feel for her. He also said alot ov it was due to my weight making me feel like i was obese or sumthing. Im not im 150lb. His always liked super slim girls but i dont understood that i wasnt the one he wanted to be with why did he get so close and why didnt he leave a long time ago? I dont understand how he could throw away our 6 years of memories for 2 minths eith this new girl. His completely broken my heart. Ontop of that he wont even talk to me, he just wants to enjoy his new life with this girl and if i try to talk to him hell be saying things like i dont wanna hurt u so lets not talk or hell just ignore me all together.

I cant understand how he cud do this to me. Does anyone have any tips on how i can get iver this. I just keep bursting into tears every once in a while :(

I met my husband when I was 160. We have two kids and I am at 220 and he fines me to be even sexy than before. I had a hard time getting the weight off so I toned up let my hair grow out ad changed up my fashion. What I did was gave him a different women in the same skin. Sometimes we have to make adjustments you will be surprised at a mans reaction. Also bring your confidence! Oh and we have been married for 12 years.