Dead beat dads that should be neutered

Does anyone know Luke A Hall Sr.? Well if not then let me tell you about him... He is a dead beat dad that has 3 kids and apperently another on the way. He has walked away from both of his wives and children. He walked away from his girlfriend and newborn as well. Now theres another on the way. WTF?
He has 3 sons as of right now. 1 in which he denys, 1 that he sees at his convenience and then only has the oldest due to uncontrollable circumstances. He has went weeks without talking to his kids or even checking on them. He has went over 7 months without seeing them.
Why cant people like him be neutered? He DOES NOT need anymore kids! He is behind on his child support because he wont get off his ass and get a real full time job. He denys his kids until its on paper (DNA test). So I mean seriously .. Why cant something be done about men like Luke? Welfare pays to have women fixed.. why not men?

I know how to stop him......Maybe women could stop having his kids. He didn't just start being a dead beat and it takes two to make a kid.

It's called THE PILL. Use it. You can get it for FREE at the health dept. No excuses. Women make themselves victims. Men don't need to be neutered. Women just need to use their brain.

I agree. Women need to learn that when engaging in a relationship, that the general outcome, "IF" a child is born, will be their responsibility.

Deadbeats come in both sexes, not just one. It is harder for me to accept a Deadbeat Mom, than a Deadbeat Dad, but, that is my own personal feelings.
Today's society has an overload of both, and often times, due to getting behind while unemployed, and never getting caught up.
I have more of a problem with parents{either sex} that just plain out don't give a rats azz about their children.

Two of my children had a Dad that you could call a Deadbeat, but, even though he was as sorry as they came, I still tired, repeatedly to incorporate him into our children's lives, even without support. The visits where few and far between, but, some memories where made. But, it was a futile attempt, for as adults, neither of my children will give him the time of day, now. And, often times, I believe that young fathers believe, when a child is grown, they will then..be able to have a relationship with their child.

The song "Cat's In The Cradle", always comes to mind.

I remember back in the day when the liquor store used to be open right next to planned parenthood on west, west beach blvd, past univ.

I'd pony up some cash and drop a chick off on Sat morning, while the protesters were just setting up shop.

A time or two I'd just head out, but that was after the liquor store shut down. Before that I'd chill in the lobby til particular ho got called back before I made my way over.

4 hours later and they want me to drive this b*tch out. She can barely walk but the truth of the matter is that we were probably better off with her behind them behind the wheel.

SillyMe wrote:

Women make themselves victims. Men don't need to be neutered. Women just need to use their brain.

Yes. it's ALWAYS the man's fault. "He did it!!! He made me pregnant!"

you are right it takes "two" to get pregnant.
Just as it takes "two" to raise a child.

ConsciousColonel wrote:

I remember back in the day when the liquor store used to be open right next to planned parenthood on west, west beach blvd, past univ.
I'd pony up some cash and drop a chick off on Sat morning, while the protesters were just setting up shop.
A time or two I'd just head out, but that was after the liquor store shut down. Before that I'd chill in the lobby til particular ho got called back before I made my way over.
4 hours later and they want me to drive this b*tch out. She can barely walk but the truth of the matter is that we were probably better off with her behind them behind the wheel.

Bullchit, monkey boy. keep your mama's lifestyle to yourself.

LOL wrote:

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Bullchit, monkey boy. keep your mama's lifestyle to yourself.

I figured he was drinking lemonade and forgot where he was!
He made no sense too me.
But, that is just me.

Are you serious wrote:

Does anyone know Luke A Hall Sr.? Well if not then let me tell you about him... He is a dead beat dad that has 3 kids and apperently another on the way. He has walked away from both of his wives and children. He walked away from his girlfriend and newborn as well. Now theres another on the way. WTF?
He has 3 sons as of right now. 1 in which he denys, 1 that he sees at his convenience and then only has the oldest due to uncontrollable circumstances. He has went weeks without talking to his kids or even checking on them. He has went over 7 months without seeing them.
Why cant people like him be neutered? He DOES NOT need anymore kids! He is behind on his child support because he wont get off his ass and get a real full time job. He denys his kids until its on paper (DNA test). So I mean seriously .. Why cant something be done about men like Luke? Welfare pays to have women fixed.. why not men?

You know, I understand ..your feelings in the matter. I really do.
But, by posting his name in topix,...did it make 'you' feel better.
This is the father to your child/ren,..as you say..
I understand the need to 'b'itch about the failures he has done as a parent & a father, but, as a mother,..doesn't the need of protecting your child come into play?
Many here, will tell you, that I am not a "liked poster" here, as I have been on the same wave length as you are, just different page, so to speak, but, to ousted someone like this..does nothing for you. I have had many dealing with Fathers & MOTHERS whom failed to do their part, but, I would NOT come here and Post their names for the world to see.
Be careful of the angry inside of you, be careful your children do not see it. For children, only see....that he is Daddy/Mommy.
And as they grow.."IF" you are spouting ugly things for their ears and eyes to see, they will too feel these things...and generally about themselves. Children...have more forgiving hearts than we do. But, they also tend to take on the role,..if Daddy/Mommy is bad, then ...Am I???
BELIEVE ME....if ousting someone would benefit my grandchild,..his mothers name would have been plastered EVERYWHERE. For along with being a deadbeat, their was abuse,..and until you have to deal with all of those things....then, consider yourself lucky, that he is only spreading his seed for all the world to feed.
While I sit by day after day, watching a child that will forever suffer the after affects of abuse, before birth and after.
Be thankful for the things you have, and pray for the things that you need guidance in.
Dealing with your ex....{Just words of advice}...
No harm intended.

their=there.
I have to be educationally correct, for I know the comments that shall follow my post.

MisPlaceD wrote:

their=there.
I have to be educationally correct, for I know the comments that shall follow my post.

there is nothing correct about you

MisPlaceD wrote:

their=there.
I have to be educationally correct, for I know the comments that shall follow my post.

Well well, look like someone was forced to change their name. oh the power of a key board.

Are you serious wrote:

Does anyone know Luke A Hall Sr.? Well if not then let me tell you about him... He is a dead beat dad that has 3 kids and apperently another on the way. He has walked away from both of his wives and children. He walked away from his girlfriend and newborn as well. Now theres another on the way. WTF?
He has 3 sons as of right now. 1 in which he denys, 1 that he sees at his convenience and then only has the oldest due to uncontrollable circumstances. He has went weeks without talking to his kids or even checking on them. He has went over 7 months without seeing them.
Why cant people like him be neutered? He DOES NOT need anymore kids! He is behind on his child support because he wont get off his ass and get a real full time job. He denys his kids until its on paper (DNA test). So I mean seriously .. Why cant something be done about men like Luke? Welfare pays to have women fixed.. why not men?

there are plenty of deadbeat mothers out there as well....

scott1 wrote:

<quoted text>there are plenty of deadbeat mothers out there as well....

yes, and surprising...more fathers have custody today, than ever B4, My son is a single parent with custody of his child, and was given custody when my grandson was 2.{& to this day has NOT recieved $1 in child-support}
It has been almost 5 years and dear Mommy still seems to forget she has this child and 2 more that where, also taken.... And for a very educated woman,{term used loosely} she seems to believe 'she' is in control, of the world.
I am alot of things, but, I have tried my best, to raise my children to be responsible for their children,{male or female}. And if you want an azz-kicking all you have to do is 'forget for a moment' you have a child. I have NO PROBLEM reminding you!
But, I am biased, I will be the first to say it,
I have a harder time with women not being mommy's, than I do with men not being daddy's.
But, I suppose that comes from being a single parent raising my oldest 2 without Daddy around, and getting no support. But when you say "I DO", that is no guarantee that Daddy will be around to Do Anything....much less be a Daddy....BUT MOMMY should always be there....
naturally, I will be judged a clueless nut with spam,....
care for some spam-salad?

MisPlaceD wrote:

you are right it takes "two" to get pregnant.
Just as it takes "two" to raise a child.

Which is why divorces involving children shouldn't be so easy. Divorces should be illegal anyway, because they nullify marital vows.

MisPlaceD wrote:

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But, I am biased, I will be the first to say it,
I have a harder time with women not being mommies than I do with men not being daddies.(Scooter fixing your spelling here)
But when you say "I DO", that is no guarantee that Daddy will be around to Do Anything....much less be a Daddy....BUT MOMMY should always be there.

That is so correct, Which is why weddings in the first place are so laughable! Not only that, but you pay the state for a marriage license (tax?), you lose certain federal tax benefits, and lastly, you pay big for divorce attorneys, not to mention the real victims, here, which are children.

My first marriage ended in divorce (I accept 90% responsibility for that). I came home from work to find my then-two-year-old taken missing, along with a bunch of furniture, and just a quick "bye-bye_ note on the kitchen table. There had been no other warnings given.

I married someone else, and 10 years later (when he was 12) because the judge by default had given him to the mother (because of course all fathers are simply no good), and we discovered that the courts had her on record for having on many occasions physically abused him. Yet she wasn't punished. Imagine if *I* had done something as abhorrent! Yes, at least in Florida, it's he woman who is still considered to be virginal, and thus, the "victim" by default.

At he same time, I agree with MisPlaceD, who should be given an award for having done the right thing. But there are always three sides to a story...

MisPlaceD wrote:

their=there.
I have to be educationally correct, for I know the comments that shall follow my post.

What's with the Queen's English? Just kidding.

Scooter wrote:

<quoted text>Divorces should be illegal anyway, because they nullify marital vows.

Are you kidding me?

MisPlaceD wrote:

you are right it takes "two" to get pregnant.
Just as it takes "two" to raise a child.

The courts should remember this when they are giving one so much more control than the other when comes to the children. Non custodial parents can really get the shaft when the custodial parents wants to play games pertaining to the children. You know the "I'm still bitter because you left me so you can't see your children"

It becomes a real problem when the child become unmanageable then the custodial cries "I'm a single parent and he/she doesn't help me" That's why the kid is a total screw up!