OK, I need to ask so here it goes...
23 years ago I hooked up with a girl from Guyandotte and had a son. A bunch of sh** went down, she hooked up with someone else and eventually was part of his murder in a hotel room down town. My folks had filed to adopt when this person was sent to jail (i had hauled ass to California) for said murder and that was pretty much the end of this persons involvement in my sons life. My son was 2 at this time.
Some of you may now know who I am.
Well this girl had a daughter shortly after I split the scene the another son. My 22 year old son has not seen his mother or siblings sense he was a child.
I personally don't want to deal with the BS of my past but the daughter may be MY daughter as well.
My son wants to go to huntington to see his brother and sister and Im ok with that. Im just a little freaked about his mom. She has had nothing to do with him for his hole life. What do I do?

Today my wife and I have a perfect life, nice home and loving children of our own. My wife has never been exposed to that sort of environment. She is honest with people and a very kind and trusting soul. I am afraid to involve my family with that part of my past.

If you know or knew "Ruthie Bays" from Guyandotte and care to expand on what I just said for the benefit of my wife and family please comment on why I should or shouldn't go or any option I may do.

Thanks