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what does that have to do with anything. there is help out there for those struggling mothers. and why is it just mothers, there are single fathers out there as well. I am not disagreeing with what you are saying, but there is help out there for them, its just their choice not to take advantage of it.
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1 So, yes, this money is going towards fixing the castle, but it will also help bring jobs to the region and hopefully help some of the families that are struggling to get back on their feet, not to mention the final result will be a stronger tax base for dansville, due to the increase in businesses. |
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1 It just boggles my mind that the government can come up with all of these grants for millions of dollars and yet the funding for programs like WIC is so short that they can't "help" a single mother making $14.00/hour because they see that as a decent income. You do the math - house payment, car, insurance, utilities, food, formula, diapers.$14.00/hour doesn't put a dent in it. I'm very fortunate to have a strong support system (an awesome family) because after all of that, my kids would walk around in rags because I certainly couldn't afford to buy them the clothes that they have! So I guess my point is that the government seems, in my eyes anyway, to have it's priorities out of order. While I agree that it's GREAT to see this building being resurrected...it's not going to help people like myself and my children to live comfortably. I just think it's a kick in the butt to hear "sorry, you aren't eligible for help" because I have a job and make more than minimum wage and have managed to purchase a home for myself and my children - then read years later that they've come up with millions for a project such as this. From what I hear, the programs for "help" have become even more stringent. I find it hard to believe that I'm the only one who feels this way. |
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1 "It just boggles my mind that the government can come up with all of these grants for millions of dollars and yet the funding for programs like WIC is so short that they can't "help" a single mother making $14.00/hour because they see that as a decent income. You do the math - house payment, car, insurance, utilities, food, formula, diapers.$14.00/hour doesn't put a dent in it." |
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1 Bernarr Macfadden was quite the Guy in his day, The building was once a sanitarium later bought by Macfadden and turned into a Health Spa. I remember seeing it many times while growing up and visiting Family in Dansville. Many stories about the place and it's history I have heard! Most forgotten now, but if this Building were in many other Municipalities, it might have been considered a Landmark! I would hope Dansville gets it registered on the Historical Places registry, That and the Home of Clara Barton if the house still exists should be on it.. |
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1 It would surly be great if I can once again visit the castle as I did when I was younger (and almost drowned in the pool there), I was thankfull my brothers worked there and pulled me to safty. It would also be nice if they can bring Main St. back as it once was with retail stores (Grants, G.C. Murfey's) It seem's you have to spend money on gas just to go to a retail store out of town instead of just "walking to town" to shop. |
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1 Why does the government owe you anything? |
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1 Regarding the project for the preservation for "Castle on The Hill" - this would be considered a good thing. I don't know the entire scope of the project, but if a large developer is willing to contributing private dollars and effort, you can be sure they see measurable opportunity. No one is going to invest their own $, and a lot of it for just something to do. Equity partners invest to make money and that generally means folks associated or living in those areas will also reap some benefit (new jobs, etc). If government dependency continues to increase in towns like Dansville & Wayland and you lose a large % of a taxable base over time - where do you think the money comes from for improved roads, grants, education, healthcare, etc? And who in their right mind would try and start a business in an area where the main level of income is a growing dependent populations receiving government assistance (money, housing, etc.). My point, start embracing that companies are trying to invest $ in small towns. It is a good thing that investors are willing to take chances in struggling areas – it’s a win a win and hopefully it will promote additional growth. |
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1 Allen - their father is in court with me 3 or 4 times a year wasting tax payers' money and my time. Poor family planning is a joke. Divorce happens all of the time for all sorts of reasons! Stereotyping is dangerous. Just Me - gov't doesn't owe me anything, nor does anyone else...but I pay in to these programs and why shouldn't my kids have benefited - or am I to believe that you think it's okay that these programs are paying the way for people who abuse the system by having child after child to increase their income while sitting on their asses at home eating McDonald's? They were created to be useful to people who are actually TRYING to get through the struggle by working. No damn excuses...just my opinion being put out here - same as yours. |
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1 I am not going to boo-hoo here, but I am a single parent that has a decent job, a mortgage, and bills just like most people. I drive a beat-up, paid for, reliable vehicle, I shop at Aldis, consignment stores, thrift stores, we don't have fancy gadgets and we don't take vacations - BECAUSE - their are PRIORITIES!!!!! My daughter gets new hat/coat/gloves/boots every year - sometimes, if I can find a good deal, she may get 2 coats or 2 boots ... you know how kids are; they either grow out of it, ooopps - catch the sleeve on a tree, or may just be playing outside and it gets wet and after they warm up in the house,they want to go out again - so - we like to have extras on hand. I struggle to make ends meet - and at times work 2 jobs. I also work up in the city and I have to drive through neighborhoods and all I see are people standing on the street bullshitting, smoking, all decked out in thier fancy clothes, women at the nail salon spending $30 plus on thier nails while their kids next to them look like orphans. I see them in Walmart with 2 CARTS of food - mostly crap - SO - when I hear "hey lets donate to the poor in the city" - All I can think is - Yeah - I'll donate - I'll donate some advice - go get a job, maybe 2 jobs - go to the consignment stores - I have gotten beautiful - BRAND NEW coats there for $5!!!! Shop at Aldi's - big savings there. Take care of what you have - I have seen coats on some kids that looked like they havent been washed in a year - taking care of your things will make them last much longer. This includes your dwelling - what makes these areas look SOOOOO BAD is all the crap you leave around the house, unmowed properties, sheets covering your windows (you can get actual curtains at dollar general) I have recently suffered 2 major, costly, situations in one month - on top of the rise in my mortgage payment. Although I was horribly embarrassed, I did look into receiving some TEMPORARY assistance, but I don't qualify - even in a very difficult time. All assistance is going to people that make less than me - from the figures I was given, the people that are getting this assistance are certainly NOT working very hard!!!! So - PARENTS OF THESE KIDS WHO DON'T HAVE WARM ENOUGH CLOTHES/COATS TO WALK TO SCHOOL - GET OVER YOURSELVES - GET A JOB - LOOK FOR BARGAINS - AND STOP SUCKING OFF OTHERS!!!! |
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1 I'd like to also point out for the THIRD time that I too think it's great that they're rebuilding the castle and that it's going to create a few jobs. What this (the point I've been trying so desperately to make) has to do with the castle is the funding for it...a lot of it is from NEW YORK STATE. NEW YORK STATE makes the rules for "assistance" and NEW YORK STATE has decided to donate (GRANT = donate) a TON of money to rebuilding this instead of spending it on fixing the problems that exist within their system. Whether anyone has done enough research to make an educated opinion on the types of women who should REALLY be awarded some temporary assistance such as WIC is beside the point. I have taken some of these comments very personally...that's my fault. However, I PAY TAXES and that means that I am ENTITLED to an opinion (just like the rest of you) about how New York decides to spend it. Right or wrong? |
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1 My Mother was born and raised in Dansville, to a Son of an Irish Immigrant and a Daughter of a German Immigrant and made it through the depression. The kids only got 1 new pair of shoes a year and 1 new dress or shirt and slacks for the boys and to top it off there were 17 kids. They could have accepted Temporary Assitance but never accepted a Dime as both Grandma and Grandpa Worked for everything they got taking on little jobs to help make ends meet. Then too many people are not Proud anymore!
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1 WIC didn't exist when your grandparents were raising their children. Neither did $3.00 gallons of milk or $25.00 cans of formula or $250 a week for daycare. Trips to the doctor's office every other month cost more than the co-pay...they cost me $14.00 each hour that I sit and wait in the office rather than in my office working. I know the struggles our ancestors faced - they certainly didn't have the paychecks that we have today or the material things, like the computers that you and I are sitting at, that we as a society have become dependent on. But it wasn't MY generation who founded these programs, my friends...it was generations before me. And I could be mistaken, but I think these programs and a ton of other things were created or invented so that each generation gets a better life than the one before. I know that's what my goal is with my children - to ensure a better life than mine for them! So maybe instead of sitting at your computer ashamed at the lack of pride that people SEEM to show to you, maybe you should give a little bit of thought to how that happened? We've all been spoiled - I can't disagree with that! |
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