Why do men cheat

When you have everything any man could ask for, you cheat! When you have a wife so many men want yet only has eyes for you, you cheat! Anything you ask for you have, you cheat! All the sex anyone man can want, you cheat! You have a wife who waits on you hand and foot, you cheat! You worry not about any bills because your wife makes sure there paid, you cheat! Supper on the table when you walk through the door from work, you cheat! I love you with every breath i take every ounce of blood that my heart pumps is because i live for you the love i have for you is unconditional, you cheat! What have i done so wrong? Why do you tear my heart into pieces? WHY MUST YOU CHEAT?

He appears to be the one with the problem. Pull up your bra straps and face it head on. You deserve better.

A real man won't cheat!

Not just men cheat, women do too if not more. This world has become no more than sex and money!

There is no infallible answer to your question.
However, a ruthless creature exists within all of humankind. Its name is Revenge. Don't blame yourself, dear. I recommend sleeping with your husband's closest friend.(-8

your future x wife wrote:

There is no infallible answer to your question.
However, a ruthless creature exists within all of humankind. Its name is Revenge. Don't blame yourself, dear. I recommend sleeping with your husband's closest friend.(-8

Can you wait about a week so I can become your husbands best friend?

Pretend 2 B Normal wrote:

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Can you wait about a week so I can become your husbands best friend?

I'm not married.(-8

your future x wife wrote:

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I'm not married.(-8

Well keep me posted.

I will keep you in mind. (-8

your future x wife wrote:

I will keep you in mind.(-8

Thanks.

There is not a definative answer to the old age question for the simple fact no 2 people are the same. My philosphy is simple, if they think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, tell him to buy a new lawn mower.

Men cheat because we like a variety.

Women cheat for a upgrade.

It's just life, live with it.

i've been with my wife for 15 years & i've never cheated on her. i've been offered, but i just haven't done it. i guess i figure i know how i would feel if i found out she had cheated. it would be devastating to me & i think it would be for her as well. i've seen many lives screwed up because of cheating.

It ain't just men. It's both. People be single and you can do what you want. If you find a good man/ woman. Keep them and be good to them. They are few and far between

Man Ho wrote:

Men cheat because we like a variety.
Women cheat for a upgrade.
It's just life, live with it.

What an interesting theory! Makes one wonder why women would choose to upgrade.

Sometimes you think you have done real well when you marry. Your the football star, she's homecoming queen, miss so & so of your town, out of a good family and she's beautiful. Right out of highschool they marry. She gives you 2 beautiful children and with little help from him raises them to be productive citizens of society. She keeps a clean, beautiful home. She is a great cook and gets up at all hours of the night when he gets home to cook if he,s hungry. She works in the yard making their home look beautiful outside as well as in. She even runs a business they have successfully above all that. The football star becomes "successfull" in his career, serves his country well. Works very hard,long nights and sometimes gone for months in his job so his family could live comfortable. Yes, the husband stepped out a few times with the wife never knowing. It didn't hurt if she didn't know. For along the way in this seemingly "wonderful" marriage all the beauty and all the trophies won and all that was done for the family didn't make the 2 people exactly happy. Now they had not slept together in years. She knew nothing about him. He has his hobbies with no imput from wife. None of his interests are hers. He happens upon someone with all the interests he has and they begin seeing one another now and then. It makes him happy and "alive" . He can really talk to this person and she listens. This other woman asks for nothing in return and knew upfront he would always stay with his family. The wife never knows nor anyone else. Who is he harming? The other woman may be keeping his marriage together. Where is the harm in this?

Clyde wrote:

Sometimes you think you have done real well when you marry. Your the football star, she's homecoming queen, miss so & so of your town, out of a good family and she's beautiful. Right out of highschool they marry. She gives you 2 beautiful children and with little help from him raises them to be productive citizens of society. She keeps a clean, beautiful home. She is a great cook and gets up at all hours of the night when he gets home to cook if he,s hungry. She works in the yard making their home look beautiful outside as well as in. She even runs a business they have successfully above all that. The football star becomes "successfull" in his career, serves his country well. Works very hard,long nights and sometimes gone for months in his job so his family could live comfortable. Yes, the husband stepped out a few times with the wife never knowing. It didn't hurt if she didn't know. For along the way in this seemingly "wonderful" marriage all the beauty and all the trophies won and all that was done for the family didn't make the 2 people exactly happy. Now they had not slept together in years. She knew nothing about him. He has his hobbies with no imput from wife. None of his interests are hers. He happens upon someone with all the interests he has and they begin seeing one another now and then. It makes him happy and "alive" . He can really talk to this person and she listens. This other woman asks for nothing in return and knew upfront he would always stay with his family. The wife never knows nor anyone else. Who is he harming? The other woman may be keeping his marriage together. Where is the harm in this?

It is disrespectful to both women! She will eventually find out! She will pick up his phone one day when it goes off or see it off the phone bill. Trust me I found out and he never thought I would. He realizes what he had wasn't to bad when he don't have it anymore! On top of that the kids get hurt too! Don't understand why guys or girls dont think about their kids feelings to they see their parents hurt more then anyone even when you try to hide it from them

Clyde wrote:

Who is he harming? The other woman may be keeping his marriage together. Where is the harm in this?

Explain to me what the point of the marriage is then? From what I read he has an angel at home that he cannot see. It isn't always about hurting the person. It is about respecting the person. If she has truly done all that you have listed then he owes her the respect to not cheat. This man is the epitome of the "me man do what I want you woman stay home" attitude. If he cannot see that it is his own fault that he is not happy at home then he is a fool. You speak like the other woman is doing his wife a favor. Not hardly. She is perpetuating the mystique of a happy marriage that only one of them is falling for. His wife deserves better.

Tell me this...If a tree falls in the Forrest and nobody's there to hear it....does it make a sound?

Men cheat because they love variety. After so long with the same thing over and over it gets boring. Something new is always more fun.

Women cheat because their husbands stop paying attention to them, and guys(looking for variety) will tell them how pretty they are and pay attention to them.