Mother Accused of Forcibly Piercing Daughter, Shaving Child's Head

This is crazy. The mother along with ALL other parents need to realize that his/her child is going to have sex, if thats what they choose, regaurdless what the parent(s)says or does.The best thing that parents need to do is have "THE TALK" and the importance of protection is, then hope and pray that the child listens and not have sex and if they do they use protection!!!!

If this mother did this then she is wacked out. I don't care what the daughter did nothing would justify what the mother did. And I'm glad that they are going after the mother's boyfriend for having sex with the daughter (a minor). However I don't know enough info about this story to know if the daughter made it all up or not. I mean I feel like she is telling the truth but i just don't know all the facts. If anyone else knows anything more about this I'd be interested.

This whole story is crazy from start to finish. First of all why was the 13 year old having sex already? And then with her mother´s boyfriend? Then the mother thought the solution was to shave her daughter´s hair off and get the girl´s private area pierced?! Seems to me like the whole family needs counseling!!

UMMMM Do the word statutary rape apply here the girl was not of legal age and having sex with anyone yet moms boyfriend .... How can anyone justify this moms actions in the whole thing, and the friend of moms she sounds like a real winner willing to do this to a child. They all need some help and some serious jail time

MissUSC wrote:

This whole story is crazy from start to finish. First of all why was the 13 year old having sex already? And then with her mother´s boyfriend? Then the mother thought the solution was to shave her daughter´s hair off and get the girl´s private area pierced?! Seems to me like the whole family needs counseling!!

I'm with you on that!!

This may be a good example of where 'an eye for an eye' might be appropriate, in addition to the jail time.

When did the mother realize that her boyfriend was having sex with her 13 yr old daughter?

What about the other sex partner(s)? Are they being arrested too?

What is the solution to prevent 13 yr old children from making this life-changing mistake?

If this was my daughter, I would have handled it differently, but then I would be in jail too. Most likely for life. But the world would be short one child molester.

EJF Member wrote:

Genital Mutilation American Style
In 1996 the U.S. Congress, eager to appease feminist groups and appear to be the Great White Protectors of American Girlhood, passed a law against female circumcision or any other form of genital modification of girls below the age of consent.
Yet, roughly one million baby boys a year in this country are rudely welcomed into the world by the amputation, without anesthesia, of an integral, sexually important part of their anatomy. By definition, the removal of a normal, healthy, functional body part is mutilation. Pure and simple. These one million babies represent around 60% of all male infants born in this country, a figure that is down from a high reached in the 1970's and 1980's of around 90%. And what is truly astounding is that, while we become incensed over the female genital mutilations going on in Africa and other third-world countries far, far away, we ignore the routine mutilations perpetrated here against our own sons.
http://www.fathermag.com/health/circ/gmas/

And yet studies have shown that circumcision for males can reduce the chances of infections. The chances of infections do not play into female circumcisions. I really don't hear to many men b*tching that they were circumsized(sp?). I don't hear to many saying "oops can't do that, mom had me circumsized a day after birth".

I really don't know what this world is coming too.

EJF Member wrote:

Genital Mutilation American Style
In 1996 the U.S. Congress, eager to appease feminist groups and appear to be the Great White Protectors of American Girlhood, passed a law against female circumcision or any other form of genital modification of girls below the age of consent.
Yet, roughly one million baby boys a year in this country are rudely welcomed into the world by the amputation, without anesthesia, of an integral, sexually important part of their anatomy. By definition, the removal of a normal, healthy, functional body part is mutilation. Pure and simple. These one million babies represent around 60% of all male infants born in this country, a figure that is down from a high reached in the 1970's and 1980's of around 90%. And what is truly astounding is that, while we become incensed over the female genital mutilations going on in Africa and other third-world countries far, far away, we ignore the routine mutilations perpetrated here against our own sons.
http://www.fathermag.com/health/circ/gmas/

I actually agree with you here.

EJF Member wrote:

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The foreskin helps protect against bacteria infections. How can men bitch about something missing since birth? We don't know whether we want it or not. Shouldn't it be our decision? Is it too much to ask to have the same rights as a baby girl?

Then go get some skin attached if that is what you want. I'm sure if baby girls had something EXTRA to cut off, that would make cleaning easier, that serves no real purpose, they would cut it off.
The foreskin can also hold bacteria in place which CAN cause infection.

Her 13 yr old was having sex (with her boyfriend no less!) and this was the best plan she could come up with? Hope the boyfriend is in jail for child rape.

735stacey wrote:

Her 13 yr old was having sex (with her boyfriend no less!) and this was the best plan she could come up with? Hope the boyfriend is in jail for child rape.

It sounds more like pay back then protection.

This is very nsad why did she even put her self in that position where her Boyfriend and daugther were so close

The mother should be sent to prison and gang raped by the biggest and filthiest female inmate to learn how it feels to be forced into submission. The "friend tattoo artist" should get a lengthy stay as well for knowingly doing body art on a minor.

What about the people who helped the mother do this? They should be in jail also....along with the boyfriend.

The youth of our world are being destroyed by their parents. If parents would step up to the plate and expect more from themselves by not dating men who would sleep with a 13 year old. Parents try not to be so cool and understand how you are protecting your children by making them follow rules that make them a better person 10 years from now. Parents, kids are only going to be a good as you make them be.

This is a family gone wild.

Monica wrote:

This is crazy. The mother along with ALL other parents need to realize that his/her child is going to have sex, if thats what they choose, regaurdless what the parent(s)says or does.The best thing that parents need to do is have "THE TALK" and the importance of protection is, then hope and pray that the child listens and not have sex and if they do they use protection!!!!

Well put. Unless she is going to be on co*chie patrol 24/7 she cant stop her even with piercings.

I can think of some things that should be cut off the boyfriend, instead of that child's hair...

It has nothing to do with how close the boyfriend and the daughter were...he is an adult, she is a child. PERIOD.

This is another case of a mother taking the man's side over her child, and clearly she should have never had children to start with. And with a role model like this, is it any wonder that the child is having sex so young??

when children get this old it is hard to control them, but the mom should not have done this to her daughter, but be more concerned what her boyfried had done to her daughter, Sex is not an issue with these kids because there is so much of it going on and kids do not care abount the desease they may get,The highest rate to teenage preganancy is black african american, and I fell there should be a law on young teenager geting pregnate, where the male has to take care or go to jail and a limit on how many kids are born to that person. there are so many kids born and not wanted and congress should pass this law and if they don't the population will continue and govenrment will take care of these kids and these people will always be in the system and not better themselves. I blame this mother because the boyfried was a no good African to have sex with this child and the mother has taught her because of probally what goes on in the home. should give the mother more time in prison

This whole thing sounds so Brittney Spears-ish.