Seeking Foreign Brides

I saw this article in a blog. What do you think?

"I have travelled widely to Europe and Asia and I want to share this well-known observation - American feminist women have a terrible reputation among men around the world. They are widely perceived as obese, selfish, spoiled, boorish and emotionally demanding. They are also considered rather overbearing and hysterical. It's well known amongst expat communities around the world that American feminist women are shunned by men outside of U.S.A.

On the contrary, decent and well-off American men are generally viewed as the "cream of the crop" - highly coveted and desirable.... These gentlemen enjoy a great reputation among foreign ladies who perceive them to be respectful, nurturing, responsible, well-educated and financially secure. In addition, these women believe that American men make great husbands, especially in contrast to native men, who are often disrespectful, abusive and unfaithful.

The problem in this country is that the "best in the world" are often paired up with the "worst in the world".... a complete mismatch. It's like a highschool Prom King dating an ugly, domineering and boorish girl. It's very unlikely this type of relationship will work out. Sadly, this seems to be the case, as the marriages "made in America" have a higher divorce rate (55 to 60 percent) than in the cross-cultural marriages (15 to 20 percent). So why is risk of divorce so much lower when an American gentleman marries a "mail-order bride"? In a nutshell, it's because our Prom King is marrying a Prom Queen, who is beautiful, intelligent, feminine, appreciative and devoted.

A growing number of affluent American men are rejecting American feminist women and going overseas to embrace loverly, young foreign brides. A nearly fourfold increase in foreign women entering the U.S. on fiance(e) visas (over the last 7 years) supports this contention. It's no secret that by pursuing foreign women, men can find much younger, more attractive and devoted partners than what's available at home.

Let me tell you about the relationship between my loverly Russian wife and myself. Despite our 21 year age difference, our relationship is based on mutual love and admiration.... our love is real and valid. Also, our bond is strengthened by our common interests, continual romance and mutual respect for each other. As with most Russian women, my wife is independent and has a strong will. Our relationship is a 50-50 equal partnership. There is no control and no domination.

My experience, as described above, is very typical of most marriages to "mail-order brides" - in contrast to many marriages "made in America", there are no bitchiness or nagging, no hysteria or drama and no belligerant or confrontational behaviors.... only mutual love and admiration.

Therefore...., when a decent and affluent American gentleman marries a young, loverly foreign bride, what's created is truely, a match made in heaven - the best matched with the best....

And IMBRA is really a scornful feminist response to growing international romance."

http://www.online-dating-rights.com/blog/lest... ?

dave1467 wrote:

I saw this article in a blog. What do you think?
"I have travelled widely to Europe and Asia and I want to share this well-known observation - American feminist women have a terrible reputation among men around the world. They are widely perceived as obese, selfish, spoiled, boorish and emotionally demanding. They are also considered rather overbearing and hysterical. It's well known amongst expat communities around the world that American feminist women are shunned by men outside of U.S.A.
On the contrary, decent and well-off American men are generally viewed as the "cream of the crop" - highly coveted and desirable.... These gentlemen enjoy a great reputation among foreign ladies who perceive them to be respectful, nurturing, responsible, well-educated and financially secure. In addition, these women believe that American men make great husbands, especially in contrast to native men, who are often disrespectful, abusive and unfaithful.
The problem in this country is that the "best in the world" are often paired up with the "worst in the world".... a complete mismatch. It's like a highschool Prom King dating an ugly, domineering and boorish girl. It's very unlikely this type of relationship will work out. Sadly, this seems to be the case, as the marriages "made in America" have a higher divorce rate (55 to 60 percent) than in the cross-cultural marriages (15 to 20 percent). So why is risk of divorce so much lower when an American gentleman marries a "mail-order bride"? In a nutshell, it's because our Prom King is marrying a Prom Queen, who is beautiful, intelligent, feminine, appreciative and devoted.
A growing number of affluent American men are rejecting American feminist women and going overseas to embrace loverly, young foreign brides. A nearly fourfold increase in foreign women entering the U.S. on fiance(e) visas (over the last 7 years) supports this contention. It's no secret that by pursuing foreign women, men can find much younger, more attractive and devoted partners than what's available at home.
Let me tell you about the relationship between my loverly Russian wife and myself. Despite our 21 year age difference, our relationship is based on mutual love and admiration.... our love is real and valid. Also, our bond is strengthened by our common interests, continual romance and mutual respect for each other. As with most Russian women, my wife is independent and has a strong will. Our relationship is a 50-50 equal partnership. There is no control and no domination.
My experience, as described above, is very typical of most marriages to "mail-order brides" - in contrast to many marriages "made in America", there are no bitchiness or nagging, no hysteria or drama and no belligerant or confrontational behaviors.... only mutual love and admiration.
Therefore...., when a decent and affluent American gentleman marries a young, loverly foreign bride, what's created is truely, a match made in heaven - the best matched with the best....
And IMBRA is really a scornful feminist response to growing international romance."
http://www.online-dating-rights.com/blog/lest... ?

ya hit hit right the head. That is the general concensus. It's almost to the point of role reversal. Guy traded in the nuts and women took em over. I guess that's not politically correct though

Men that seek Mail Order Brides are nut and they are very weak minded individuals. Mail Order Bride marriages are fraudalent marriages in the way marriage was designed. The men have sex problems and the women have financial problems. A old man and a prostitute, inwhich, the man have given the prostitute his name. The man is like the pump and buyer all in one. Prostitution with a green card is what it is.

Eddie07 wrote:

Men that seek Mail Order Brides are nut and they are very weak minded individuals. Mail Order Bride marriages are fraudalent marriages in the way marriage was designed. The men have sex problems and the women have financial problems. A old man and a prostitute, inwhich, the man have given the prostitute his name. The man is like the pump and buyer all in one. Prostitution with a green card is what it is.

You sir, are a moron.

For all of those men out there seeking beautiful Russian or Ukrainian brides, you should check out this long running thread:

http://www.topix.net/forum/topstories/TOQUUNK...

OH, Eddie07 has struck a truth nerve once again!!!

Eddie07 wrote:

OH, Eddie07 has struck a truth nerve once again!!!

Nope, your just a moron

bumwithalaptop wrote:

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Nope, your just a moron

The Truth Hurts!!!!!!!!!!

Ok...

I can honestly say a few things. First and foremost: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A MAIL ORDER BRIDE! Anyone who thinks its ok or even legal to order a human being over the internet is a serious idiot.

Secondly there has become a decent market for American men who want to date foreign women. Such companies as A Foreign Affair (loveme.com ) actually do what are called "Romance Tours" in which american men pay to go on a trip in which they meet literally hundreds of foreign women over seas who are actually genuine, marriage minded individuals. I totally agree with the initial post of this blog, bottom line is that American women are not what they used to be. Let me rephrase that by saying the mind set in American culture for women is that they want the cake, they want to eat it as well, and what the hell they want access to the whole bakery 24/7. They want to wear the pants in the relationship and typically demand that it be given to them. This is not how good relationships work and everyone knows that. Now granted not ALL American women are this way but they are a vast majority that is for certain. My advice is don't knock it until you try it. The average woman on loveme.com is actually sincere. A few things to point out would be this. If you are only looking for a potential sex slave then you diserve to meet someone who will scam you and take you for what you are worth. If you are someone who is tired of the usual dating scene and want to meet a woman who is not only beautiful but also career oriented and marriage minded trust me... TRY A ROMANCE TOUR. They exist, and with the right company they are a very good opportunity to find the love of your life. All three of the owners of A Foreign Affair are married to Russian women and have been for 10 or more years. Furthermore they have been the leading company in the Foreign Dating scene since its birth in 1995. If you think that what I am saying isn't true do some research. Most women in these foreign countries are what men in america only dream about, and on the flip side in their own countries the men take advantage of this situation. Men are outnumbered by women especially in the Ukraine and Russia. Most men in the FSU (Former Soviet Union) die young, are abusive, alcoholics, and cheaters. Not to stereotype ALL FSU men as I'm sure there are nice guys out there but the ratio of nice guys vs. the latter are small in numbers, just like the ratio of femministic, spoiled, controlling, manipulative bitches in America TOTALLY outnumber the ratio of nice, marriage minded, career oriented girls. Like Dave said. Its a match made in heaven. Does anyone else think its wrong to broaden your dating horizens to foreign countries? I mean if its not working for you in America and there are thousands of success stories with these types of marriages than I'm thinking there is a bigger picture that people are too ignorant to understand.

I have been to Costa Rica where I have owned a home for over 5 yrs. Dated several CR women. Never married one.
All are great ladies that want a normal relationship with a faithful man. American expats tend to skew the statistics with MayDecember relationships but by and large Latinas will not seek out 60+ men if they are younger than 40.
The real story is that CR men tend to be unfaithful and the number of single mothers is staggering. A pool of beautiful, mature, serious minded women seek out American husbands because they are financially stable and estatic to find women who look so good and treat them so well.
People who have never traveled and formed opinions from 3rd party info or Internet sites are foolish to make pronouncements about any relationship or person.

I totally agree.

The original reply that Eddie07 stated was completely false in every aspect. He was basically making an assumption based off of what he heard on a very misunderstood industry that does exist. Its not for everyone and it can be costly to travel so much, but you would agree that most of the women in foreign countries are not as demanding than american girls wouldn't you?

in my experiences, latin women are like this: there are scammers and predators, but the vast majority will treat you well if you treat them well; its that simple. You can either marry a north american white female who is overweight, fetid, selfish, grasping, manipulative, malicious and controlling - or you can marry a well-groomed, attractive woman who treats you like a human being.

you do need to be careful - but there is a market for foreign women in north america that is growing and it will continue to grow.

for what it's worth, I think Eddie07 is a woman masquerading as a man; drawing from experience, I know that a lot of women will post pretending to be men in the expectation that they can possibly add legitimacy to their arguments that way.

women in our culture are shifty and cunning

in any case, eddie, it doesn't matter: men are leaving you for something better and this trend will continue

perhaps, when the time comes, your muslim boyfriend/sweetheart will cut off your head with a rusty scimitar and piss down your throat.

I'm sure you'll probably deserve it

WOW. LMAO. Ok so I agree with what most of it is that you said. I think that the majority of american women are horrible. I also feel like there are some good ones out there they are just much harder to find.

As far as the eddie thing I mean, you could be right. No one will ever know and either way it doesn't matter. Its OBVIOUS that he is uninformed in any case. That last post made me laugh but I think it was a bit unecessary.

No, Eddie...It's just you, buddy.

I married a Ukrainian woman ten years ago. We're still going strong and happy as ever. I'm sorry you don't have what it takes, but other men should not be listening to you.

Foreign women are 10 times the women in the states are!

I'm a 36 yr old male and I have to totally agree with the first post. American women are pretty much the bottom of the barrel. I'm sure their are a few that aren't but most are. Many of my freinds have married and divorced just due to her getting comfortable, lazy and down right bitchy.
As far as the sites for meeting the Russian or Latin ladies I've never done that. I guess I did it the hard way just using free chatrooms. So far been very successful. As far as sex for green card Eddie your way fucked up. Have you heard of tourists visa? My gf uses it all the time have seen her here in us 3 times and I've been to Russia twice. The only reason I'm not married I insisted she finish her education. 6 months to go. ThAnk god.
Personally I think Eddie jealous of us guys and I'm not worried about it.