do white men find black women attractive??

I am an educated, 24 year old black woman with no children, who is attracted to white men. It seems as if caucasion men seem to look but not approached. Is it intimidation or maybe even disgust (although highly unlikely)?? Black men have no shame in their prowess of white woman. Although many times they choose from the bottom of the barrell (you know the fat walmart clothing type). So to those of you gawking from a far, don't be afraid to approach..... I too am watching you.(For those who may reply with ignorant racist responses... God bless you..... I am not nor will I ever be moved by foolishness.... hatred has no place in my life or this world)

Since you brought it up..I asked my husband and he said white men dont really like black women cuz they are obnoxious, bossy, & overbearing...of course thats just his opinion we know yall arent like that ;)

@lowdown..... honesty appreciated..... I can understand the misconception when it comes to black women. Until more recent years we were displayed very innaccurately by the media... making it appear that we are no more than "ghetto" trash. And in public you probably only notice the women who are being loud and obnoxious because that personality demands more attention then a civilized one. I just wish people would realize that being black doesn't mean you represent the whole black population..... saying all african american women are obnoxious and overbearing is like saying all white women are weak and impressionable. Stereotypical yes..... but fact?? Not at all.

well we know black guys like our white women.lol

Cause they suck good d!ck !

blah wrote:

well we know black guys like our white women.lol

Yes they do....... o oh well. White girls can have the black men because I honestly am not interested.

im a white male quite young lol 17 i personally find black women quite attractive and i have never had trouble aproaching anybody no matter what race they are from.

Some caucasian men may think that black girls are loud and "ghetto" because of what is seen on tv. There are few of us beautiful black girls who are curvy, educated, strong and are not loud. I might live in the ghetto but I am gonna let it change my personality. If a caucasian man in embarrassed to approach me, I find it very offensive to me because my skin is darker than other people, but it's not my fault because I am born that way. If you want to go out with me don't be embarrassed because people shouldn't worry about others say. I am 12 (i know I shouldn't be on here) and I find caucasian boys very attractive (or black boys who r light skinned) and there isn't anything y'all can do bout it!!:D If i'm different, deal with it!! Peace, an luv!!

For pete's sake....such a bunch of ignorant comments I have never seen this side of a Republican convention!

Frank987 wrote:

For pete's sake....such a bunch of ignorant comments I have never seen this side of a Republican convention!

take a look in the mirror & you'll see ignorant.

im a white male from new orleans and i find black girls equally or sometimes more than a white girl

attractive*

blah wrote:

well we know black guys like our white women.lol

I agree. I am educated, well traveled and well off financially. I know who i am, where i am from and where i am headed. Ghetto just is not me. I like dating white and latino men. Actually, it is my preference for the simple fact that so few black men in california fate dark skinned, heavy women such as myself.

I meant date!!! Lol

I am a white male. I think most people are attracted to people who have simular traits to them because there is some evolutionary advantage to it. There is however strength from diversity as well but there is definitely strong internal gravity towards those who are simular to you. This is for the purpose reinforcing positive traits that you both may share.

Physically black women tend to be more muscular, larger and generally have more masculine characteristics then white women. That is why I am not generally attracted to them physically (off course there are exceptions and I have had short relationships with Black women). Also American black women do tend to have a chip on there shoulder type of attitude towards from the start (with good reason). Culturally American Black people are actively dividing them selves from the white majority by using language, music and fashion. This adds to the cultural divide between white and black people and makes it more difficult for inter racial relationships.

I am a tall white man who has dated and been in relationships with lots of black women.
It started in high school. Sophie was a hot cheerleader and I was a star footballer, wicked badboy, whatever, ooh la la. At any rate, we clicked immediately.
She brought me to "the hood" where I was easily accepted. Black men tend to like me because I'm a unique white dude. No, I'm not a rebel like Eminem or Yelawolf but I do the right thing and say what's on my mind regardless.
That tends to get more respect than anything.
I'm also quite charming. ;)
What supports my attitude is I'm a gorgeous man (not to sound vain but it is what it is) and so I don't stress much b/c I'm not sensitive to much. I am a strong character and my biggest fault is wanting the best for everybody so much that I can be taken advantage of.
I love black women because they are often more confident than many white women. There's nothing I find hotter than the archetypal Mark Antony and Queen Cleopatra romance.
It follows of my many life loves, quite a few are chocolate. Sure there's plenty of blondes and everything in between but I gotta be good now and stop thinking about that cuz I'm a one woman kinda guy ;)

im from the uk and yes I am white.I find a lot of black women the most beautiful I have seen.Very often they are also very elegant. I disagree with many of the underlying comments made by some of my so called white' bredrin'. That black women are loud and rude.I cannot diagree more.You ought to check the mouths on some white women in this country and for that matter some of the men.
Im currently dating a Jamaican girl and have been for the last year and a half.To me shes the most beautiful woman I have ever met Its the shape of her dark eyes that get me.The bone structure of her face and oh so soft lips.Shes also great fun to be with and we laugh all the time.Shes also very warm and passionate and very affectionate.She also moves with an incredible very smooth Grace.
Ive dated other black women about three and always found found something simalar about black women over all.Black women just seem also to be far more fun to be with than there white counterparts.
So my blinkered white friends and look at some black women and youll see what I see. You better get used to the idea the future is probably neither white or black but brown I think that this Is better for the world as a whole.
I dont normally write on blogs.Some of the comments incensed me and are basically so bigotted.I ended up finding this blog following an argument with a white friend who frankly was so insulting about my M the woman im dating, hes no longer a friend.

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take a look in the mirror & you'll see ignorant.

Lmaoo......

I am a 23 year old business owner who has a lot of experience for someone of so few years, but I have found that no matter if I am at a modeling shoot or sport competition I am more attracted to Black women more than any other!

I a white male & I'm attracted to Black ladies. But it is like all women some I'm attracted to and others I'm not. Its all about the personality after the first attraction. I've never seen color. If your pretty in my eyes your just pretty.