tricia

Sounds like two people who are both very hurt. Been there. I used to work with both, but know Shannon better.

I'm really sorry things didn't go as planned. Truly I am. One thing I do know, though - things have a way of working out in time. Not very comforting now, I know, but one day the hurt will go from a 10 to maybe a 1.

You'll always have your fierce pride, Shannon, and your never-say-die determination. Here's a little friendly advice that will help if you follow it - let go a little bit. People like us want to control everything (and most of the time, we do a really good job), but sometimes the best thing we can do is back away and just let things work themselves out. You need to trust me on this one. I've been around a while.

tRISH IS A LOW DOWN DIRTY SKANK.. fT SCOTT nuMBER 1 dIRTY GIRL. Naaaasty. wHY PEOPLE WANT IN THOSE DISEASED LEGS IS BEYOND ME.

Idk either of you, but I have been through a marriage that sounds like this relationship. First of all, if neither of u cared about one another u wouldn't b so eager to hurt or p.o. the other. Second, sometimes its best to just chuck in your losses, move on and consider it a lesson learned. The blame game leads nowhere and each person has their own perception of the relationship when all in all most people just want a lil appreciation overall. The truth of it lies somewhere in between. The best person is not the one who has what they want, but wants what they have. Resentment will weigh on your soul, remember there was good there somewhere that brought u two together in the first place. Good luck to u both and remember- eff everyone elses opinion...the only one u gta prove urself to is u and God!!

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I didn't know this was what topix forum used for...go to other town sites and either they have more intelligent people living in their area or site is monitored/deleted more quickly? WTF?