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verdad
Atlanta, GA
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Athei_Love wrote: Sad to say, when you live in a town operated by old family money, even a local McDonalds wont hire me because I am "over qualified". At least this is what I am told. Really I think it is the intimidation of education in a city full of uneducated people. You are a nasty person who more than likely receives these benefits as well. You are no better to judge me or that 18 year old for having children than anyone else. Taking handouts is not something I am ashamed of. Only for the simple reason that since I graduated college and started working I have donated 1000's of dollars, volunteered, and paid in my fair share (and probably yours too) of support to welfare. Is that not what it is there for? To help people when they need it? You are obviously a uneducated short minded person to say such nasty things to people when they are down. I am sure belittling people only makes you feel better about yourself, so I pity you in a way. Many people have 3 kids and are not independently wealthy. My children were not unplanned or "accidents", and at the time I had them we were very well off. Perhaps you should just crawl back into the dark dirty hole you came out of and stop ranting to people on a message board. You are no better than anyone else in this world. If you were so well off you should have been saving money for an emergency fund in case you lost your job. You can attempt to justify your leeching to yourself, but I'm not buying it. Admit that you have made poor choices and now you want the government to take money by force from working people to pay for your stupidity. And no, I am not on any kind of welfare and never will be because I made good choices. If you can't get a job in that hick town maybe you need to move. Maybe you should give your kids up for foster care to someone who can afford them.
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challenger99
Palm Bay, FL
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Athei_Love wrote: Sad to say, when you live in a town operated by old family money, even a local McDonalds wont hire me because I am "over qualified". At least this is what I am told. Really I think it is the intimidation of education in a city full of uneducated people. You are a nasty person who more than likely receives these benefits as well. You are no better to judge me or that 18 year old for having children than anyone else. Taking handouts is not something I am ashamed of. Only for the simple reason that since I graduated college and started working I have donated 1000's of dollars, volunteered, and paid in my fair share (and probably yours too) of support to welfare. Is that not what it is there for? To help people when they need it? You are obviously a uneducated short minded person to say such nasty things to people when they are down. I am sure belittling people only makes you feel better about yourself, so I pity you in a way. Many people have 3 kids and are not independently wealthy. My children were not unplanned or "accidents", and at the time I had them we were very well off. Perhaps you should just crawl back into the dark dirty hole you came out of and stop ranting to people on a message board. You are no better than anyone else in this world. Ignore Verdad, don't respond to his Posts. It is obvious he is arrogant, obnoxious and gets his thrills belittling you. In todays world your not alone with financial problems and getting a job. Employers are skittish about hiring you because they know that at some time you will get a position in your career field and leave. Use your computer and surf the various employment Web sites.Contact a "headhunter" to help. There are jobs out there, wages now favor the employer and God knows where you might get a job offer. But keep looking, keep faith in yourself and your family.
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Athei_Love
Douglas, GA
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Thanks Challenger. Nice to know there are some nice people left in the world that do not need to make other people feel bad in order to raise their own self esteem. To add, I will never give up looking for a job, and as soon as the opportunity presents itself I will be moving from this town because there is no future for my career here... but it costs lots of money to relocate in another city or state. And yes, I figured that was one reason I have not found a job is because of my education. And they are right, as soon as I get a job offer in my field I am going to take it. It is what I do, it is what I love.. but I am not too proud to wait tables ( I used to love doing that!) nor am I too ashamed to mop floors if it gives me a paycheck.. but that is not the case.
Anyway, thanks for the nice comment.:)
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not blame games
Macon, GA
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well, i myself just recently applied for food stamps/ebt card. i also drive a bmw, but that is becuase i had a great paying job for the last 15 years and could afford it before i was laid off 2 months ago. So please dont say people,(especially african amercans) are abusing the system. I did not ask to be laid off from my job, it was taken away from me. don't let the kind of car i drive or home i live in fool u. u need to consider the hard work i put in to get these things. its not like you can purchase a mercedes/bmw with the ebt card..just something for you to consider.
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lighteredknot
Moultrie, GA
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People that ask others to support them are deadbeats and leeches. If you cannot afford to feed children don't have them. Let this be a helpful hint to all of you living off the gov't and expecting us to feed and keep you in medical benefits, and free housing.....we don't like it. Take care of yourself if you don't like being labeled a deadbeat welfare bumm.
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lighteredknot
Moultrie, GA
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not blame games wrote: well, i myself just recently applied for food stamps/ebt card. i also drive a bmw, but that is becuase i had a great paying job for the last 15 years and could afford it before i was laid off 2 months ago. So please dont say people,(especially african amercans) are abusing the system. I did not ask to be laid off from my job, it was taken away from me. don't let the kind of car i drive or home i live in fool u. u need to consider the hard work i put in to get these things. its not like you can purchase a mercedes/bmw with the ebt card..just something for you to consider. I can't afford a BMW because I must pay taxes to support welfare leeches that will take food stamps. Sell your BMW and walk before you ask any of us to feel sorry for you.
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Athei_Love
Douglas, GA
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Oh, Lightered knot... you are such a pessimist. did you ever stop to think that a good majority of the people receiving benefits had children BEFORE they lost almost everything? The economy took a nose dive and many people are left out of work NOT by choice. And you know what, it was greedy, self loathing people such as yourself that caused it to happen. Now you are just sleeping in your own bed. If you take everything from people, they will start to go after what YOU have.
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Athei_Love
Douglas, GA
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BTW.... just to add, no one ever asked any of "you" to feel sorry for any of "us".
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verdad
Atlanta, GA
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not blame games wrote: well, i myself just recently applied for food stamps/ebt card. i also drive a bmw, but that is becuase i had a great paying job for the last 15 years and could afford it before i was laid off 2 months ago. So please dont say people,(especially african amercans) are abusing the system. I did not ask to be laid off from my job, it was taken away from me. don't let the kind of car i drive or home i live in fool u. u need to consider the hard work i put in to get these things. its not like you can purchase a mercedes/bmw with the ebt card..just something for you to consider. You had a great paying job for 15 years and you have to go to food stamps two months after being laid off? Did you ever hear of saving money? And your job was not taken away from you. You never owned the job. Sell your car and take the bus if you have to. Americans used to be too proud to take handouts. I guess times have changed. You are ticks on the butt of society.
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lighteredknot
Moultrie, GA
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Athei_Love wrote: Oh, Lightered knot... you are such a pessimist. did you ever stop to think that a good majority of the people receiving benefits had children BEFORE they lost almost everything? The economy took a nose dive and many people are left out of work NOT by choice. And you know what, it was greedy, self loathing people such as yourself that caused it to happen. Now you are just sleeping in your own bed. If you take everything from people, they will start to go after what YOU have. The idea someone wants to keep what they worked for is a sound economic principal. The idea help is owed to someone that will drive a BMW and live off food stamps is unsound and dangerous to the American Republic idealism. I should be allowed to help those I want to help, and I do not want to help Beamer drivers. Calling me names will only prove my point. Pecans are falling get a job harvesting them, and then complain. Americans are needing laborers so bad they must now get them from foreign countries because people like you had rather collect welfare and food stamps than work.
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AllyRayJK
Sarasota, FL
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verdad wrote: <quoted text> If you were so well off you should have been saving money for an emergency fund in case you lost your job. You can attempt to justify your leeching to yourself, but I'm not buying it. Admit that you have made poor choices and now you want the government to take money by force from working people to pay for your stupidity. And no, I am not on any kind of welfare and never will be because I made good choices. If you can't get a job in that hick town maybe you need to move. Maybe you should give your kids up for foster care to someone who can afford them. You are so full of crap. You honestly think someone is going to give up their kids just because some jackass like you thinks they are scum for accepting help? "but i am not buying it" only makes you sound stupider, you know why? Because from what you state in your self righteous claims about how perfect your choices have been, you ARE buying it. Moving costs money that family more than likely does not have if they are on food stamps. You insult people because they accept help. You know, pride is one of the seven deadly sins. And if that mother and father were too "proud" to accept help, their kids would be taken away or starved and neglected. What happens to broken up familis like that? They wind up back into the same system and history repeats itself. Think about what is right for our kids FUTURES not your own pocket for crying out loud. My sister is on welfare, though I am not. I am not at liberty to explain her situation to you, and nor do you DESERVE an explanation... but I will tell you this.... she DOES deserve it. I help her when I can and others too... what do YOU do to help your community besides complain about people getting help they need? Do youstep up to the plate and assist needy families? So maybe they made bad choices, SO WHAT! They are no less human than you and ALL people make mistakes. Stop criticizing people and START HELPING people. THAT is why our country is going to crap, because of selfish people like you.
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AllyRayJK
Sarasota, FL
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lighteredknot wrote: <quoted text> The idea someone wants to keep what they worked for is a sound economic principal. The idea help is owed to someone that will drive a BMW and live off food stamps is unsound and dangerous to the American Republic idealism. I should be allowed to help those I want to help, and I do not want to help Beamer drivers. Calling me names will only prove my point. Pecans are falling get a job harvesting them, and then complain. Americans are needing laborers so bad they must now get them from foreign countries because people like you had rather collect welfare and food stamps than work. Did you know that if you are on public assistance and you own a automobile that is newer than 5 years they will make you sell it and provide proof that you did so before they will allow you any help? What would be the use of her selling her car just because of its name? Look up Athei's city (I know that person is not the one with the BMW), there is no bus system there in Douglas, GA. What is one to do when they have children that need to go to doctors and school and such... or even a trip to the grocery store that may be 5 miles away? Surely you do not expect people with BABIES or INFANTS to WALK 5 miles in 30 degree weather just to make YOU happy? That is simply inhumane. By the way, how many people are buying BMW's at the moment, when most do not even know their own job security right now? That woman being laid off and out of money after 2 months... you know WHY that is? Because the state will make you SELL your assets and SPEND anything in your bank or trust that is over $2000.00. That is the limit they allow you. There are regulations. Kudos to that mom for knowing to ask for help before she went completely belly up and kudos to the mom in Douglas who has done MUCH right by educating herself and planning her kids. Things will get better for both of your families. I only prey that one day those two people that are making rude comments have to be in your shoes.
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AllyRayJK
Sarasota, FL
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lighteredknot wrote: <quoted text> Pecans are falling get a job harvesting them, and then complain. Americans are needing laborers so bad they must now get them from foreign countries because people like you had rather collect welfare and food stamps than work. Please show someone where all these laborors are needed? From what I see, all the ILLEGALS have taken over those jobs because they will work for UNDER minimum wage. Verdinand wrote about how Americans used to be proud? What happened to the pride of the American business owners that sold out to open factories in other countries? What happened to the pride people took in selling homes to American people for a REASONABLE price? What happened to American bankers having pride and not issuing loans to people who could not afford them? What happened to the American farmers that hire illegal aliens to do general labor work? Do not complain about pride and "go get a job picking pecans" because those jobs are all taken my friend... by the very people that assisted in putting people out of work to begin with. Complain about THOSE people using the SSN's of DEAD babies or STOLEN identities to collect benefits. Complain about the people who HIRE them and give them cheaper housing than they do their OWN people all because it lightens their tax load. You both seriously need a head check. STAND BY YOUR AMERICAN PEOPLE! They are what makes your country YOURS. If they need some help... SO WHAT!
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Verdad
Clarkston, GA
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AllyRayJK wrote: <quoted text> You are so full of crap. You honestly think someone is going to give up their kids just because some jackass like you thinks they are scum for accepting help? "but i am not buying it" only makes you sound stupider, you know why? Because from what you state in your self righteous claims about how perfect your choices have been, you ARE buying it. Moving costs money that family more than likely does not have if they are on food stamps. You insult people because they accept help. You know, pride is one of the seven deadly sins. And if that mother and father were too "proud" to accept help, their kids would be taken away or starved and neglected. What happens to broken up familis like that? They wind up back into the same system and history repeats itself. Think about what is right for our kids FUTURES not your own pocket for crying out loud. My sister is on welfare, though I am not. I am not at liberty to explain her situation to you, and nor do you DESERVE an explanation... but I will tell you this.... she DOES deserve it. I help her when I can and others too... what do YOU do to help your community besides complain about people getting help they need? Do youstep up to the plate and assist needy families? So maybe they made bad choices, SO WHAT! They are no less human than you and ALL people make mistakes. Stop criticizing people and START HELPING people. THAT is why our country is going to crap, because of selfish people like you. Your slutty sister is on welfare because of the poor choices she made. I bet she has multiple kids by many different sperm donors. Quit blaming banks and illegal aliens for her idiocy. My responsibility is to take care of my family, nothing more.
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Athei _
Douglas, GA
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Verdad wrote: <quoted text> Your slutty sister is on welfare because of the poor choices she made. I bet she has multiple kids by many different sperm donors. Quit blaming banks and illegal aliens for her idiocy. My responsibility is to take care of my family, nothing more. Your insults show not only your maturity, but your education also. People whom are "grown ups" do not go around throwing insults at people whom they know nothing about. It is simply pointless and no one cares to hear it. It is something grade school kids do. In fact, my 6 year old does not even insult people like that. I think she is more mature than you. Your nasty arrogance has been reported and your posts will hopefully be removed from this message board as to not further insult any more good people. I can tell you are a miserable person and I pity not you, but your family. I can only imagine what your children ( if you are LUCKY enough to have any )must go through living with such a heartless, wretched person.
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verdad
Atlanta, GA
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Athei _ wrote: <quoted text> Your insults show not only your maturity, but your education also. People whom are "grown ups" do not go around throwing insults at people whom they know nothing about. It is simply pointless and no one cares to hear it. It is something grade school kids do. In fact, my 6 year old does not even insult people like that. I think she is more mature than you. Your nasty arrogance has been reported and your posts will hopefully be removed from this message board as to not further insult any more good people. I can tell you are a miserable person and I pity not you, but your family. I can only imagine what your children ( if you are LUCKY enough to have any )must go through living with such a heartless, wretched person. At least my kids don't have a deadbeat parent who can't put food on the table without begging. For a unemployed person, you sure seem to have a lot of time to browse message boards. How about getting a job delivering pizzas and getting off the dole. You are a waste of oxygen.
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Athei _Love
Douglas, GA
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I am just curious to know what your thoughts are on people who work AND receive benefits? Are they scum too? Do they also belong in the bottom of the ocean with cement blocks chained to their feet because they dont make enough, even if they work their asses off? what if they do not have kids and receive benefits? What about disabled people, or elderly widows? Also, you never answered my question about how you contribute to your community to help your neighbors and city folk. One can only assume that is because you dont. The remark about being responsible for your own... would you disown your own daughter if (hypothetically) she came home pregnant at 16 (and is quite old enough to decide NOT to have an abortion), went on food stamps and medicaid because she is too young to make any real money or be educated after her one night stand boyfriend left her when he heard the great news (that or he could not fathom having YOU for a father-in-law)OR would you support her financially and feed her and her bastard child, or would you simply let her and your grandchild starve and go without medical attention all for the sake of pride? No matter how you look at it you would be a.)supporting her (which would make you a supporter of the burden to society b.)a hypocrite who is helping another person become a burden to society c.)inhumane and hypocritical~since you are responsible for your "own"
Just a hypothetical question. In case you are not aware, the word means it is not a real situation at the moment, but instead asks what your solution would be if you were placed in that situation.
Do tell oh perfect one that makes all the right choices. Just how ethical and true to your own word ARE you?
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Athei _Love
Douglas, GA
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verdad wrote: <quoted text> At least my kids don't have a deadbeat parent who can't put food on the table without begging. For a unemployed person, you sure seem to have a lot of time to browse message boards. How about getting a job delivering pizzas and getting off the dole. You are a waste of oxygen. By the way... at 10 o'clock pm, AND unemployed... you are right.. I DO have a lot of time to browse the internet. By the way, thanks for the steak and shrimp tonight. It was great.
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verdad
Atlanta, GA
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Athei _Love wrote: I am just curious to know what your thoughts are on people who work AND receive benefits? Are they scum too? Do they also belong in the bottom of the ocean with cement blocks chained to their feet because they dont make enough, even if they work their asses off? what if they do not have kids and receive benefits? What about disabled people, or elderly widows? Also, you never answered my question about how you contribute to your community to help your neighbors and city folk. One can only assume that is because you dont. The remark about being responsible for your own... would you disown your own daughter if (hypothetically) she came home pregnant at 16 (and is quite old enough to decide NOT to have an abortion), went on food stamps and medicaid because she is too young to make any real money or be educated after her one night stand boyfriend left her when he heard the great news (that or he could not fathom having YOU for a father-in-law)OR would you support her financially and feed her and her bastard child, or would you simply let her and your grandchild starve and go without medical attention all for the sake of pride? No matter how you look at it you would be a.)supporting her (which would make you a supporter of the burden to society b.)a hypocrite who is helping another person become a burden to society c.)inhumane and hypocritical~since you are responsible for your "own" Just a hypothetical question. In case you are not aware, the word means it is not a real situation at the moment, but instead asks what your solution would be if you were placed in that situation. Do tell oh perfect one that makes all the right choices. Just how ethical and true to your own word ARE you? If I had a sixteen year old daughter who became pregnant I would have her put the child up for adoption. I support the community by paying income taxes on a six-figure income and property taxes on a very expensive home in Morningside. I don't have a problem with a disabled person receiving benefits unless the disability is related to morbid obesity. You don't like me because deep down you know everything I say is true. I do think you have the potential to quit being a deadbeat, you just need someone like me to wake you up. Now quit looking at internet message boards and go get a job. If not, I hope that steak and shrimp dinner clogs your arteries.
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Athei _Love
Douglas, GA
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You could not force your kid to put her child up for adoption~~just so you know. I do not feel everything you say is the truth. I think you are stuck on yourself. You feel as though your own crap does not stink. All I ask is that you put yourself in someone elses shoes just for a moment. You are no better than me or the next person just because you have a higher income. Jobs are VERY scarce right now and you can believe me or not when I tell you I have applied for EVERYTHING I have seen posted. I have even considered enlisting in the military, but there is no one but me to take care of my kids while I would be gone. Not all of us are blessed to have good situations fall into our laps and no one says my family receiving help is permanent either. This is temporary until I find work.
One thing I do agree with you on is obesity. I must say there should be no tolerance for that. I highly doubt at 30 and 110 lbs I am going to have any issues with clogged arteries. Though I have heard ignorance can be deadly in some cases, maybe you should look into that.
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