I want you to all know what is going on.
Posted in the Fitchburg Forum
#1 Aug 27, 2011
My boyfriend and I have temporary legal guardianship of an infant grand-daughter. Her mother is a lovely young girl who lost her mother just prior to giving birth and has been having an awful time adjusting.
Last week, her boyfriend stole from me. I filed a police report with the Gardner PD. When I got home, she was on the phone with him and I told her to let him know that I had filed. She got off the phone with him crying and made several phone calls. She then began packing the baby. She claimed her Uncle was on the way to pick her up and was taking her and the baby to live with an aunt in NYC. We checked with the aunt and found out it was a lie. Her father told her she could not go and there was an altercation. She assualted her father. The police were called. They asked if the young girl could stay with someone else for the night as she was pretty wound up. She stated that her uncle was on the way to get her anyway. We consented to her going for the one night.
I left a message for the uncle that he should not have been coming to pick them out without calling her father first. He called me back screaming at me that it was his neice and he could take her anytime he wanted, he did not have to call or answer to anyone.
The next day I met with her social services worker. She continued to stay at her uncles, not even checking on the baby. Numerous calls were made to social services to discuss a service plan. Social workers came out to the house as well.
Several days went by as we discussed what would be in the best interest of the young mother and her baby. We were encouraged to continue with custody of the baby.
We had a court date. I asked the social worker to come, but she said given what had happened; it was not at all necessary.
On the day of court, Kevin Lynch and his boyfriend (the uncle of the teen in question) showed up at court. They claimed to have guardianship over the teen. The judge asked them what court had given them guardianship. They claimed that no court had, they had appointed themselves. The judge saw that her father had legal custody over her.
The case was presented. The judge ordered a coninuance to give social services a chance to present the case. He ordered the baby to stay in our custody for two more weeks. He denied visitation to the young mother. I immediately spoke up, and requested the visitation as I would never keep them apart. The guardianship of the baby is for safety reasons.
We called the social worker after leaving court. She spoke to the Uncle the same afternoon and called us back. She told him that the teen is in our custody and was to be returned. She told him that given his criminal record, he would not be considered for custody.
That is when all hell broke loose. Kevin Lynch went on my facebook page and made repeated false allegations of drug use in my home.
I went on these forums to see what was going on and saw that he had put up my initials and had falsely accused me of posting a link about the crime he committed years ago. I had not done so. People have been posting similar things on here for months.
I went back onto my facebook page. Mr. Lynch was continuing to make false statments, even threats. He had even enlisted the help of the girl's boyfriend who had stolen from me, which had started all of this uproar.
I told him that because he kept saying publicly that I smoke pot, which I do not; I would be going onto these forums and exposing what he did.
He has spent the last few days distorting the truth, continually lying about drug use etc. He has published my name in this forum. It is not lawful as I am not a public figure,
Kevin Lynch is running for mayor of Fitchburg. That opens him up for scrutiny. I am not a public figure, therefore it is unlawful for him to be using my name online and making slanderous remarks.
He has gone as far as to tell me I wont have a job after tomorrow because he and the young thief are going to call my employer with some lies.
#2 Aug 27, 2011
If Mr. Lynch or the young thief call my employer tomorrow, I will be making an appearance at the mayoral debate and I will be seeking damages from Mr. Lynch for his attempting to damage my repuation with his false statements.
#3 Aug 27, 2011
I think going to the debate is a good idea. Here's the problem. Even though Lynch might be a psycho murderer he didn't allow teen girls to get knocked up. That was on your watch.
#4 Aug 27, 2011
He is continuing to lie on these forums. He owes me $3,000 for when I helped him and his boyfriend out over three years ago. I was told I would get it in full when his parents sold their home in Boston. He just posted that he has paid me back every dime. There is no truth to that. He gave me $100 last week and that was the first time in a year and a half.
#5 Aug 28, 2011
Debbie, why am I very sick? I went to court for support of T! What is so sick about that? I have the message that you sent stating that you were coming on here to attack me.
What did I do wrong? I recieved a call from a frantic T. Now you finally admit that you called social services after court!
You were furious that we asked the judge how we go about filing for custody. What is wrong with you?
You state that I enlisted Jacob and that I was attacking your job. You assumed all of this as it is false. I didn't talk to Jacob. And I never stated anything about going after your job; why would I do that?
You did me wrong out here! I am a good person and you know that. I always help everyone that I can. Unfortunately I do not have the means to help as much as I would like to.
I love all them kids. Why would you state falsely out here that these three kids do not talk to us any longer?
Unfortunately the pot is everywhere. It is a dam epidemic and everyone wants to minimize it's effects as minimal. It is not, it hampers the ability of these kids to learn and to progress.
You did smoke pot with Johnny, who gives a hoot? You feel that you are lying to protect a secret. Who cares! And you do know that drugs are used in your home and that Johnny uses them with his kids! Now if you admit this, you feel that I am going to go after custody of T. She turns 18 in March, she wants to return to her family in NY that she has lived with her entire life!
She doesn't know her father, he was absent t. She explained her dislike for him as she stated she doesn't feel anything for him. I listened to the girl. I told her to not give up on her father and to allow him to try and repair the missed times.
Debbie, I am shocked that you have this belief that we want to steal this baby. T is the mother, she loves her baby. I know that you are attached but you must let go and let live. T came back from NY in order to stay with her baby. Johnny had custody of the baby through an emergency last minute order. NY didn't even honor it so you guys spent the entire night there waiting for the case worker to broker a deal. T did not have to come back under NY law she was considered an adult. She decided to stay with her baby and to leave the abusive bf.
How you tangled me into all this is beyond me. I was there for support. As we all introduced ourselves, we were asked to give a brief description of our connection to the case. I explained that we were temporary guardians.
As this girl is in my house and in my custody she is my responsibility, PERIOD! It is not up for discussion. There was never a claim that I had kidnapped T. No one came to me requesting for her to return to your house. I was under the understanding that the Gardner police had T and they were waiting for us to pick her up as her father had thrown her out.
Now you want this fact to dissapear. It is not going to dissapear. You mentioned that it was a 50 a or whatever number you mentioned on this blog.
You have not communicated at all with us. T was under the understanding that her father as he had promised was going to not ask for an extension of the emergency guardianship of her daughter.
You seem to be very attached to the baby. T is 18 in March. She is the mother and she wants custody of her daughter. Not me , not my "bf".
#6 Aug 28, 2011
You assumed this secret scheme to take the baby was in place. There wasn't any scheme. We didn't create any of the arguing that went on, we didn't have anything to do with any of it. T was living at your house, we were not in cahoots with her.
I agree with anyone that even at 18, a mother is going to struggle to raise her kid. The kid has a father in NY, he has parents and they want to come down to Ma to court. Are you going to go after them?
You have gone to the extent of creating your own blog. You are out to embarass me. I am not embarassed. I have had everything thrown at me out here including the kitchen sink.
Some of these people out here have very bad intentions. There are some that just blog but my entire family has been attacked by this group, some even physically. You don't even know that my godson/nephew was forced off the road in a serious game of chicken by an uniformed fpd member. This is not a game out here. Some of these people want me dead.
I may bring an issue all the way to the end but I don't deserve to die. If they kill me I will not know it but I make sure everyday that people out here know what is going on everyday, so they will know it and who did it!
Debbie, I am tired of being unjustly treated; I am going to stand up for my rights if I die doing so. You wrote me a message stating that you were going to come out here and feed into these guys as you know that they are constantly attacking me. They have been relentless. They don't care about my case; they hate me!
Now I wrote to Johnny stating on his facebook that I had made copies of your statement of intent. You attacked me while you told lies and you trumped the POSs out here and you enjoyed it. I consider the source as these guys don't get to me. They are scared of change. I most likely will not win but I will have brought attention to many issues that need to be addressed. I mean I could win if the tides turn but it is a long shot. I have encouraged people to vote. I stopped the hampering of emergency vehicles. I have other candidates talking about issues that I have raised.
I believe that I would be a great Mayor. You need to stop what you are doing! I will defend myself till the end. I am resilient as they get; just ask these guys out here. They call it crazy. I just believe in equal rights and the fairness doctrine.
Debbie, that is Ts baby. She may be going home to NY with her baby. Why are you creating a divide instead of talking to her? When you talk to her you must be able to listen.
#7 Aug 28, 2011
You people love to air your dirt on these forms.
#8 Aug 28, 2011
She was not on my watch. She was living out of state with her mother who died two days before she gave birth. And I want to go on record to say she is wonderful with the baby. We are working on a plan for her continued education and getting her on the right track.
#9 Aug 28, 2011
Once again you are on here telling nothing but lies. I HAVE NEVER AND WILL NEVER USE MARIJUANA. YET YOU HAVE USED MY NAME ON A PUBLIC FORUM WITHOUT MY CONSENT TO MAKE UP SLANDEROUS LIES.
I met with social services the day after you took her. When your boyfriend was confronted about picking her up, he screamed at me that he was ENTITLED TO DO SO.
Social services suggested we temporarily continue custody because of her running off. According to T, Dave was on his way to remove her AND the baby from our home. HE was very comlicit in enabling her to run away.
When you took in a minor that had a LEGAL GUARDIAN, and you asked social services for custody, you opened yourself up to public scrutiny.
YOU are a convicted murderer. That is a fact! The fact that you are repeatedly going online and posting lies about me, is proof to me that you are not playing with a full deck. and I think the intelligent people of Fitchburg are seeing this. I would never have gone on this forum, if you did not go on facebook and make several false allegations on my wall for my pastor, and people from church to see.
If you want to pursue this, I will have no problem with character references, a clean CORI, and a clean urinalysis to back me up.In fact, any autority can request a drug test at any time and I will ALWAYS come up clean.
I left a scripture up as my away message on facebook:'Anyone rising against me won't prosper, anyone coming against me wil fail'.
You declared war on me as soon as the social worker told your boyfriend that you could not have T in your home, and cited that you had a publicly accessable criminal record.
You won't prosper and you will fail.
If you continue to bare false witness against me, it is going to come back to haunt you.
I spoke with my mother today and told her all you were doing. She said it was really my fault for allowing your evil presense in my life. Considering what you are doing now, she is 100% right.
You popped those wires in your chest. I helped you guys for months with the promise that all funds would be returned when your parents sold the house in Southie. You still have not paid me.
You know that finances are hard having a family, yet you won't pay me. Instead you go on here, and greatly inflate the numbers of my debt.(Btw, I have an excellent credit score as I pay everything on time.) You have have publicly accused me of not claiming my rental income. I invite an audit.
You are a LIAR.
#10 Aug 28, 2011
Kevin Lynch is a very dirty person. I am on here only because it was brought he has used multiple forms of the media make up lies about me.
He is going to have one helluva problem trying to explain to a judge how he could go onto a forum and publicly mention me by name and falsely accuse me of marijuana use.
And we have not even started to talk about his boyfriend being on METHADONE!
#11 Aug 28, 2011
Not only that but one of the participants is a candidate for Mayor. This is a trainwreck. I hope this comes up at the candidates forum tomorrow night.
#12 Aug 28, 2011
What I am doing now? Debbie, you have a long list of problems and NONE of them involve me.
You have stated many things in reference to "my bf". You have attempted to slander me out here. You are the evil person!
I doubt that your mother said that to you! What have you stated out here that I did? If anyone should be peed off it should be me!
I have only attempted to support the young kids in the family! Am I guilty of "overinvolving" myself in their lives? NO, I am not as I did not get involved in their lives enough as we were constantly battleing keeping their father from sharing booze and drugs with them!
#13 Aug 28, 2011
There are things that I cannot say on this forum regarding these kids and I would suggest for you to do the same! If you throw Johnny out then next week you will parade each kid on this forum and character assasinate them! Leave them all alone!
#14 Aug 28, 2011
What do you have Johnny in a cage? He has to live with this family for the rest of his life. He is allowing you to destroy his family out of spite! They don't like you in Springfield and they don't like you in NY.
You are relentless! How many guys have you gone after either through social services,prison, parole boards, police departments and the list goes on! Leave me ALONE!
You have continuously stressed "your boyfriend"! WHY? What is your point? "Your Boy friend" your "Boyfriend"..... What is your purpose? Why are you on here posting these things? Do you enjoy when one of these POS states something derogatory about me? Leave me ALONE!
I have had NOTHING but good intentions concerning ALL these kids! I can prove EVERYTHING that I have said out here, right down to the drug use! If I tell social services everything about you, the state will take the kid!
The judge stated very clearly that he has two options and what do we all want him to do? Either give ward to the state or continue it till Sept 6th. You conviently do not hear everything!
The only one that will suffer is that baby! But then it comes a time when you NEED TO RELEASE THE BABY!
Since: Feb 10
#15 Aug 28, 2011
Once again Lynch, we witness you littering your reckless path with victims. Your thought process is clearly void of logic and mainly built on emotion, not reason.
Mayors make crucial decisions that greatly affect all of us. The most important qualification for this position should be the ability to make decisions based on sound judgment. Your foolish decision, one of many, to confront and condemn your legal opponent on their personal social network, the day of a court hearing is the very antithesis of sound judgments.
Why is it Lynch, that every single day something ugly and smelly protrudes from you and your self centered reckless behavior?
#16 Aug 28, 2011
I for one hope Mr. Lynch participates in the upcoming debate. Where else can you watch someone instigate a fight with a cop, suck a c#ck, steal money from a friend and then kidnap a baby? All for free.
#17 Aug 28, 2011
Stamos, I have had all I can take. She wins, I quit! I can no longer take her relentless barrage of gay attacks, lies and the lot.
This was a family matter! That woman is whacked! Leave me ALONE DEBBIE!! ENOUGH! You have this relentless maliscious way about you. You are a devious person!
Stay away from me! You won Debbie, pat yourself on the back; I quit the Mayoral bid! That is it!
In reference to all that you have stated out here? I will see you in civil court!
Debbie sit there at your work desk and continue the gay attacks! Go ahead, have a field day! Leave me alone!!! Leave this family alone or we will have you committed!
I do not know how to handle someone with mental illness attacking me! STAY AWAY!
#18 Aug 28, 2011
Here is one for you Debbie!! Ask him who he is? Nice mouth from a cop, huh!
Since: Feb 10
#19 Aug 28, 2011
Lynch, no one cares about your sexual preference. It's all about your reckless behavior. PERIOD!
#20 Aug 28, 2011
Stamos, tell me about this reckless behavior, Please! I admit one thing that I am new to the political scene! I am a good listener, I have an open mind and I want to fix what is broken within the city to make it a better place.
I was wronged by some FPD members because one was a relative of a guy that I knew and filed a board of health complaint on. It gradually got worse as the harassment continued. I wrote a complaint and requested for a truce and a stop to the harassment. It didn't stop. I filed more complaints and then Iwas attacked brutally and then framed.
I have no question that I will prove my innocence in those matters. Before these matter I had decided to run for Mayor roughly 4 yrs ago. I am politically active. I had enough of sitting around watching our city government continue to sit on there hands as they fix nothing.
I feel that I have made a change and I have brought issues to the table as now many of the local city candidates are making stances and bringing these issues to the voters. I have succeeded.
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