Oscoda Co. murder investigation continues

this is not like Andy
he has never shown any violance in the 10+ years i have known him
I miss Terri and I will never forget her

I guess if he couldn't have her no one could. Since she was planning on leaving the psycho

close family friend wrote:

this is not like Andy
he has never shown any violance in the 10+ years i have known him
I miss Terri and I will never forget her

dont be dumb he was a mysogonist

Sorry to burst your bubble about Andy, but he has been beating her for over 15 years now. Her friends and family have tried for years to get her away from him. I will pray (and I hope you do as well) that justice will be served for Terri and that her children, family and friends can find peace again.

Another Family Friend wrote:

Sorry to burst your bubble about Andy, but he has been beating her for over 15 years now. Her friends and family have tried for years to get her away from him. I will pray (and I hope you do as well) that justice will be served for Terri and that her children, family and friends can find peace again.

I am glad someone else knows what he is really like. A violent idiot, biker wannabe

Domestic Abuse is a CRIME!
It's not "cool" to hit anyone! NO ONE "deserves" to be hit. There is a way out.
Oscoda County - Riverhouse Shelter 888-554-3169
Montmorency County - Shelter, Inc. 800-396-9129
Don't think it's only happening to you. There are people to help you with every reason that keeps you there.

Sorry to say yes it happens everyday, so dont say things cause there is 2 sides to every story and the children of each gets hurt, they still have lives and it hurts for everyone to say things about the parents. Have more respect. Think if you were in this situation....

close family friend wrote:

this is not like Andy
he has never shown any violance in the 10+ years i have known him
I miss Terri and I will never forget her

For you to say Andy has never showed viloence in the 10+ years you have known him... then you never knew Andy. This beating has been going on since they lived on Cronk and I know the family has tried to get her away from him. There comes a time when people relize that there is a better life out there with happiness instead of darkness. Unfortuantly, he took her life before she had the chance to find happiness again.

It is a sad sad situation for both families and yes it is a terrible thing for those kids to have to loose two important people in their lives. They (Joe,Micheal,Erika)have to live the rest of their lives never being able to speak your hug their mother again. My thought and prayers are with and will continue to be with those four children. I have asked myself many,many times why he did not just leave. Why did he take this step?

Friend of Friends wrote:

Sorry to say yes it happens everyday, so dont say things cause there is 2 sides to every story and the children of each gets hurt, they still have lives and it hurts for everyone to say things about the parents. Have more respect. Think if you were in this situation....

You are correct there is two sides to every story,but unfortunatly all four of those kids know what took place behind Terri and Andy's closed doors... But those kids never ever thought he would take it to death!

Friend of Friends wrote:

Sorry to say yes it happens everyday, so dont say things cause there is 2 sides to every story and the children of each gets hurt, they still have lives and it hurts for everyone to say things about the parents. Have more respect. Think if you were in this situation....

there is not 2 sides>andy never got beat. And murder was not the answer.There is nothing anybody could do to make me want to kill.

Her first love wrote:

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there is not 2 sides>andy never got beat. And murder was not the answer.There is nothing anybody could do to make me want to kill.

That is not what was meant. And yes there is no reason that her life had to be taken over his own selfishness. Know one has to explain anything to me XXX.

Her First Love-
You are correct. She was never the one to do the beatings. She was the one that was beatin both physically and emotionally. I took what you were saying out of context. My fault. Sorry.

This is all so devistating to me, I not only heard the emotional abuse on a daily basis but I would see the bruises the next day, All she wanted was love from him, he pushed her to commit suicide 4 times to my knowledge and when that didn't work he took her life. I heard her cry's, I felt the fear when she held me, He was violent, and he was sain, and I hope he rot's eternally!
My heart goes out to anyone who miss's her the way I do, and Ill be her voice till he goes down.

this man will be judged by god as a sinner and until his time comes he will sit in prison and will never forget what he did. me murdered the woman he loved and lost his family forever.

Missing her best friend wrote:

This is all so devistating to me, I not only heard the emotional abuse on a daily basis but I would see the bruises the next day, All she wanted was love from him, he pushed her to commit suicide 4 times to my knowledge and when that didn't work he took her life. I heard her cry's, I felt the fear when she held me, He was violent, and he was sain, and I hope he rot's eternally!
My heart goes out to anyone who miss's her the way I do, and Ill be her voice till he goes down.

I am glad someone will be her voice till he goes down and he needs to go down. she was my first love and will always hold a place for her in my heart. I just want 5 minutes alone with him..... no make that 2.... that's all I will need

It is so nice to see how many people really loved her. I only wish she had the strength to come to any of us for the help and guidance that she needed. With all her friends and family that son of a ***** will pay. I hope he lives the rest of his life closing his eyes and seeing her face.

Terri was loved by so many people. And the love Terri showed was plentiful. What's your favorite Terri moment/story? Lets try and stay on the positive side.
One of mine is doing the Karaoke thing at the bon- fire pit, me being her back up singer and us dancing and everybody telling us to quit, because we were creating a dust storm. Tee hee ha ha I'm sure it wasn't because of our singing!! HA!

I can remember going fishing with Terri in Lansing (before Erika was born). We were drinking and took Doug's two favorite fishing poles and went fishing. We were on a bank that was way up from the water and my fishing pole was rolling off the bank and Terri tried to grab it and lost her too. So then we continued to drink and pretended to fish. yeyeye