White Guys: Would you date a black girl? Elaborate

I am an African American girl living in New York City, and as you know, in New York..."anything goes". But why not White guys with Black girls?

I would LOVE to date a guy out of my race. I a attacted to: white.black.asian.indian. and mixed. As long as I like your personality. But why is it so hard for a white guy to look at a black girl? Are the arbitrary steotypes so influencial that they miss out on something beautiful? What's going on?

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hey Onessa, Im not from New york but i was born in the bronx. im living in Houston Texas right now. im 19, white, tall, athletic build. In answer to your question, Im actually attracted to black females MORE than any other race; I think they are the most beautiful women God put on this planet. I think Ive known this about myself since i was like 11 or 12. Sooooo, when you say, "But why is it so hard for a white guy to look at a black girl?" you shouldve put "But why is it so hard for SOCIETY to accept a white guy looking at a black girl?" or a black guy and white girl. I cant help what I like, and it really pisses me off when i see a group of white ppl or black ppl stare at me and my girlfriend in the mall or store like we're doing something wrong. srry for getting off subject, but thats how i feel. I LOVE BLACK WOMEN!
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I wish I cud find a white guy *sigh* none of the ones i knoe arent interested cuz im black....well...wutever.....ma ybe white guys ARE all wrong

it's just been puzzling me recently, just want to hear everyone's opinion!

I am more attracted to black girls than white girls but I'm reluctant to hit on them because I just assume that black girls aren't interested in white guys.

id date a black girl if she had the right personality

Well i think alot of it is because they assume black women dont date white men. I am black and my boyfriend is white and it took him almost 7 months to approach me because someone told him I didnt date white men. I hadnt before him but i dont plan. But when he finally did we had an almost instant love connection. I love my boyfriend so much and this is the best relationship i have ever been in. Some people say things like he acts black which is so stupid. He acts like Mike he a lil ghetto but he from the ghetto just like me. to be honest im not half as ghetto as he is lol. I heard a guy on another post say he didnt date black women because of penis size well let me be the first to say all black men dont have large penises and in fact my white boyfriend has a bigger one then most of my exes infact he is the best lover i have ever had in my life. not only is the sex great he completes me. we are totally dedicated to one another. So heres my advice try it out you could end up happy like me.

im a white guy and ive only dated black girls. black girls are the best! but it is true most white guys just assume a black girls wont date them, and i think its true the other way around, most black girls dont think white guys will date them. interracial relationships with a white guy and a black girl is still pretty uncommon.

I have dated a combination of black and white girls but to me a black girl is just alot better. They seem like they are alot easier to get along with and to understand. I have also found out through experience that it is easier for me to approach an black female than a white. A white girl will turn u down in a heart beat. A black girl will talk to you for awhile then say lets be friends. In which in my opinion is a very good thing. Black girls in my opinion also are alot sexier than white women it is just something about them that gets my heart beating when I see one that looks good.

matt wrote:

im a white guy and ive only dated black girls. black girls are the best! but it is true most white guys just assume a black girls wont date them, and i think its true the other way around, most black girls dont think white guys will date them. interracial relationships with a white guy and a black girl is still pretty uncommon.

Where I stay you see alot of interracial dating and it is mostly white guy with a black female..
Black Girls just need to listen to a white guy and not just turn him down give him a chance who cares what people think

You know, there's a great thread on this subject that has been in play for quite some time...Check it out:

http://www.topix.com/forum/sacramento/T8FN9AQ...

yup

certains types blancs m'attirent. types indiens, noirs,arabes, n'importe quoi~ hein, je suis assez ouverte sortir avec un "inconnu", mais vrai dire des fois c'est pas la peine. cela depend, chacun a son gout

im white and wont date a white gurl bc they not even that good lookin...black gurls lot cuter and i usually like more of the stuff they do...i live with mainly all blks so its not that hard to find a blk gurl that will date a wht boi which im glad of i just hate when errebody be starin like that 1 boi said thats annoyin

i ABSOLUTELY LOVE BLACK GIRLS ...I WONT DATE EM I JUST LIKE TO BANG EM ..THEY REAL GOOD LOVERS.

trust me, a lot of black girls would love to talk to a white guy, but we're afraid you guys buy into the stereotype

I was recently wondering about that myself. There are a lot (and I mean A LOT) of white chicks who like the black dudes for whatever reason. Maybe it's their size since a lot of blacks are taller than whites (LeBron James for example). Black women seem to have their physical assets as well: big round backsides, large breasts and luscious lips. But, I guess it has to do ultimately with socio-economics. A lot of whites are moving their way down in the world these days and this trend seems to be greater among females than males. White dudes still want to hang onto the illusion that they're "upper middle class" so they date white girls. Dating a black chick means accepting the fact that they are "ghetto." In ten years when these 40 year old white guys are toothless and have lost their wits not even the black women will stoop so low as to date them.

Adam: Hey, baby. Wanna suck on my swollen diabetic feet?

Vanessa: Boy, if I date you I'd be slummin'.

White dudes still want to hang onto the illusion that they're "upper middle class" so they date white girls.

I'm a white guy I like black girls. My only problem with the idea of dating a black girl is that not all but a lot of them at least in Oklahoma grew up in a family similiar to mind which was poor and pretty much all poor white,black,brown people have the same kind of assholes in there family the racist, the person that always blames all there problems on the other race, the gang banger, the religious fanatic, and the one that are in, or just got out of prison.

So to answer the question I would date a black girl only if she is middle class. It has nothing to do with that as a white boy im hanging onto the illusion that im "upper middle class as much as now that im middle class I want peace in my life I've had enough drama in my life I dont want anymore.

oh and one more thing.

Dating a black chick means accepting the fact that they are "ghetto." In ten years when these 40 year old white guys are toothless and have lost their wits not even the black women will stoop so low as to date them

this asshole fucking pisses me off. Im guessing he's one of those self hating white hippy sell out that talk down about the white race cause there worthless pieces of shit with nothing better to do. Put the joint down and put a tool in your hand. Its assholes like you that make a lot of white guys that arnt racist look like a bunch of racist just because were proud to be white. I like black girls, and brown girls just as much as I like white girls their all attractive, and just because you or any other guy including myself likes a girl of any other race doesnt me you shouldnt be proud of your own race stop making the successful white man look like an asshole. Aint our fault we have good jobs and your stuck asking people if they want fries with that.

In ten years when these 40 year old white guys are toothless and have lost their wits not even the black women will stoop so low as to date them

Thats funny, the upper middle class white guy, toothless, nobody would want to date them?

I'm 5'11, and athelic. I live in a 4 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage house, on 5 acres, and I make a little over 60,000 a year something tells me that I'll never have anything to worry about. Not my fault us upper class men take all the girls, get a better job bitch.