Bleeding Heart

I've been going through a lot lately and I am looking for answers. I just stepped away from a significant relationship and ffel as though heart has been torn out of my chest. I feel stupid for saying this but my chest feels like an elephant is sitting on it. I am physically sick and short of breath. Is it possible to heal after the love of your life turns to another? All mean comments need not respond--rejection and spitefulness is not needed right now.

pam wrote:

I've been going through a lot lately and I am looking for answers. I just stepped away from a significant relationship and ffel as though heart has been torn out of my chest. I feel stupid for saying this but my chest feels like an elephant is sitting on it. I am physically sick and short of breath. Is it possible to heal after the love of your life turns to another? All mean comments need not respond--rejection and spitefulness is not needed right now.

I am going thru the same thing, My GF left me for another man, simply for money. Its very hard right now, if you want, so I totally understand !!!

Hurting wrote:

<quoted text>I am going thru the same thing, My GF left me for another man, simply for money. Its very hard right now, if you want, so I totally understand !!!

Money isn't everything. Money buys stuff--you can be surrounded by stuff and be really unhappy. I'd choose love everytime. Friends keep telling me I will get over him..I don't see how. I keep waiting on the phone to ring--

Yes u can get over it. Don't sit around the house and dwell on it. Get off ya butt and get back on ya feet

No matter how much you get out of the house if you are stuck on someone nothing helps ...I understand

I am in love with someone who will never feel the same way about me. This person has helped me so much in the recent months and they know it too. I wouldn't be here today if it wasn't for him. I owe him so much, and I've told him that so many times. I know it's not the same as what you are going through, but it will get better.

Feel like the world is ending because he doesn't want this break up it is me. Sounds crazy I know but he is married. I just can't do it...no matter how bad I hurt married is a deal breaker.

Your the dumba$$ that got involved with a married man. Like how slutty are u ???

well why the hell did you call it off .. sounds like a nice guy and are you married must be single

He's married That's why. Can't u read??????

bet she is too bet he loves her unconditionallly till death

Ask him to leave his woman... if he love you he would... at least ask and try. You sound like you both love each other!! If you think it is meant to be, never give up hope!!!

I know the feeling

Omg. Do all of y'all live in the land of make believe???? That all is peaches and cream?????

All I can say is anyone who lives with someone and really wants to be with someone else is selfish. And might as well be a cheater.

What I would find useful is if "Ball that clank" would piss the Fu@k off and stop giving bad advise to people in need of good advise. Better yet just staying the hell off topix al together would be a good idea. While your on topix someone is screwing you gf that you are so 100% dedicated to...she's not so dedicated to you Mr. Ball that clank!!!

Sorry but she is. And my advice is just that advice. Take it or leave it. But u need to man the hell up. Stop your crying and well just grow a pair

My bf left me for another woman about a month and a half ago. I was physically ill.. Couldn't eat, couldn't sleep.. Felt sick 24/7. I'm still not over him but I feel a lot better than what I did. I still think about him everyday and the only time I get a sick feeling is when I see him in person. It gets better trust me, it just takes time. Lots of time!

balls that clank wrote:

Omg. Do all of y'all live in the land of make believe???? That all is peaches and cream?????

YES

Yea. Time heals all but it'll be easier to keep busy doing something!!!!