Women of Rhea County

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Just asking

Cleveland, TN

#1 Aug 2, 2010
Are there any that could really be considered a (lady)?
Now I ask this using my definition of lady.She cannot be a liar. She cannot be someone who likes to screw guys over and jerk them around.She cannot be a thief. She cannot be someone who only cares about herself.She cannot be someone who doesn't know how to keep her word.
Using these guidelines I don't know any "ladies" in Rhea County.Does anyone else ?
Lookin

Dayton, TN

#2 Aug 2, 2010
Then you haven't met me.
George ette

Chattanooga, TN

#3 Aug 2, 2010
or me either you transexual!
My Fair Lady

Chattanooga, TN

#4 Aug 2, 2010
Or me either...hmm already found 3
just asking

Cleveland, TN

#5 Aug 3, 2010
George ette wrote:
or me either you transexual!
Well since I am not a transsexual there is a lie you already told so you are out.I knew there would be a lie but never thought it would happen that quick.
just asking

Cleveland, TN

#6 Aug 3, 2010
My Fair Lady wrote:
Or me either...hmm already found 3
Since Georg ette lied and is out,you have now lied by saying 3 so that means you are out too. Now granted you didnt actually realize you were lying but since Georg ette used the word transsexual to describe me you should have known. Also since you had no concern for my feelings being called a transsexual and only cared about YOU being number 3 you did not meet the guidelines so you are out for that too.
just asking

Cleveland, TN

#7 Aug 3, 2010
Lookin wrote:
Then you haven't met me.
If you really think you meet the guidelines i set you are lying and jerking me around so you are out also. You can say it all you want but I would have to see it to believe it.

NONE YET !
George ette

Chattanooga, TN

#8 Aug 3, 2010
I meant to say trans axle, so you must put me back in, puuleese!

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#9 Aug 3, 2010
Are you a gentleman? You have insulted us by your trite description of a true southern lady. I can make some tasty sweet iced tea and SO MUCH MORE mister nasty! Raise the BAR if you really want to meet a lady! Do you have a mother? You really are a disappointment to her.
lady 4 sure

Dayton, TN

#10 Aug 3, 2010
Just asking wrote:
Are there any that could really be considered a (lady)?
Now I ask this using my definition of lady.She cannot be a liar. She cannot be someone who likes to screw guys over and jerk them around.She cannot be a thief. She cannot be someone who only cares about herself.She cannot be someone who doesn't know how to keep her word.
Using these guidelines I don't know any "ladies" in Rhea County.Does anyone else ?
You better believe there are ladies here! My parents raised me to be a lady and always act like one too. So I have tried all my life to be what I was brought up to be. So indeed there are lots of ladies in this county.
Lookin

Dayton, TN

#11 Aug 3, 2010
just asking wrote:
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If you really think you meet the guidelines i set you are lying and jerking me around so you are out also. You can say it all you want but I would have to see it to believe it.
NONE YET !
Someone did a number on you. You really have trust issues and have been burnt so bad you set the standard so high no one can meet it and to justify to yourself for locking yourself up so no one gets to you by believing everyone is a liar and deceiver and a cheat. I feel bad for you. There are good people out there but you got to take the time to get to know them and then you got to give them a chance otherwise you will feel this way the rest of your life. Do you really want to feel the way you do much longer about women? Direct your ill feelings towards the one/two or however many deserve it but don't take it out on the ladies that are out there, looking for a good person, just like you. You aren't the only one that gets hurt, lied to and played. Let it go and you will feel better. Make fun of, criticize, or condemn my post if you really feel the need, but really, just trying to help. Take care.
GET A LIFE

United States

#12 Aug 3, 2010
Just asking wrote:
Are there any that could really be considered a (lady)?
Now I ask this using my definition of lady.She cannot be a liar. She cannot be someone who likes to screw guys over and jerk them around.She cannot be a thief. She cannot be someone who only cares about herself.She cannot be someone who doesn't know how to keep her word.
Using these guidelines I don't know any "ladies" in Rhea County.Does anyone else ?
If you throw down the paint cans,get a hair cut,take a shower,go to goodwill for clean clothes,and stop hanging out at sue ann's and bimbos you just might see some real ladys.The way you look and where you hang out real ladys are running from you that's why you don't see them!
ouch

Cleveland, TN

#13 Aug 3, 2010
Just asking wrote:
Are there any that could really be considered a (lady)?
Now I ask this using my definition of lady.She cannot be a liar. She cannot be someone who likes to screw guys over and jerk them around.She cannot be a thief. She cannot be someone who only cares about herself.She cannot be someone who doesn't know how to keep her word.
Using these guidelines I don't know any "ladies" in Rhea County.Does anyone else ?
you got burned. huh? im a lady whos been "burned" by men but i havent let that leave me with a bad attitude about men. I am more cautious and examined the "relationship" to see what i did to let myself get burned. some of it regretably was my doing by not seeing the red flags that were obvious, he was casanova said the right things at the right time, etc. dont jump into a relationship so quick i dont know you but i bet you fall really easy for any and all women that seem the least bit interested am i right? dont answer that i dont really care. just watch for red flags next time you feel a tingling in your pants...
just asking

Cleveland, TN

#14 Aug 3, 2010
Lookin wrote:
<quoted text>Someone did a number on you. You really have trust issues and have been burnt so bad you set the standard so high no one can meet it and to justify to yourself for locking yourself up so no one gets to you by believing everyone is a liar and deceiver and a cheat. I feel bad for you. There are good people out there but you got to take the time to get to know them and then you got to give them a chance otherwise you will feel this way the rest of your life. Do you really want to feel the way you do much longer about women? Direct your ill feelings towards the one/two or however many deserve it but don't take it out on the ladies that are out there, looking for a good person, just like you. You aren't the only one that gets hurt, lied to and played. Let it go and you will feel better. Make fun of, criticize, or condemn my post if you really feel the need, but really, just trying to help. Take care.
I don't want to criticize condemn or make fun of your post.It actually is very good. I will only say that one/two is very,very conservative.It is every one I have ever come in contact with.As far as taking time and getting to know them,they dont give me time,they ALL do one of those things I mentioned early on.I have heard so many women say,I wouldnt do that,then guess what? They turn right around and do it.Do I want to feel this way for much longer ? I have given up on not feeling this way.Every time I start to not feel this way another one does it again.Honestly women have screwed me so bad and lied so much that I have to look out the window to be sure if one tells me the sky is blue.
You can think i'm crazy or full of it if you want but i'm telling it like it is.I don't need to hear the old cliche look at yourself.Done that many times and the fact is I don't hold a gun to womens heads and make them lie,cheat,steal,screw me over,jerk me around and not keep their word. They ALL do that on their own and THEY have made me feel this way.
In closing,I am not looking anymore,just wanted opinions.I have given up and given in to it all.I've been alone,I am alone,I'll be alone and i'll die alone
just asking

Cleveland, TN

#15 Aug 3, 2010
real southern girl wrote:
Are you a gentleman? You have insulted us by your trite description of a true southern lady. I can make some tasty sweet iced tea and SO MUCH MORE mister nasty! Raise the BAR if you really want to meet a lady! Do you have a mother? You really are a disappointment to her.
Actually every person has a right to have what they want.I choose not to have in my life the things I mentioned.If you are offended then it can only mean that you are one of those things,otherwise you have nothing to be offended about.
I don't want any iced tea.
I never said anything about true or southern,just lady.
My bar is raised.Thats why there are no ladies I know of.
I am very much a gentleman ! I'm a gentleman that does not put up with bulls**t from women.Only a woman that would throw out bulls**t would say that makes me not a gentleman.
My mother is very proud of me.In fact just the other day she said and I quote,women today seem to have a sense of entitlement to things they don't deserve,end quote.
Have a nice day.
just asking

Cleveland, TN

#16 Aug 3, 2010
ouch wrote:
<quoted text>you got burned. huh? im a lady whos been "burned" by men but i havent let that leave me with a bad attitude about men. I am more cautious and examined the "relationship" to see what i did to let myself get burned. some of it regretably was my doing by not seeing the red flags that were obvious, he was casanova said the right things at the right time, etc. dont jump into a relationship so quick i dont know you but i bet you fall really easy for any and all women that seem the least bit interested am i right? dont answer that i dont really care. just watch for red flags next time you feel a tingling in your pants...
it is not your fault that they burned you it is theirs for being a low life POS.
My Fair Lady

Cleveland, TN

#17 Aug 3, 2010
There is somebody for everybody..it just takes time. I know someone who could help you, God! If you would turn your life over to him (if you haven't already) or even if you've back slid some he always forgives. Maybe you have certain things that you need to work out in your own life before you bring others into it. I have no ideal, just saying. But I know that God has a time for everything. There is somebody out there for you & there is others that feels the exact same way you do. And when you have God your NEVER alone!!! Just pray about it & when the time is right God will send the perfect woman your way. I know you will find happiness soon & when you do I hope you'll post on here & let us know :)
just asking

Cleveland, TN

#18 Aug 3, 2010
GET A LIFE wrote:
<quoted text>If you throw down the paint cans,get a hair cut,take a shower,go to goodwill for clean clothes,and stop hanging out at sue ann's and bimbos you just might see some real ladys.The way you look and where you hang out real ladys are running from you that's why you don't see them!
I don't paint,my hair is short,I shower every day,I buy my clothes at top of the line stores (I can afford to),never been to Sue Ann's and only ate at Bimbo's twice.You must hang out at those places and think you know me.Obviously you dont know very much !
ouch

Cleveland, TN

#19 Aug 3, 2010
just asking wrote:
<quoted text>
I don't want to criticize condemn or make fun of your post.It actually is very good. I will only say that one/two is very,very conservative.It is every one I have ever come in contact with.As far as taking time and getting to know them,they dont give me time,they ALL do one of those things I mentioned early on.I have heard so many women say,I wouldnt do that,then guess what? They turn right around and do it.Do I want to feel this way for much longer ? I have given up on not feeling this way.Every time I start to not feel this way another one does it again.Honestly women have screwed me so bad and lied so much that I have to look out the window to be sure if one tells me the sky is blue.
You can think i'm crazy or full of it if you want but i'm telling it like it is.I don't need to hear the old cliche look at yourself.Done that many times and the fact is I don't hold a gun to womens heads and make them lie,cheat,steal,screw me over,jerk me around and not keep their word. They ALL do that on their own and THEY have made me feel this way.
In closing,I am not looking anymore,just wanted opinions.I have given up and given in to it all.I've been alone,I am alone,I'll be alone and i'll die alone
OMG! man you need to get to a therapist! you sound so depressed and sad i hope you arent unknowingly projecting this to the women you meet because hello!WHAT A TOTAL TURN OFF! if you are attracting these bad women its probably because your walking around with a sign saying "hi im a pushover" "do me dirty" do you get what im saying! now toughen up and quit looking so hard and feeling sorry for yourself because you cant find a good woman. and by the way there are classy women and no class women and you apparently go after the no class women. cause after all they are the easiest to get and the easiest to blame when the relationship goes bad...and yes no class women will do you bad think about that. now put on your big boy underwear and be a man. NOW THAT IS MY OPINION!get some help you really sound sad
just asking

Cleveland, TN

#20 Aug 4, 2010
My Fair Lady wrote:
There is somebody for everybody..it just takes time. I know someone who could help you, God! If you would turn your life over to him (if you haven't already) or even if you've back slid some he always forgives. Maybe you have certain things that you need to work out in your own life before you bring others into it. I have no ideal, just saying. But I know that God has a time for everything. There is somebody out there for you & there is others that feels the exact same way you do. And when you have God your NEVER alone!!! Just pray about it & when the time is right God will send the perfect woman your way. I know you will find happiness soon & when you do I hope you'll post on here & let us know :)
Thank you for a great post.I have tried what you suggest and unfortunatly the more I pray the worse it gets.I say that not to condemn prayer or God but thats just how it is for me.It doesnt matter anymore so whenever the time is right I won't be interested.I didn't start this thread because I want someone or was looking for someone.As I said I have given up on that.I have met women in every place I can think of(including church) and it is always the same.I do appreciate your post though.

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