Yes child abuse/neglect/death is sad

women with kids wrote:

Yes, women with kids are VERY jealous of women who are free and have no children. This shows in how women with children have little to say on the subject as they are usually busy doing fun things where if you bring the subject up to a woman with kids she is ready to fight. VERY obvious who is jealous of who. Most women deep down secretly resent raising children. And if ya get men out by themself, without women around, they admit that if they had it to do over they wouldn't have. And yes, got to die with the "old Pervert" on this one, women who haven't had children look MUCH younger and better than a woman who had a child. Child bearing ages a woman at least ten to fifteen years in appearance.

I have never regretted having my children nor am I jealous of women who don't and fyi my husband wants another but after triplets I am going to give my body time to heal so think before you spew out some more stupidity.
and I am told everyday I look in my late twenties and I'm in my early forties so your appearance theory is shot all to hell :]

retardedpeople wrote:

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here goes the multi-poster.
two ugly bitches that act like the same person,and I can grant you my husband would never look at tramps like you.
so go to the lost parrot (what a joke) and try again cause its not working this way.
and I am a great mom,stop being jealous its getting you nothing,but looking stupid.

hey retarded people. I thought you said your children and grandchildren come over for dinner on Sunday. How did you cook dinner and stay on this forum arguing all day. Seems to me if you were so happy with all your youngens you wouldn't be on here all day fussing and bitchin. How
DID you have time to cook?

hep retarded person wrote:

<quoted text>hey retarded people. I thought you said your children and grandchildren come over for dinner on Sunday. How did you cook dinner and stay on this forum arguing all day. Seems to me if you were so happy with all your youngens you wouldn't be on here all day fussing and bitchin. How
DID you have time to cook?

did I say I cooked?
well guess another retard who jumps to conclusions...
I said they were here for dinner,you know some people go out and pick up already cooked food.
and trust me I am very happy with my children who are not that young,but anyways I know this is the same ignorant ass always responding its okay you don't have to change your name unless your embarrassed and trying to hide your shame. now stop being jealous its getting you nothing :]

hep retarded person wrote:

<quoted text>hey retarded people. I thought you said your children and grandchildren come over for dinner on Sunday. How did you cook dinner and stay on this forum arguing all day. Seems to me if you were so happy with all your youngens you wouldn't be on here all day fussing and bitchin. How
DID you have time to cook?

and what a name hep retarded person are you talking about yourself...lol

Seems to me that for not being a mother you sure SEEM to know a lot about it!Not.

It makes me sick to my stomach to see that people talk like having a child is a bad thing.
A child is the most wonderful thing in the world and having the title of being a mother is the greatest.
So I guess to childish adults they might think of it as a bad thing because it would cause them to have to grow up and they wouldn't be the center of attention,so I'm glad people like that don't want children as they would not be cared for properly.
And as for me looking older because I have a child entirely not true I am actually slimmer than before my pregnancy and my boobs are bigger and firmer than ever thanks to breast feeding,and I have no scars or stretch marks thanks to cocoa butter.
I would not trade being a mom for the single life style ever.

retardedpeople wrote:

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here goes the multi-poster.
two ugly bitches that act like the same person,and I can grant you my husband would never look at tramps like you.
so go to the lost parrot (what a joke) and try again cause its not working this way.
and I am a great mom,stop being jealous its getting you nothing,but looking stupid.

Look what you just wrote...
"two ugly bitches that act like the same person"
We have different names... Billionaire & The Real Kitten. Two Different People, Two Different names. To make what you said true there would only be one name for the two of us... There are two people with two names.
Come on.. Whose the one thats making themselves look stupid here.
Thanks for the laugh on that one lol

mother wrote:

It makes me sick to my stomach to see that people talk like having a child is a bad thing.
A child is the most wonderful thing in the world and having the title of being a mother is the greatest.
So I guess to childish adults they might think of it as a bad thing because it would cause them to have to grow up and they wouldn't be the center of attention,so I'm glad people like that don't want children as they would not be cared for properly.
And as for me looking older because I have a child entirely not true I am actually slimmer than before my pregnancy and my boobs are bigger and firmer than ever thanks to breast feeding,and I have no scars or stretch marks thanks to cocoa butter.
I would not trade being a mom for the single life style ever.

See retardedpeople... this woman is mother and look how beautifully she expresses it, this is how mommies should act.
I dont want children either, love them especially my niece, they just arent for me and i know in my heart i wouldnt be a good mother and care for them the way they should be taken care of. But i do have respect for any mommy that conducts themselves as a mommy should =] and not like a retard =]

^ definitely! i never said that having children was a bad thing but having kids is definitely not for me. If you're a good parent and enjoy it then great. you can call me selfish for not wanting to be responsible for someone else for 18 years, but IMO i think i'm NOT being selfish at all if I can admit that i wouldn't be a good parent. i'm doing my potential children a favor lol

BTW retarded people, you said you have children AND grandchildren and you're in your early forties? wow... spread your legs early, and teach your child to do the same. grade A parenting right there!!!! hahahaha sucks for you!

Wow....why is everyone hating on each other based on whether or not they want kids? And I love the "who is prettier" contest....I know women who never had children who look awesome, and I know a few that look a pickled mess, same with mothers...not every woman who has given birth has saggy boobs, scars, and stretch marks. I'm sure there are some women who regret not having children and others who love their life childless, but again- same on the other side, I'm sure some mothers regret it, but not all-- I for one am in no way jealous of childless women, I lived my carefree days and now I have awesome twin boys, and they don't "stifle" my life, we travel, we go to lakes, parks, playgrounds, zoos, movies, we always have fun, and when I want something more adult, I get a babysitter and go out. I LOVE my life, and I wish that for everyone else too, kids or not. ;)

You are correct,neither of you should have children.It would be best for sociality if you did not.

billionaire wrote:

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please DO NOT even tell me that I'm not a compassionate person because I do NOT want to have kids. you don't know me. IMO, just because I am a female does not mean that my sole purpose in this world is to have as many kids as sweet baby jesus wants me to have. as I said I have a niece and she's all I need, I can give her back to her mom and dad when I'm tired of dealing with her =)

I don't think you understood what I meant, I wasn't condemning you because you don't want kids or saying your not a compassionate person, I meant you weren't compassionate towards children, not in a mean way, I meant its not in your nature. People have different opinions, and that's yours, and I have mine. The whole point was don't be so quick to say how you are going to feel for the rest of your life because you are still young and you never know where your life will take you.

billionaire wrote:

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please DO NOT even tell me that I'm not a compassionate person because I do NOT want to have kids. you don't know me. IMO, just because I am a female does not mean that my sole purpose in this world is to have as many kids as sweet baby jesus wants me to have. as I said I have a niece and she's all I need, I can give her back to her mom and dad when I'm tired of dealing with her =)

And Jesus doesn't care how many kids you have.

glad wrote:

<quoted text>You are so wrong. When I see older women crying because their kid didn't come home for Christmas, or because he got a DUI or whatever, it makes me glad I didn't have kids. I am 55 years old and I chose to not have children. I see lots of women like me and they all seem muxch happier than women who my age who had children. They look years younger than the ones who did and the truth is we are afraid to admit that we are all glad we didn't have children. We travel when we want and if we decide to date someone there are no children to step in to protect their inheritance. Sorry, if you want the truth, most women who didn't have children and much happier than the ones who are grieving because their child didn't turn out like they wanted.

I don't have some kind of weird agenda against women that don't have kids, I did not say that every woman who doesn't have kids will end up this way, I said the women that I KNOW--trying to give her a little advice that its not always a happy ending either way you go. Sorry, if YOU want the truth, the majority of women that have them love their children and don't grieve over them, and enjoy their lives. I agree with Steph, I travel whenever I want, do whatever I want, and have whatever I want along with my children, I wasn't throwing rocks at you Glad, so please stop trying to throw pebbles at me.

retarded people you are mean in your messages, and while some of what you are saying is true, the rest is psycho.

no no no, not every single mother bitches about being a single mother, some of them actually LIKE it. And there is this brand new invention called coco butter that can bring your tummy right back to its pre-pregnancy form if not better, boobs generally do not sag until a woman gets older, and the hormones and vitamins from pregnancy give a woman a beautiful glow during and after pregnancy. I don't know what kind of skanky girls you know that look so horrible after pregnancy and are trying to hound you to raise their children, but welcome to 2009 babycakes, most women do it all on their own, with or without kids, and a man is an accessory. A lady is still #1 to a gentleman regardless.

I did not know my posts came off sounding so argumentative, but I surely did not mean them that way.

i'm actually 25, not 23, i just didn't want to post my real age. not like 2 years really matters but as i said, i've never had maternal feelings or wanted kids. sorry, but i do know myself better than you and after 25 years i really do not think those feelings will change.

billionaire wrote:

i'm actually 25, not 23, i just didn't want to post my real age. not like 2 years really matters but as i said, i've never had maternal feelings or wanted kids. sorry, but i do know myself better than you and after 25 years i really do not think those feelings will change.

Sweet pea, I am coming from a "girl talk" in a spa or salon kind of angle and you are taking it as a personal attack. I am not saying that I know you better than you know yourself, and actually, no, most people do not have a steady grasp on who they are at 25. They think they do, but life is funny that way;) I am not trying to say "oh, of course your gonna want kids someday silly!", I could care less if you have kids or want kids or like kids. What I am saying is that while it is true that those maternal feelings may not ever hit your uterus, it is also true that you could hit 35 and that biological clock hit you like a truck. Life is an adventure and you should never close off any possibilities, or more simply put- never say never.

billionaire wrote:

BTW retarded people, you said you have children AND grandchildren and you're in your early forties? wow... spread your legs early, and teach your child to do the same. grade A parenting right there!!!! hahahaha sucks for you!

well first of all jealous which should be your name,I am actually 45 and my oldest is 23 and has a 6 month old and a 2 year old so do some math before looking all stupid.
and at least I was married and apparently more mature than you will ever be,and btw still have the same husband so don't be jealous that every time I do spread my legs its to the same man not a different one like you :]
and my life is far from sucky which your is because all you can do is talk trash behind a screen,so its okay live YOUR sucky life the way you want while I enjoy mine and my childrens.

Lushy wrote:

retarded people you are mean in your messages, and while some of what you are saying is true, the rest is psycho.
no no no, not every single mother bitches about being a single mother, some of them actually LIKE it. And there is this brand new invention called coco butter that can bring your tummy right back to its pre-pregnancy form if not better, boobs generally do not sag until a woman gets older, and the hormones and vitamins from pregnancy give a woman a beautiful glow during and after pregnancy. I don't know what kind of skanky girls you know that look so horrible after pregnancy and are trying to hound you to raise their children, but welcome to 2009 babycakes, most women do it all on their own, with or without kids, and a man is an accessory. A lady is still #1 to a gentleman regardless.
I did not know my posts came off sounding so argumentative, but I surely did not mean them that way.

sorry but nothing I have said is psycho,I state the truth and if you don't like it,DON'T read it :]