Marla Garnto resigned?

MysteriousO wrote:

I hear that Marla Garnto (Hawkinsville High School Band Director) resigned and that there were pictures proving her sleeping around on her husband. I have also heard that this has been going on for several years and she remains the piano player at her church.
Isn't this morally wrong? And she still denies to this day that anything ever happened.

MysteriousO wrote:

So your saying its ok to cheat on her husband?

MysteriousO wrote:

Wow, I'm glad to know that you think its ok, as long as the other party consents to it. Ever heard of divorce, before hand? Ever think about the children who will have split parents and end up with a broken home because of someones sexual desire to "experiment?" Its called being SINGLE! You cant represent the church, be married and cheat on your husband (without his knowledge), and say that its OK. So is it ok for your wife or husband to cheat on you without your knowledge, as long as he asks permission with his discreet partner?
Are you f'in serious? You are ovbiously part of the clique that started this shit with Joey George- this stuff has been going on for 15+ years!
When you do wrong, you deserve to have to answer to it. She did not answer to it, and it has remained hush hush in the little town of H-ville, however, the internet cannot stop the raid of RESPONSIBILITY that I will invoke, just by talking about facts. I eagerly await the next thread response!
btw, I'm married with two children, and it would "never" be ok to have another partner with us, unless it was together with us. In no way ever would I ever approve of my wife sleeping around on me, or my sleeping around on her. The decent thing I could do is: a) separate from her, or b) get a divorce from her. Not continue to live in he same house with here and sleep in the same bed with her. This is the oath you take upon Marriage which is overseen by GOD- the real commitment to the marriage, not just a i do from both man and woman.

Hawkinsville Band Mom wrote:

I heard about this and it absolutely burns me up inside. I know factually of her accounts of this happening at school during school hours, which she was not caught by, and only what got her caught happened outside of school campus outside of school hours. But mostly what gets me is that she is still of of less than 10 people on her churches payroll and sits in front of 200 people every Sunday and plays piano.
Our society is changing rapidly as people move from marriage to being young and single again, without regard to family and actualy maritual status and its relation to God. How can you be a mentor (any clergy type church member), and continue to keep your position. I, myself would have to find a new job, as I would believe that I needed help. However, it proves that herself and her husband are both in denial that it all happened(s), while also trying to disprove her reasoning for dismissal and trying to sue the school for her termination,*cough*, "Resignation."
Ever since she became the band director at HHS, she has ruined the program. The skilled musicians that used to leave that school were far gone when Hillsman left. She taught people how to watch movies in class from 6-12, teaching absolutely nothing unless it was marching season. Wait, excuse me, she taught everyone how to beat on a trashcan.-- Any monkey can be handed a stick and a bowl and say "BEAT." Notice how there were always 60 aux members and 45 wind players? A real band has 20 aux members and 80 wind players.
-Linda

U R Impure wrote:

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You and the Preacher poster ought to meet at a local motel and whip it up naked. You people suffer from boredom in your lives, as you go to great lengths to gossip about others transgressions.
I believe the Biblical quote went something like this, "Let He who has not sinned cast the first stone".
Those who seek love outside "his" or "her" primary relationship are seeking just that, "Love". Is it right or wrong? This is for God to decide, not those of you who continue to harp on this person. It is much easier to focus on anothers downfall than on your own any day of the week.
It is easier to attempt to remove the splinter from someone elses eye than to remove the log, no, the forest from your own eye.
None of you have any stretch of imagination what this person has gone through in her life, from birth to present.
Hawkinsville, the self-righteous community of judges for God. What a joke you people are in God's eyes, as you crucify this woman with your written words. Look at your own lives. What can you do to improve your own life, not someone elses.
What would Jesus do? He more than likely, atleast according to what is written would embrace this woman with pure love and forgive her of her transgressions, understand with compassion why she did what she did, and ask her to sin no more.
Those of you who ridicule this woman are so far from forgiveness that it is unbelieveable.
Leave the woman alone, allow her to move on with her life, healing from whatever she needs to heal from instead of crucifying her.
Most people when they project their detest onto another are coming from a base within themselves that they detest. Clean yours
elves up before you attempt to purify someone else.

Preacher wrote:

I have heard from others that this has been going on for years. It seems to have been going on at Hawkinsville High for several years. Why is it that so many people in Hawkinsville think that its okay to cheat on their spouse? "Just as long as both sex partners consent." What about their spouse?
Hawkinsville is becoming a very dark city, as this pushes through the school systems, parents with any mind will get out and put their children in another county or in private school. Its time we clean house at Hawkinsville High and get rid of the drugs and sex problems.

U R INSANE wrote:

and quite retarded in your thinking

To the Teenager wrote:

Did you just learn how to use project in a sentence?

Another Tale wrote:

Marla on multiple occasions has slept with students on overnight trips.

Hawkinsville Band Mom wrote:

I heard about this and it absolutely burns me up inside. I know factually of her accounts of this happening at school during school hours, which she was not caught by, and only what got her caught happened outside of school campus outside of school hours. But mostly what gets me is that she is still of of less than 10 people on her churches payroll and sits in front of 200 people every Sunday and plays piano.
Our society is changing rapidly as people move from marriage to being young and single again, without regard to family and actualy maritual status and its relation to God. How can you be a mentor (any clergy type church member), and continue to keep your position. I, myself would have to find a new job, as I would believe that I needed help. However, it proves that herself and her husband are both in denial that it all happened(s), while also trying to disprove her reasoning for dismissal and trying to sue the school for her termination,*cough*, "Resignation."
Ever since she became the band director at HHS, she has ruined the program. The skilled musicians that used to leave that school were far gone when Hillsman left. She taught people how to watch movies in class from 6-12, teaching absolutely nothing unless it was marching season. Wait, excuse me, she taught everyone how to beat on a trashcan.-- Any monkey can be handed a stick and a bowl and say "BEAT." Notice how there were always 60 aux members and 45 wind players? A real band has 20 aux members and 80 wind players.
-Linda