A wolf in sheeps clothing

This is Cynthia Spear I befriended Wayne Wormy Wiersema last year and flew him to Texas last thanksgiving wormy brought no clothes with him and never offered that he could afford them so I purchased his clothes and for the most part everything he had for the 13 days he was there,at no time did he let on he was not broke,but indeed was feeling pretty good that he had decieved me as when he returned to Iowa he found out he had carpal tunnel and prostrate cancer,when I heard of this I drove 250 miles to see what I could do to help I took him grocerys as a friend would do and took care of him his house and his yard with the help of a few neighbors,this continued for months.then he wrote me a bad check for help some friend,I tried everyway to help him and when I said I needed to recover some of the money I spent,he became verbally abusive and said because I wasnt from Camanche the people didnt like me this was several weeks ago and the benefit is at Jerseys,where he did nothing but badmouth Brenda that is amazing.I was always very good to all them people.Terry,Art,Joe,mark watch your back,and Wormy god will judge you.

I just want to say to Joe who lives across the street from wormy,you are the greatest and what you do for others is awsome, I tried to get wormy to walk over to see you but all he was interested in was himself and the cubs,I can see now why others were not there,he felt like everyone owed him something,he wouldnt even say please or thank you to me without me saying something it became quite painful after a while that I could do all I did and he wouldnt lift a finger to help unless it was coffee or the yard,I tried very hard to stay quiet as he has medical problems,but the abuse in the end was too much,then he wrote me a check and let me go to his bank with it knowing it was no good,he knew that I had spent a great deal of money taking care of him and yet wrote me a Bad Check what kind of Friend does that??He should be ashamed and the people that sent me the nasty messages should to,and I dont think anyone went in the house and took things I think he knows full wellwhere the stuff went,every time I came home and went back to camanche stuff was gone and he never wanted to call police,imagine that.I tried to take care of his dog I couldnt even get him to help me clean out my truck after hauling the dog to the vet. he had money for all the pools at the bar but not to take care of dog,what does that say.Terry and your girl,you guys are great wormy dont deserve you,also mark joe art goon, Pat did a great job with basement,I appreciated your help.god will reward you for being good people. sincerely Red

oh my gosh, Red. Are you kidding me? All the benefits that I have ever helped with, not once did I expect anything from them. You did! A man who has cancer probably doesn't feel very good! You want him to help YOU? Give me a break. No one expects to re-coup there money they put into the benefit! Why do you suppose its called a BENEFIT!?
How come you didn't mention tearing up his garden.? Talk about childish. This goes to show what type of person you really are. Good riddance!

Red, how pathetic you are! Expecting "pay backs" from Wormy??? He has prostate cancer for christ's sake! The BENEFIT held for him was to help PAY for medical expenses that he has already incurred, PLUS the expenses he will incur during 8 weeks of radiation!!! And you think he owes YOU money?? You're a wretched, wicked, coniving, SORRY SOURCE of a human being!
By the way, you forgot to mention all of the derogatory and personal remarks that you spread all over town about Wormy and his family. It is NOBODY'S BUSINESS to know of his poor (as you spoke about to us)financial situation. Apparently, you stuck your nose where it shouldn't belong. He NEVER 'bad mouthed' Brenda either! If it wasn't for Brenda, he would not have hooked up with the cancer clinic in Chicago that is HELPING him with the cancer!
Another thing....When Wormy's dog (Annie), who was his best friend, companion and love of his
life became ill, YOU were the one who took her to the vet with Wormy (3 days after his original surgery and diagonis). Wormy was still very medicated and the next thing he knew, Annie was put to sleep. In Wormy's mental and physical being, he doesn't even remember telling the vet to put his beloved dog down. However, of course, that left more room in his house for YOUR dog!!
You've done nothing but put even more dispare into Wormy's life. Good riddance!!!!

Well I think whoever is sounding off about Red needs to get their facts straight,It is a shame that this woman with her big heart was treated so badly. Wormy although having cancer should have not treated her so badly and it was Red not Brenda that set it up for him to go to cancer center of america,Brenda gave her the number it was Red that tried everything to get him the best care and info,to eat the right foods and she took care of his dog,it is a bold face lie that she had his dog put down to have more room in his house. you are a pathetic piece of crap to even emply that.I am ashamed to even no you peoplle,noone of you lifted a finger to help wormy till Red was taking care of him and then she had to shame you into it.He should pay her back the money he wrote her the bad check for,that says nothing for his character.RED didnt give Wormy cancer.and further more none of you cared what she was going thru,there were a handful of people that even ask her if she needed anything.I personally would sue him for writing the bad check because he is doing nothing but trying to maline her character,maybe he needs to go have his head examined. I am sorry he has cancer but he seems to have mental issues as well as do the people that agree with him.

Apparently, nothing has been stated by "Red" of all the drink chips that she used (that turned up missing from Wayne's jar). Oops, that must have been a minimal amount that he paid her, only he didn't know they were going to "her" fund. Also, what about the milk cartons that were placed in several bars throughout the area, with RED'S name as a contact?? NO MONEY has been received by Wayne from the donations in the cartons. The cartons suddenly disappeared after Red ripped up Wayne's garden through her tyraid. One more thing destroyed by her that he so much enjoys. Helping is one thing. Reorganizing someone's life to fit the others' needs, is selfish.
What about the computer that Wayne purchased (his name is on the warranty), gave it to Red's 'boyfriend', but Wayne didn't receive payment for after numerous calls to Red.....no returned call until 2 months later. Apparently, she was injured and had 3rd degree burns. Pretty seriouse burns. Red did pay Wayne back, but amazingly, she had no significant "scars" that showed ANYTHING like 3rd degree burns whould.
Let's back track a bit...Who is working? Who needs money? WHO HAS CANCER of the prostate?? Who has insurance to cover 100%(or even 80/20) to cover hospital stay,radiation treatments, money for gas to and from the treatment center? Who has a MINIMAL amount of cash in a fund of $125,000.00 to pay for the entire cancer treatments?
Poor Red. I really feel sorry for you.

i know red and she is nothing like a wolf she always gives and asked for nothing in return.she asked for the check only after she over heard the message left on wormys phone about taking all he could from her then running her off and then they would help him. he claims he is a friend now of certain people who just a few months ago he was talking about how much of a slut she is for sleeping with any young guy she could and now she wants to help him and take creit for the work of others. now he thinks the world of her you ass holes need to get your facks straight befor you slam red, she was the only one who would take care of wormy in the beginning,not even his kids would step up or any of you good old boys and girls, i hope wormy dies of a slow painfull death and all you back stabbers who now are claiming to be his friend, ask wormey who paid for his bills and clothes, and the motel when he was at the doctor.not any of you good old boys you were no where to be found so to all of you F_ _ _ off

Red is a total FAKE, PHONY, AND SCAM ARTIST.
She pulled the same scam on another cancer victim (alledged friend) down in the South, just a few years back.

you are crazy and you dont know a damn think about what you are talking about you all deserve each other Red was one of the few decent people that has ever stepped foot in camanche Iowa and I dont know who Mike M is but you are an idiot you know nothing Wormy was doing the scamming you idiot not only to her but to his stepsons,you care so much about Wormy none of you stepped up till he had got every dime from Red he was gonna get.

i knew jackie the friend you are talking about and he called her to have her take car of him untill he died he left a will by a lawyer and it was fullfilled,get your facts straight befor you slander someone, they had been friends for several years and red had taken care of his mother untill she died and she never asked for anything nor did she recieved anything for her care

Kara you have no idea obviously about burns for one Wormy lies out his ass Red was taking all kinds of food to Wormys cooking his meals and cleaning his house taking him to the doctor he would hardly offer a dime Red even got his credit card bills reduced as for the boxes at the bars and everywhere he knew where they were Red hasnt been in town and people probaly found out what a fake wormy is why dont you ask them. wormy may not deserve cancer but he doesnt deserve to have a good friend like red

You people must be seriously on some bad drugs Wormy even told the neighbors that it was his niece that came into the house and stole from him.Wormy is the fake, and about the garden I was the one that bought the plants and put most of them in the ground and bought the sprinkler to water them .just because he has cancer doesnt give him the right to be an a@@ h@@e I had enough of him and his lies he said his insurance was paying for his illness all of it oh well I guess another lie. You guys need to get a life.

red dosnt need to take advanage of anyone she takes care of her self, never has asked for a dime from anyone, yes she had wormy pick up a computer for her boyfriend when his was tore up and he was ill, she tried to pay for it with her card over the phone but wall mart wouldent accept it by phone she paid him back and more then it cost, i went down to texas and seen the burns they were bad she is lucky not to have scares god does take care of the good and honestmaybe thats why she has no scares, kara you are a dum ass bitch get your facts right

Red...I need help. Any "Bitch on a Stick" you can refer me to?

Sorry, you have no females replying for your defense. That's o.k.

go f___ your self mike
with a stick and i will shove it up your ass to get it started then shove it down your neck

I dont have to defend myself to a bunch of selfish serving assholes like you people you all deserve each other and hell is only half full so there will be plenty of room for you. Maybe this is gods way of punishing wormy with all his issues I was a friend to him he didnt appreciate anything,he wouldnt even take care of his so called Annie,I should get a lawyer and sue the whole damn lot of you,but you r not worth my time. God will be all our judges. You people are pathetic.

You just don't get it. Yes, he has insurance, but, NO insurance covers 100%. Wormy will still owe a phenomenal amount after the insurance pays their coverage. THAT'S what the benefit was for! Again, Red has no business telling other's of Wormy's financial situation. How did "Jon" know of the credit card matter? "Jon" doesn't know Wormy and it is none of his business to be told of the credit cards, OR anything else of his financial situation. Red, the "friend" that she was, revealed too much information that was personal and CONFIDENTIAL between her and Wormy. It was very embarrassing to Wormy to hear of his PERSONAL business from his friends.
Who asked Red to buy the sprinkler?? She did it out of the "goodness" of her heart(????); now, she thinks Wormy owes her for that too. The childish part is that she totally destroyed his garden. Apparently, SHE is the one who SHOULD be on drugs. A bit bipolar???

What Wormy is failing to tell anyone is he lied to her from the word go and Jon is very aware of the whole situation, who goes on trip to Texas Red paid for flight and takes no clothes but the ones you have on for 13 days,noone in their right mind Red paid for new jeans underwear short sleeve and long sleeve shirts and new pair of boots for him not to mention all the food he enjoyed and beer wormy hardly put out a dime it is normal for someone to supply some meals but we are talking alot of money,she also bought him a lift seat for his chair and whole lot of grocerys filled all his freezers she would drive back and forth from where ever she was to help him,you people need the facts straight,Wormy was leading people to believe he had money,but wouldnt pay for anything except at the tavern.He doesnt deserve a good friend,from where I stand he was given a good friend and he treated her like crap now he is pissed because she finally blew a gasket and left his dumb ass,noone there has an idea what a REAL friend is. And as for the garden well Red put the garden in so I guess if she wanted to tear it up ,well it was better than knocking the crap out of him for being such an ass. noone deserves cancer,but wormy and people like him that have a good friend like Red should appreciate them. now I know why his kids dont hang out there.

and once and for all you people know the wormy he wants you to see, I never wanted money from his benefit,he told me after I put all the boxes out and he was with me that he didnt want or need a benefit.The boxes are still where we put them as far as I know,he is a fake,and for his dog annie she was a great dog and she got along great with my dog,I tried to do my best for that dog wormy was not taking care of the dog,just like he didnt take care of himself,he wants to blame me his relatives and whoever I know how he treated me and I seen and heard how he treated others and it didnt have anything to do with cancer,he wrote me the check as he knew he owed me that,no body put a gun to his head he got mad as he wanted to put mulch around bushes and all kinds of stuff all he worried was his yard being the best,I told him you dont have money to pay your bills and you are worried about the yard,are you crazy,i made sure he had great meals laundry done house cleaned, the vet can tell you he is lying about that day,wormy didnt have the money for more tests and annie was to far gone,if he loved her so much he wouldnt have let her suffer the way he did,I tell you terry and his girl are good people but I know why they dont hang out there.He literally makes you want to smack him after a while and appreciates NOTHING