Does anybody think happiness can come to somebody who is lonely?

I want to be so happy so bad but I want my kids to be happy more. They lost there daddy in a car wreck and we miss him a lot. I don't know what to do for them but I don't like for them to see me cry. I try hard to be a good mom. I love them and take care of them. I act like nothing bother me but they know.

Looking wrote:

I want to be so happy so bad but I want my kids to be happy more. They lost there daddy in a car wreck and we miss him a lot. I don't know what to do for them but I don't like for them to see me cry. I try hard to be a good mom. I love them and take care of them. I act like nothing bother me but they know.

Yes, pray to God for strength and he will give you all the strength you need to keep on going. I will pray for you and your family. Losing a love one is very devistating and it takes a long time to accept it.

baby girl u try to keep a happy face for ur kids. god will give u the strength to keep going. hanging around family and friends will keep u occupid. keep ur self busy when the kids are awy or slepping let it out. holding it in makes u wanna drop to ur knees. talking to people helps. u need to set u sum alone time. and doing things with ur children helps. keep ur children occupied, go to the park, sleep overs, them doing things and occupieng them keeps their head up. children react to trama differently from us. il pray for yal

Time heals all wounds, you can be human and let things out, cause holding things in gonna tear you apart. just remember that thier are things in life that gonna happened that we don't want, but just don't let it change your from being that mother your kids love.

Looking wrote:

I want to be so happy so bad but I want my kids to be happy more. They lost there daddy in a car wreck and we miss him a lot. I don't know what to do for them but I don't like for them to see me cry. I try hard to be a good mom. I love them and take care of them. I act like nothing bother me but they know.

Remember that God is with you helping you to carry own and raise your children. Spend all the time you can with them, and if you can let them know it's all right to speak about him. For yourself, write your husband letters, that will help you to release some of your grief. It may sound foolish, but it is what they teach in grief classes. Find some alone time for crying and releasing your tears. God Bless You and Your little babies.

I know how you feel. I too am alone raising kids. The thing that you need to keep in mind, though, is there are only two people you can rely on for true happiness-God and yourself. Anyone else is bound to let you down. If you love yourself, its ok to be alone. GOD BLESS YOU!

This idiot "Looking" is playing all of you like a bunch of fools. He or she is playing on all of you peoples sympathies. Do you think anyone in their right mind will advertise for love here on Topix or try to schedule a "hook-up" via this forum? PEOPLE, WAKE THE F#@K UP! IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THIS PERSON IS TRUE AND SINCERE, YOU ARE ALL JUST AS SICK AS "LOOKING"! And people wonder why the world is the way it is. Too many people want to believe in stupidity.

Jules wrote:

This idiot "Looking" is playing all of you like a bunch of fools. He or she is playing on all of you peoples sympathies. Do you think anyone in their right mind will advertise for love here on Topix or try to schedule a "hook-up" via this forum? PEOPLE, WAKE THE F#@K UP! IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THIS PERSON IS TRUE AND SINCERE, YOU ARE ALL JUST AS SICK AS "LOOKING"! And people wonder why the world is the way it is. Too many people want to believe in stupidity.

I agree with you 100%. This person is Sick In The Head!!!!

Why does everyone say pray to God for strengh or for help? Isn't this the same God that took the husband or father? Why pray to tthat same God?

Please wrote:

Why does everyone say pray to God for strengh or for help? Isn't this the same God that took the husband or father? Why pray to tthat same God?

GOD did not take anyone. our lifes are pre determined from the moment we enter the world. and besides u dont know how the accident happened.

Please wrote:

Why does everyone say pray to God for strengh or for help? Isn't this the same God that took the husband or father? Why pray to tthat same God?

Because He is the Be all, end all. This man was taken from his family by God for his time had come, but God is the same one who put this family together. So as much as this woman and children miss their loved one, God is aware of everything they feel. God has not abandoned them. Dying is never a convenience, and in our grief can never be justified. God's ways are not ours. so the choice remains, to count on him to help and love, or to claim the loss of their loved one as a punishment. Which would you choose?

Jules wrote:

This idiot "Looking" is playing all of you like a bunch of fools. He or she is playing on all of you peoples sympathies. Do you think anyone in their right mind will advertise for love here on Topix or try to schedule a "hook-up" via this forum? PEOPLE, WAKE THE F#@K UP! IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THIS PERSON IS TRUE AND SINCERE, YOU ARE ALL JUST AS SICK AS "LOOKING"! And people wonder why the world is the way it is. Too many people want to believe in stupidity.

What you say may be true, however she has not asked for love. The question she asked was if Happiness could come to someone lonely.
Read the topix title again!

Alpha and Omega wrote:

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What you say may be true, however she has not asked for love. The question she asked was if Happiness could come to someone lonely.
Read the topix title again!

Why don't YOU read all the other crap posts it's been posting for the past several weeks!

let me tell you, it dose get better. i am raising two of my grandkids it is hard but it dose get easy

I did not know people would be so kind to offer there good wishes to me and my children. God will bless you fine people who have a big heart. My heart is very heavy and so is my babies hearts they miss there daddy so much just like me. Thank you kind people. I wish you would know how much it means to me. God bless y'all.

Thank y'all so much for being nice to me. People have judged me and don't know the night we find out. Me and all my kids was on the bed crying and screaming because our world is torn apart. Now you are nice to say these things and help me to feel like maybe my life can take a turn for better. I tried and tried and even the teachers at the school look at me funny but there husband want me. I can tell when they say to me if I want to meet them. I do not want a married man. I want to find a place to hide my misery so my children can have a good life. Thank you one and all of y'll.

I think happiness if found inside each of us. We have to work hard to find it sometimes but it is there. May we each be blessed with health and happiness.