how young is too young for a vibrator?

mom1 wrote:

Yes Matt, we are very proud of our son. People would never know he's gay just by looking at him or talking to him. He plays football. He goes hunting with his dad. He does well in school and has a lot of friends. All the girls go crazy over him. My son is just like all the other young men his age in every way except that he says he's just attracted to other guys. He says we're the only ones he feels comfortable telling about this right now so we're just trying to be there for him as best we can and do the right thing. I'm just not sure what to do about this vibrator thing though. He wouldn't dare talk to his dad about this (and I promised not to either) so I'm more or less on my own here. So to everyone, thank you for all your advice and opinions. I'll carefully consider anything any of you have to say until I'm ready to make an informed decision.

I seen this post and thought I might offer some insight,
I was just like your son,noone knew or ever had any idea,heck I didnt even know,as bein gay meant being a Sissy or like Jack off Will and Grace,I wasnt and still aint anything like that, farm, hunted, fished, drank beer and had too many girl friends,heck Ima diesel mechanic for cryin out loud not an interior designer or hair stylists,when I did discover or actually acknowledged it,it was only because a real rugged mans man made it clear that he was attracted to me and thats all it took,thats been some time back now,I remember when I did tell my my closest friends they didnt believe me, thought I was liein to them. Now that Im way off topic here,lol,I have to say I really admire the relationship you and your son have,however if I were you I would go an consult w/ a professional unbiased counselor or doctor first because even though I am gay, I dont think its necessarily a good idea to buy him somthing like that at his age,I dont even have one myself most will tell you that gays are perverts, deviants and only about having multiple sex partners, etc, but truth is there is alot around that you dont even see or know about and that are completely monogamous with their partners. Being gay isnt about the sex w/ all but about the bond and closeness between two people,it was encouraged between the Roman soldiers because two men who had been intimate developed a bond that carried onto the battlefield,not making excuses or pleading my case just givin facts, On the other hand there are alot of middle aged married straight men that are on the down low wanting to have their sexual needs met while continuing to have a wife at home because its Easier living a straight life in rural Ohio than coming out and risking everything. You and he have some tough choices and decisions ahead of you thats for sure, but just keep in mind life aint the same everywhere as it is right there, thats a tough area to live and be anything other than a straight married man in.

As I read this thread, I thought to myself, would people have such an issue with this if a straight 16 yr. old female went to her mom to ask for a vibrator? I really admire this mother and her son for having such an honest relationship that they can talk to each other about this type of thing. I could never talk with my mom about sex as a teenager or even now even though we have a good relationship.

Your son is a sick degenerate propagated by you and your husbands lack of discipline. You deserve to have a sick homo son that never produces offspring.

kickyouinthetwat wrote:

Your son is a sick degenerate propagated by you and your husbands lack of discipline. You deserve to have a sick homo son that never produces offspring.

the words of a total idiot and obviously a huge coward i would say this person has been beat down by a gay guy once and still has not recovered poor guy its ok punkin your mom will tuck you in and sign you to sleep

Why not buy him a vibrator it's better than him going out and sleeping with people! at least he can do this in the privacy of his own home!And yes if my son or daughter came to me and said they would rather use a vibrator and not have sex i would have done went and got them one!And besides most kids now a days are having sex at 12 and up sooooo would you rather your child come to you and say can you take me to the Doctor i think i'm pregnant or worse finding out they have a disease that can kill them or they can never get rid of.And if his DAD knows he's gay why not tell him about the vibrator? it's still better than him experimenting with other teens or ADULTS that are gay also soooo get your butt out to the lions den and hook this boy up!And mom if you have ever used one then you know he will be satisfied with that for awhile so i say just do it and be proud that you have a really good son that seems to love and trust YOU or he wouldn't have come to you with this!!!

You people have your heads filled with so much propaganda and mush! This makes me sick. America is doomed with people like you and your perverted son. It's not acceptable! Societies cannot prosper like this. If we continue to go down this road, which we will, we are doomed as a country.

Is that what you want? I want Leave It To Beaver back damn it! You can keep your MTV!!!!!!!

kickyouinthetwat, really you've never used a vibrator? Who cares if he does, the kid is much better off doing that than cruising craigslist finding pedifiles to take advantage of him.

yummy wrote:

O my...what a f*cktard!!! He is being honest ..I say do it..there are much worse things he could be doing and most kids have had sex by 16...o my how about you take your worthless Christian yammering and shove it up your a**!! Being gay isn't a sin...geeze christians and their religious views are so f*cking idiotic.

Don't judge all Cristians because one is judgemental.

Sounds like kickyouinthewhat may have chipped a tooth on one at some time...

Christian? hardly... as a christian you are not supposed to judge people. you may try to help them see things in a different perspective but THAT IS IT. I am christian and I do not think being gay is "right" but that is MY opinion. I do not condemn or hate people that are. To the person saying it is a sin you are a bad christian and person and while someone who is gay may be infact sinning. you are sinning by hating them. Do you really have nothing better to do than sit online and bash people about things? the lady was asking a question for CONSTRUCTIVE RESPONSES not to be told her son is horrible. you are horrible leave people alone and worry about your own issues bitch.
I apologize to everyone else about that rant. It irritates me when people who are "christian" do not practice what they preach. to mom1 I would make him pay for it but get it for him. He could be trying to buy drugs or worse.

I'm a mom of a 14 year old daughter and I bought her a small sex toy. She was always stealing mine so I figured she needed her own. No harm there. It's better than her going off screwing guys.

You damn people are sick as hell....

I really hope that this thread was started by someone with a sick sense of humor.
And for the replies about buying vibrators for young girls, I hope that was in jest also.
ANY parent who would buy a vibrator for ANY child should be classified UNFIT!

The simple answer is regardless of your child’s sexuality parents should not be purchasing sex toys for their children

You people are sick.I suppose one day when your son is ate up with aids you will be proud to know that you contributed to him being gay.GOD made adam and eve,not adam and steve.You think just because you buy him a vibrator that he is not going to take it up the as@ by another guy,instead of getting him a vibrator do the right thing and get that boy some help.Is it going to make you proud to here someone calling your son a quee!.Or how do you think he is going to feel when someone figures out who you are and who your son is.Its bad enough he is gay,but his own mother broadcasting it on facebook.You fuc!in idiots.

Honestly I had a vibrator at 16. What is so wrong with a vibrator? Would you honestly rather the teenager to be going out and having sex risking exposure to STD's & pregnancy (towards females)?(Mom1)- You are a great mother and a great person for loving your son no matter what and trying to do what is best for him. Not many mothers left like you!!