First off to the person that said you "hope her kid gets taken away by SRS" you are worthless. Do you know Sarah as a mom well enough to make such a profound comment? Are you there at night when she tucks her in to bed, or kiss her when she falls, or feeds her or guides her...you have no idea what kind of a mother someone is unless you spend time with that person. And by your comment I know you have not spent time with Sarah.
I'd question my own ability to mother if I sounded as less as an adult as you do. Who wishes a child would be taken away from her mother? Check your soul. A wise women guides her words and speaks carefully.
I got out of SEK because I couldn't dream of raising my children in an environment with so much drama, backstabbing,& low class. If only there were a mall, church activities, restaurants...anything for you people to put your energy into instead of bashing Sarah and others. There is so much more to life.
She is trying. She is a mother... and a young mother at that. She loves her daughter and her husband. She has feelings. She is human, just like the rest you too. We all have a past. I see her trying to make it in an area where it sociable acceptable to party your life away. And even when you do pull it together there will then be people that think you are too good and others that will still define you from your past. You can't win to lose with ignorance and small minded people.
Evaluate your own life. Do you smoke in front of your own children, drink, say bad words, do drugs. Those are all very vital things that play a huge role in an upbringing of a well round child. By the ignorant ways you each are ghetto bashing Sarah I would assume you aren't well rounded people yourself. So who are you to judge her? What does anything she does effect you anyway? That is the main question you all should be asking yourself.
When we find our selfs so concerned about someone else we are waisting time on the things we could be improving in our own life's. I'd rather fix me then someone else because my family and I am worth that.
If you have such a problem with Sarah maybe you should befriend her and shine an example. I mean, clearly you think you are worthy of that. That you are perfect enough to judge her and tell her how she should live her life.
I have known Sarah since we were kids. I grew up at her house. I know her secrets. I know her hard time and I also know her good times. I can say for a fact that she has a good heart, means well, and is trying.
If you only stepped outside of SEK for a month you understand what I mean when I say grow up.