My Moms Cheating Should I Tell My Dad

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Moore, TX

#1 Sep 30, 2010
I don't Know what to do my dad works really hard all the time so
that she can afford whatever she wants.He loves her so much be has a
lot of pride,if I tell him he will kick her to the curb.I need some advise really fast I'm so mad at her.

Moore, TX

#2 Sep 30, 2010
Who's da mom & who wit?

Moore, TX

#3 Sep 30, 2010
Think about it do you want the whole town talking trash about your parents really that is not cool. Talk to your school councelor.

Jourdanton, TX

#4 Sep 30, 2010
Do not post their names. You need advice not people being nosey. Speak calmly and privetly to your mom. Though cheating is wrong, they may be having problems you may not know of. If you are old enough, you can better dicuss this together. She might be so involved with this other person that she is not seeing the whole picture. Don't be mad at her she is only human. We adult make mistakes. Be there for your parents but remember it is something THEY have to work out. I hope this helps.

United States

#5 Oct 1, 2010
i know you are mad, hurt and confused. please do not discuss your family personal business where the whole world to see. even if you are mad at your mom you do not need anyone talking about her or judging. i would say to even kept the school out of it. handle it at home with your mom. good luck and keep your cool

San Antonio, TX

#6 Oct 1, 2010
Like others are saying, do not post names on here. But my advise to you is to talk to both your mom and dad about this. If one parent is cheating then the other parent has the right to know about it. Cheating is unexcusable. The cheating parent apparently didn't think of how cheating can affect her child(ren). Talk to your father first. Your mother will probably turn around and blame you for splitting the family. Do not think you are the reason for the break up of your family. You mom cheated and she's the one that is breaking the family up. I know what you are going through because I went through the same thing. I caught my mom cheating and I told my dad about it. My mom said that I was the reason for the family breaking up. I felt like crap for a very long time and my dad sat me down and told me that the breakup had nothing to do with me. He said that my mom chose to cheat, got caught, and didn't think about the consequences. My mom left and my dad finally found someone who loves him and my step-mom treats me like her own and she does everything for me. She treats me better than my mom. I don't talk much to my mom but she has yet to apologive to me for blaming me for the whole family break up. I say to you, tell your dad. You have that right and responsibility because he has the right to know. It's better to find out from you than somebody else.

I will pray for you to have the strengh to do the right thing. Good luck.

Redmond, WA

#7 Oct 1, 2010
I will pray for you and your family. Sometimes us adults don't think of all the harm and consequences our bad choices bring to our family. Talk to your mom first and tell her what you know. Maybe she can offer some type of explanation, not that it makes it right. Maybe together you can tell your dad about the situation. If your parents decide to work through this there may need to be some type of family counseling. Just know that it will be tough for your family once your dad knows about it. Please remain strong and know that whatever happens none of this is your fault.

Moore, TX

#8 Oct 1, 2010
I'm just another kid reading this topic,so I don't
have any advise that would matter,But I was so moved
by the heart felt advise this kid is getting I had to
post something.
Omg people you are beautiful this is the best topic ever,I can really feel the compassion in u'll hearts & man- mine can only break as I read this I'm so sorry kid & good luck.

Moore, TX

#9 Oct 3, 2010
I know how that feels to know your other parent is or may be cheating. You not only feel they turned their back on their spouse,but you as well. Talk to your mother,don't argue or get mad. Stay calm and talk things out. Yelling and shouting doesn't solve anything...good luck.

San Antonio, TX

#10 Oct 4, 2010
what ever you decide to do, remember both your parents love you. its guna be hard. even as adults, we tend to act like kids. be strong. i remember when i went through a situation some what like yours. live, learn, be strong. no one is to blame. understand it was there choice.

Moore, TX

#11 Oct 12, 2010
Tell U'r grandma, u'r dads mom They always know whats best for their son.If she is worthy she will help them get through it.If she isn't she'll help her pack,good luck.
Finally the time comes

United States

#12 Oct 18, 2010
I can care less who your bitch mother is screw her tell ur dad if she went an cheated on your dad she cheated on you IFUCK IHER

Moore, TX

#13 Oct 18, 2010
Wow U R right. Thank you FTTC U snapped me right out of any loyalty I might have felt 4 her..I'll waking them up right now and tell.If my wife did it 2 me I'd want 2 know thanks again dude.

Moore, TX

#14 Oct 18, 2010
Dad stabbed mom.sis dial 911 moms going 2 E.R dads going 2 jail & kids go 2 grannies.& dang now the cops say they may pick up my pc 2morrow so I can't post anything more. do u'll think i'll get it back?I hope so.
Finally the time comes

United States

#15 Oct 19, 2010
Hope you get your computer back how you gonna check face book...
Anyway your will plead crime of passion insanity he'll be out in a few months no sweat
jw i no how hard it is

Little Rock, AR

#16 Nov 13, 2010
do you know for sure that your mom cheating?and does the guy live in same town?do you know the guy? does your dad know the guy?
jw i no how hard it is

Little Rock, AR

#17 Nov 13, 2010
I just wondern on how bad your situation is, am goin threw same crap. its hard and my parents arnt officaly sepearated bt my dad no longer lives with us. dad one cheating. it really hurts,&i see my bro's &sis's are hurtn just as much as me.

Stay Strong.

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