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my grandson has a friend whos mom always pawns her son on us and other familie
s. this just pee's me off. she never wants him at home, he comes to my house acts like he is starving,and when he does go somewhere with out her she calls all of his friends, or she calls the police to him. he isnt a bad boy , he just needs love. she left him at our house for 3 days and never asked us if he may stay this time period, so i took him back and trust me 2 days later the kid was back at my house. she wont talk to me, she goes through my grandson, i think this is rude of her.am i in the wrong ?

goofeynewfie wrote:

my grandson has a friend whos mom always pawns her son on us and other familie
s. this just pee's me off. she never wants him at home, he comes to my house acts like he is starving,and when he does go somewhere with out her she calls all of his friends, or she calls the police to him. he isnt a bad boy , he just needs love. she left him at our house for 3 days and never asked us if he may stay this time period, so i took him back and trust me 2 days later the kid was back at my house. she wont talk to me, she goes through my grandson, i think this is rude of her.am i in the wrong ?

No you are not wrong. The next time she dumps him for days you should call DFCS. She is just taking advantage of you and then has the nerve to blame you. Parents like that make me sick!! I too have experienced that years ago only it was damn inlaws that were doing it.

She might not be in any condition to have him around at home. You maybe saving this kids life taking care of him. I say just shut up your whinning and do the godly thing and take care of this kid. If something happens to the kid your just going to bitch about her being a bad mom. Just take care of it yourself and save the system some money.
If you don't like to cook you can always come out to the Fruit Jar and enjoy the Bean Bar, it's all homemade.

Big Tex wrote:

She might not be in any condition to have him around at home. You maybe saving this kids life taking care of him. I say just shut up your whinning and do the godly thing and take care of this kid. If something happens to the kid your just going to bitch about her being a bad mom. Just take care of it yourself and save the system some money.
If you don't like to cook you can always come out to the Fruit Jar and enjoy the Bean Bar, it's all homemade.

Does the Godly thing include coming to the Fruit Jar? Nice commercal plug by the way. Save the system some money? How do you know if she can afford to raise someone else's child? Can she and the child eat for free? That would be the Godly thing for you to do! I got a crazy idea. How about the parent be a parent!

Big Tex wrote:

She might not be in any condition to have him around at home. You maybe saving this kids life taking care of him. I say just shut up your whinning and do the godly thing and take care of this kid. If something happens to the kid your just going to bitch about her being a bad mom. Just take care of it yourself and save the system some money.
If you don't like to cook you can always come out to the Fruit Jar and enjoy the Bean Bar, it's all homemade.

she might 'not be in any condition' to take care of her OWN son heck, she works at shaw plant 15 and her husband at shaw plant 11-12. she has another kid she takes everywhere she goes. she says she is leaving for days at a time , then she is sitting her butt at her house, like heck i say. pooey on her.i am not a babysitter for her.i feel as if she spred her legs , now she needs to raise him.

Isn't there another trailer in the trailer park he can go hang out at?

look i think their is a reason why she favors the other kid more , but its true even though you might see it as annoying the little kid need's you right now he prolly admires the way you are and the way you run things in your house that he tends to want to stay their. Ask the little kid if their is any problems in his house if yes then call dfcs and they will find him somewhere to stay.