Tired of being hurt

How can a man be the most faithfull husband he can be the whole time he is with his wife even after the wife tries hard to do the exact opposit the whole time.Would she feel as hurt as I felt every time I found out about another guy she has been seeing.What would she say are do if i would have done half of the thangs she has done.Do yall think she would forgive me.Do yall think she would trust me again and again and again and again and if i promised it would never happen again.Would it show her how much it hurts if i done it to her.Are would she even care.It would probly just give her a reason to do it again.Just tired of being hurt.What would some of you do?

Is all the femails like this?I should sleep with all of her friends and her sister and some people she knows so they can smile in her face and be nice but in the back of thier minds they are thinking I slept with you husband.Try to keep it a secret as long I could then when she finds out I will just say sorry and say I love you I will never do it again and turn around and do it again.But thier is a problem I still love her.Hard to believe isnt it.

When I read your topic i can tell you sound hurt! However it would be so much easier to just to get mad and get even & then some! Right!!!! But here's my advise if you truly love your wife then do just that love your wife and no other. Don't misunderstand me your wife was wrong and im sure she has regreats, noone is perfect, she made a mistake, but if she loves you and you truly love her, don't give up you fight for your marriage and who knows If you two can get past this, your marriage will be stronger and better than before!!:) Good luck oh by the way not every women cheats!! Just saying... Lol

I'm sure you are very hurt. I'm also sure that you love her. My question to you is...can you ever trust her again? The union between a husband & wife is so special. But what is it without trust? What kind of future can you have without trusting that special person? Sometimes we love the wrong people. No all women don't cheat. Just like all men don't cheat. Do not become like your wife. Hold on to your values.