Can a mother keep the kids from seeing their father?

there are two sides to the story usually. What about the man who doesn't think enough of his child to want to see them. I know a situation that he keeps trying to sign over all rights to the child so he don't have to pay child support. Blames the Mom. If it were my child I would do whatever I had to do to see my kid. Just because the parents can't get along don't need to not try to see them. Fuss and fight and then not see the little one because you want to prove a point. This is the lowest thing I ever heard of. It's a low person who makes a difference between kids and hurts a little child to get back at the parent. I know this can go both ways but I just want to say, parents stand up for your rights. You will answer for what you do to your children. And yes they will grow up some day and you may have to tell them in front of your friends and family why you treated them the way you did. Grow up people. Take responsibility. The little ones didn't ask to be born. Take care of them and love them while you can. There will be a day of reckoning.

Why is it that women always get the blame for everything. I say if u want to see ur kids then money shouldn't stop u. And it doesn't. Be real u can't keep hiding behind the "it is too expensive to go to court" excuse forever. Man up and admit that if u want to get it done it will happen.

Sweetheart wrote:

I can`t tell you how many girls try to control their baby`s daddy by control visitations. I`m sick of these girls who keep their kids away from their daddies then they hit the local bars or go out with girlfriends and then have to gall to get a babysitter. Frickin losers!!!!!

I aint keeping my son from anyone! Hell i have pictures of me and my sons father around the house that way he atleast knows what he looks like. My son's father choses not to see him, tries to blame it on me being an insane bitch. Unlike him i know how to be civil for my son. My son hasnt seen his dad in almost a year. His daddy has never claimed him even after the DNA test came back 1 in 8 billion. Dont be blaming it all on the moms!!! Some of these men are just dead beats trying to blame everyone else so they dont look bad. What kills me the most is my son's father makes sure he sees his older daughter he has with his ex wife atleast once a week, YOU HAVE A SON THAT NEEDS YOU TOO ASSHOLE!!

it's been a long time but I was told by the judge that anytime one parents takess another to court because the divorce agreement was not be followed. the parent taking the ex to court can make them (in your case HER) pay your lawyer's fee.
check it out, wont hurt to ask
And I agree...keep a record with dates AND TIMES . the courts love this...and ask the judge to send her back for more parenthood classes
she's an idiot

I beleive it depends. when the father treatin to take off with the kid two or three time and cant pay his child support or even bother to help out in 5 years i believe that she better off without him he always in and out of jail and the judge droped ares cause he never showed up for court cause he had a warrent

Fathers do the same thing when they have custody so dont blame it all on the mothers. When me and my ex husband splitup we did our own agreement. Then when he had her he p and took off across the state and hired a lawyer. I was taking care ofa family member... had no job because of it. Raising my son. Had no vehicle since I lived in the city and for one couldnt afford it and for two I was in the city and didnt need it. Court date came up and I had no way to get counties away to it and didnt know anyone who could take me. And he won. He used every excuse in the book as to why I couldnt see m daughter. And when he said I could and I didnt have the gas money to give someone I would ask if h coud meet me half way or bring her to me and he said no that it was too far for him to drive when he later admitted to being down every weekend to see if Iwas sleeping around or put partying. TALK ABOUT A PEICE OF SHIT FATHER. and he did all thi because his family was telling him to do it. So men are the same way when they have custody. And like someone aid, I will tell my daughter when she is old enough to know what he father did. Cause im sure he will tell her that I DIDNT want to see her and a bunch of other crap. And for the one wo said that using the excuse that it costs to much to go to court about it, well your damn right it is expensive and when trying to raise another kid and pay your bills I dont have 1,500 dollars to pay a lawyer up front to keep going back to cout cause he dont want me to see my daughter. I wish I had thatkind of money just laying around but I dont. Even though we have court ordered papers on visitation I still have to go weeks without seeing her... and there is nothing I can do about it. The courts are F'd up. He dont realize it but he isnt just hurtin me like he wants he is hurting our daughter in the long run and also my son who is 3 and doesnt understand why he cant see his little sister.

Every situation is different with different circumstances someone is always to blame but if you want to help yourself with the situation to come out ahead keep a record of everything! That's one of the first things they teach you in nursing school is cover your butt and keep detailed notes of everything. My husband and me got to where every conversation with his ex had to be recorded and any face to face time had to be videoed. He has custody if his kids but as much trouble as she keeps wanting to start because she won't get out and get a job and is wanting the kids for child support were making sure that if she ever gets money to take him to court that he can prove that he's done nothing wrong to her and nothing to prevent her from seeing the kids.

i so agree... every situation is different. I started keeping record of everything...heck with all the text messages that got sent I saved them all and I hd to go buy a new phone just to be able to sen messages and ge them cause my inbox got too full. Yeah he used the job thing about me.... I had a job but quit it cause I was only getting up to ten hours a week and it wasnt even paying for my gas... by the time i got an interview for another job I was showing to much and im sure thats why I didnt get it... (im pregnant) they didnt say that was why but im smarter than that. So yeah i have to wait now to get one but I garuntee that as soon as I have the baby I will have a job... But i try my hardest to see my daughter on my weekends and he makes up every excuse as to why I cant get here. Its going on a month now that I havent seen here and I have called everyone I can think of and I keep getting the same answer... take it back to court. But in order for that to happen I have to pay my lawyer 1500 up front and even with my fiance working we are lucky to have $100 left over after we pay bills andthen that gets spent on his gas and things for the house. So even with a court order there is nothing that I can do about it. Its bull crap... if i was to have her and be an hour ate gettin her back he can get me for Kidnappng(he has tried it before). Its not fair for the parent that is tring... laws need to be changed to make it fair for both parents but that is some wishful thinking.

[QUOTE who="i win!"]My ex played that game far a while. She played it a little to much as I now have custody of my daughter. Just keep very detailed records of every time you attempt to see your kids. Them take her ass to see the judge and she can explain to him why she is being stupid.[/QUOTE]My husband's ex-wife always blew the child support money in bars and left the kids home alone. She tried to keep him away from them. HaHa...they went to court and she was proven to be unfit and the judge ordered him sole custody! And the visitations with the mother is entirely up to the father! And now she's paying him child support! LOL...and it's killing her. She can't stand it! I'm so loving it! I'm glad you won and I'm glad my husband won!

sad wrote:

i know a dad that hasn't seen his kid for over a year now. and he has to have a bunch of money for a lawyer just to get her for contmpt. there is something worng in the system. that is very sad!!

My son hasnt seen his son in 3 years i dont know how she got the courts to see her side but its an evil thing my son is a great dad and she ripped him from my sons life without any feeling