Feel bad for barb (hair Quarters) getting her money stolen :(

That money was going to be used to bring home her daughter. So sad!

People do stupid things when they feel overwhelmed by economics, no excuses for stealing, but many do it. People always look to poor uneducated down on their luck to blame, but often that is not the case. Suggestion....go thru the list of those close to her and who knew her intentions. Many times it is those people at the top of the stealing chain.

what happened to the other post on this? Was it taken off because Barb had the nerve to tell everyone about the person who took the money? If this person was the one ,why was she not jailed?
Barb, keep pushing for her to be locked up. She is sure setting a good example for all her kids. If she made all the daddies pay support maybe she would not have to resort to stealing.

i am sorry barb's money got stolen, BUT move on , she not going to get it back! everyone is tired of hearing about it, she not the only person on this earth having a hard time.she lets that trash hang out up to her shop and bit**es when someting is missing....i know alot of working people who have gotten the shaft, but they move on . if she could do something about it it would be done. apparently she cant.... so move on!

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i am sorry barb's money got stolen, BUT move on , she not going to get it back! everyone is tired of hearing about it, she not the only person on this earth having a hard time.she lets that trash hang out up to her shop and bit**es when someting is missing....i know alot of working people who have gotten the shaft, but they move on . if she could do something about it it would be done. apparently she cant.... so move on!

If it had happen to you, you or myself we wouldn't move on so why should Barb? That money was very important to her money being save to beable to do much needed work on her house so her daughter could come home.Thats just it she is doing something about it,she is lettin people know to watch out and be aware of so called friends.

hello in reply to your post, you are right i am not going to get my money back as cookie said what if it happened to you , i work 70 hrs a week (2jobs just so i can money not only for my needs but also so for a few wants i have. i would have to work 2 months just to make the money back at my second job. now that hurts. as far as letting trash hang out in my shop i feel iam no better then anyone else until they do me wrong i befriended someone that just about everyone i know would not give a chance and i didand she hurt me by stealing from me. until you have been stolen from you will not know the hurt i feel because more then money was taken from me, i can get over the money and let that move on , but more then money was taken from me

i was trying to to save money to work on my house because iam afraid i have mold and my daughter can not even come for a visit, until i have taken care of that problem, because if i do it can make her very sick or even kill her, thats what hurts the most. yes i can get over the money but its hard to move on and get over the hurt so hello please dont say mean things to me and hurt me more ive got enough hurt

First rule, don't keep an open conversation of what you are doing, saving or plans. Trust is the big issue. Don't know the person's involved in this situation, but in the social misfit as it is, people have to protect their assets. It is easy to buy a lock box, bank security box and above all keep quiet of what you have and don't have, being too friendly and careless handling is why things like this happen.

well this person didnt know i was saving money she went in my purse and then in my billfold under my desk she had no ideal of any plans she was looking for money if i only had a 20 in there she would of took it, i just happened to have more no 2 i never discussed what i had or didnt have, as far as a lock box bad ideal it can be stolen too just as easy or easier then how many people you know keep their money in a bank security box now come on......... too friendly hey i have always been good to people its my nature cant change that dont even want to

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well this person didnt know i was saving money she went in my purse and then in my billfold under my desk she had no ideal of any plans she was looking for money if i only had a 20 in there she would of took it, i just happened to have more no 2 i never discussed what i had or didnt have, as far as a lock box bad ideal it can be stolen too just as easy or easier then how many people you know keep their money in a bank security box now come on......... too friendly hey i have always been good to people its my nature cant change that dont even want to

Did YOU actually see anyone in your belongings? DID you catch the person? There is still the burden on you for this happening. Making an excuse to not have safety as a key place for your belongings is agian just another reason the blame is fault of actions to this situation occuring.

The public will only feel sorry for you a few minutes, after that it means nothing to others, it is on you and how you handle your affairs. The only thing that has come of this is rambling gossip.

i dont want anyone feeling sorry for me, i want the person who did this to pay for her actions and this is not going to happen, i will not take any responsibility in this sitiuation she invaded my personel belongings took my money and that is that, you have not saw me write anything on here i have to be ashamed of, i have not belittled the person in anyway only stated the facts.

eventually you or someone you care about will be the victim of being stolen from, it happens almost as a daily crime here in bracken co, you can not always protect yourself or your loved ones. i have been stolen from and the last thing a person who is the victim needs is some one to come on here and act as its the victims fault. most of the time things are not stolen because a family needs money to buy food, pay rent etc its because they need their next fix,

You people that is tryin to turn the blame on Barb need to grow up. Barb is a good person and would do anything possible to help anyone out even you. I am for one that is glad she posted it on here about someone stealing from her. It needed to be out so people would know. But i recall Barb never mention any name or names of who done it. Other people are the one that though a name out

Barb, honey I feel so bad for you!! I will not post my name on this forum, but you know who I am, and were close friends with my Mom. It is a terrible thing that happened TO you, and it is equally sad that people are actually blaming you for someone else's idiocy!! You should be able to not worry about your belongings being stolen is a business that YOU OWN! Come on people! Your wallet was under your desk, where are you supposed to leave it? "In a lock box" apparantly, what a ridiculous statement! That woman needs to pay for what she has done to you, you are a kind and considerate person who has done nothing wrong here, don't let people make you feel guilty for someone else's actions! I am rooting for you Barb!

well i've been judged mean, clueless, and disagreeable.sounds like soome others agree with me. Barb, we all are sorry for your money loss and hope Sarah is doing well.

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Did YOU actually see anyone in your belongings? DID you catch the person? There is still the burden on you for this happening. Making an excuse to not have safety as a key place for your belongings is agian just another reason the blame is fault of actions to this situation occuring.
The public will only feel sorry for you a few minutes, after that it means nothing to others, it is on you and how you handle your affairs. The only thing that has come of this is rambling gossip.

Ah, but, the gossip is the truth. For once, in this shit hole of a town, it's true..

I like her big boobs

i do feel bad for barb, and yes i have had thing stolen from me and yes i know how she feels!but there has been like 3 differant threads on here she is not going to give it back no matter how many time its on here .and do u all really think she gives a damn about barbs daughter...... come on now she could care less about her own kids...people like her think of their own need and to hell with everyone else..

No one has the right to steal from you,me,Tom or Sue. No matter if its layin out in the open a theift is a theift.No one should have to put everything they own under lock and key, plus it does not matter if you lock it up if they want it bad enough they will find away of stealin it from you. So Barb your not to blame here.

r u really serious? barb do what u have to to put whoever did this to u. they deserve it. if they dont get n trouble then u know y and thats messed up. i wish u the best babe.