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Sanford Yeomans' family and friends said he was a God-fearing man who tries to help people. Full Story
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not a judger anymore

Sloatsburg, NY

#26 Mar 31, 2009
God Fearing BS wrote:
You only know the "girl" from what he and his wife have told you... You are believing the same guy who lied to you in the first place.. and his wife who he lied to.....Before they got married HE called her "Simple" and said she was "Pliable".. His words--Not mine. Good for you for standing by her. She needs good friends..But don't kid yourself about him..You got taken ...For years. I stand by my original posting. F
Me? Taken? Hmm...not likely. And about the "girl"...any girl who advertises at age 14 or whatever on the internet that she "needs money" is not such a wholesome one, is she? That's certainly not how I raise my own.
And I stand by MY post:
IF YOU CAN'T SAY SOMETHING NICE, SAY NOTHING.
not a judger anymore

Sloatsburg, NY

#28 Mar 31, 2009
God Fearing-BS wrote:
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25 year age difference!...You are ignoring the facts.. If you saw a young girl doing the same thing, how would you respond...
Would you encourage her to get help from a local agency..
Or get in a car and drive hours to abuse her further..
It is a societal obligation to mentor children in a positive way. People who stick their heads in the sand and say it doesn't affect them are stupid..Kids do not need judgement they need guidance and support.. You say you are not a "Judger" you twit! that is EXACTLY what you are doing to this girl.. judging.
People who only say "nice things" are fools... find the strength to stand up for what is right and those who cannot stand for themselves... Whether they are children, minorities or animals etc... Abuse is still abuse...
Blaming a 14 year old for corrupting a grown man is just plain stupid.. You have less respect for him than I do, if you think his morality can be so blatently corrupted by a mere child in an internet chatroom. Grow up!
You were "Taken" and I can see why with your kindergarten thought process. F
I don't believe he DID abuse her, you poor, pathetic, overgrown child...
Be careful who you blast. Watch your mouth.
And it isn't a societal "obligation"...it is a parent's responsibility...wonderful if others want to help, but certainly not an obligation.
You are just obviously a mean, hateful, person...I refuse to listen to your ramblings any further. I know I am stronger, wiser, better than you are. Go live with your ignorance and your hate.
unknown

Southington, CT

#30 Jun 28, 2012
Under age...sure she was, yet mature and old enough to know what she was doing. If that was my daughter she'd would suffer some consequences for putting herself out there like she did. It doesn't make it okay for him to do what he did but it certainly doesn't make it okay for her either. Victim my @ss, she knew what she was doing. Twice - mind you. Hmmmm...I wonder if she's still putting herself out there like she was back then - shame on her if she is.
A_REAL_friend

Philadelphia, PA

#31 Jun 28, 2012
I know it has been over three years since you posted here, "God Fearing BS", but I truly hope you one day get to read this.

You are a self-rightous jerk, who was never a true friend to him. If you were, you wouldn't be on here telling us all how you really felt about him, and you wouldn't have "admonished" him, knowing nothing about what really happened except what you read in the newspapers, couldn't even be bothered to ask him his side, when he needed your support the most. That is NOT a true friend. You are sorely mistaken in your beliefs, and if you want to know why he really stopped talking to you, look at yourself first.

To "not a judger", I know he appreciates your being a good friend to his wife, and she is lucky to have your support.

To the others, I can say with confidence, knowing this person now in prison, you know NOTHING about the real circumstances of what happened. If you think newspaper reports are 100% truthful and accurate, I feel sorry for your naivete.

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