disappointed mother

um no wrote:

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And you don't get anything from your wife for fathers day and vice versa?? I always take anything he gives me and say thank you … but that doesn't mean i have to like it or that i even tell him i dont like it. That's just stupid, but i can't understand why any occasion when he's doing something he ALWAYS does something different than what he knows i like! That makes no sense to me.
For father's day the kids and i usually let him sleep in, fix him breakfast in bed and I then usually take him out to a baseball game to see the reds if they are playing sometime during the week. AND besides that, last year he got a 60 inch tv that goes on the internet! For christmas he got a car and this year he's getting an ipad and a new watch … so please tell me how giving your wife half dead flowers show any appreciation???? Yes he makes more money than me and can afford to buy me something better. I work hard for my money and pay most of the bills in the house too. I always do without getting something for myself and buy for my kids and him. I don't ever let on that that I don't like anything that he does, but i'm just getting tired of it. I work my butt of cleaning the house, cooking 3 or more meals a day, watching the kids when he wants to do anything, working 50 to 60 hours a week and getting very little sleep because he likes even his freaking underwear ironed among every other item of clothing he owns. He showers and changes clothes 2 to 3 times a day. We grow a small garden because he refuses to eat vegetables form the grocery store.
I'm sure anyone in my position would be thinking the same thing. I'm not ungrateful, or whatever else i've been called because of a stupid post. But man, this gets to me. For the life of me I can't understand what I've done to make him ALWAYS do the opposite of what I like. Do you know what I got for christmas? I got a new zombie shooting game for xbox (i dont even know how to hook the xbox up) and some fake jewelry from jcpenneys, and a new breadmaker (who likes fresh baked bread every day??? my husband that's who… but guess who makes it for him? Me.. so that's a present for me i guess????)
He can take pictures of the groceries we need from walmart and bring me nothing on the list and buy extra of stuff we already have in the fridge! I asked him to get me some tums when I was 8 months pregnant, I had been up fighting heartburn for about 5 hours and he was up anyway playing his playstation and he came back with tampons….. really??? does that make any sense? So I got up at 3 am and got my own tums because he's so inconsiderate.

i hate my kids wrote:

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I wish I had never had my kids. They've been nothing but misery from an early age. They are disrespectful and take advantage at every opportunity. The humiliation is endless. They embarrass me at every opportunity. Both of them flunked out of school and now they won't even work. I wish I could wash my hands of them and cut all ties. I'm thinking of quietly taking care of all business affairs and moving to another state. Pay all bills up to a specified date, and then one day there's just no running water, and the lights don't come on. I guess one or both of them would have to work then. I get goosebumps just thinking about it. Almost wish I could somehow see their reactions - watch the reality sink in. No more cigarettes, no more gas money, no more car insurance, no more running around money. Well, it's not like they're teens. Both are in their twenties - grown men, but you'd never know from their behavior. Yes, that's what I'm going to do. My plan is set in motion today. I won't look back.

i hate my kids wrote:

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I wish I had never had my kids. They've been nothing but misery from an early age. They are disrespectful and take advantage at every opportunity. The humiliation is endless. They embarrass me at every opportunity. Both of them flunked out of school and now they won't even work. I wish I could wash my hands of them and cut all ties. I'm thinking of quietly taking care of all business affairs and moving to another state. Pay all bills up to a specified date, and then one day there's just no running water, and the lights don't come on. I guess one or both of them would have to work then. I get goosebumps just thinking about it. Almost wish I could somehow see their reactions - watch the reality sink in. No more cigarettes, no more gas money, no more car insurance, no more running around money. Well, it's not like they're teens. Both are in their twenties - grown men, but you'd never know from their behavior. Yes, that's what I'm going to do. My plan is set in motion today. I won't look back.

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Why don't you lick it for her. It was your idea.

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Miss Emily Letilla wrote:

This thread is not nearly as interesting w/o Music Man's imput. Just sayin'

sincerely wrote:

This thread is absolutely stupid and does not even deserve a response but I will make an exception this one time for the OP.
To the OP........you do not deserve your children at all. You are the reason your sons have become so appalling to you. You are not and never have been a good mother. You don't begin teaching your children what life is about when they are in their twenties.
You start when they are first put in your arms!
It is evident that you do not know how to be a good mother otherwise your children would have turned out a little better.
I believe the ONLY problem your children have is YOU!! So the best thing for you to do is go ahead and run off to that beautiful place that you wish to plant your sorry ass and stay! No need to get on here and tell us.....just go.....like now.......right now!!!!!!!!!!
Being a good mother is about teaching your children the right things from day one! Love them, care for them and nurture them till they cant stand it and then do it some more!
When they do wrong, correct them and support them and make them take responsibility for their actions. Most important thing about being a mother is to love them unconditionally.
(You have none of these qualities and you should have given these children to someone who could have been there for them. They deserved better than you and I feel sorry for your children not you!!!)
So get your suitcase ready and go..........you pathetic excuse for a mother!

i hate my kids wrote:

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I wish I had never had my kids. They've been nothing but misery from an early age. They are disrespectful and take advantage at every opportunity. The humiliation is endless. They embarrass me at every opportunity. Both of them flunked out of school and now they won't even work. I wish I could wash my hands of them and cut all ties. I'm thinking of quietly taking care of all business affairs and moving to another state. Pay all bills up to a specified date, and then one day there's just no running water, and the lights don't come on. I guess one or both of them would have to work then. I get goosebumps just thinking about it. Almost wish I could somehow see their reactions - watch the reality sink in. No more cigarettes, no more gas money, no more car insurance, no more running around money. Well, it's not like they're teens. Both are in their twenties - grown men, but you'd never know from their behavior. Yes, that's what I'm going to do. My plan is set in motion today. I won't look back.

i hate my kids wrote:

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I wish I had never had my kids. They've been nothing but misery from an early age. They are disrespectful and take advantage at every opportunity. The humiliation is endless. They embarrass me at every opportunity. Both of them flunked out of school and now they won't even work. I wish I could wash my hands of them and cut all ties. I'm thinking of quietly taking care of all business affairs and moving to another state. Pay all bills up to a specified date, and then one day there's just no running water, and the lights don't come on. I guess one or both of them would have to work then. I get goosebumps just thinking about it. Almost wish I could somehow see their reactions - watch the reality sink in. No more cigarettes, no more gas money, no more car insurance, no more running around money. Well, it's not like they're teens. Both are in their twenties - grown men, but you'd never know from their behavior. Yes, that's what I'm going to do. My plan is set in motion today. I won't look back.