Please

Atlanta, GA

#377 Jan 21, 2013
Insight wrote:
I truly don't think we will ever know what really happened that night at the Courson's house. My gut tells me Jonathan will do something while he is in jail, kill him self so he can escape free and clear. I never knew these two people but just reading all these post I say he was not a man and will never stand trail. Kind of wondering how he has been in jail? Is he isolated from all the others? Have the blacks not beat the fool out of him? Does he get special accommodations and is his good buddy Kevin visiting him?
Courson do something to himself, are you kidding? He loves himself way to much for that. I'm pretty sure that will never happen
Here it is

Alma, GA

#378 Jan 21, 2013
What I think wrote:
Life insurance policies normally donít pay until after 30 days, so he wouldnít have been able to take one out the week before. We will never know why he did what he did unless he decides to tell his story and even then he only knows the truth. Also, people need to stop pointing fingers at his boss and his bossesí wife. They may or may not have known what was going on, a lot of people knew about him and other women. I bet most of you on this site have known about an affair or other wrong doing at one time or another and you kept your mouth shut. Thatís what we do we turn a blind eye and hope it will go away. Who knows maybe someone told Mandy and she confronted him and he killed her. If who ever told her would have kept their mouth shut this may have never happened. Just speculation I donít know and none of you do either. I donít care if he had been rode more than Seattle Slew, or was on drugs or owed money for gambling debts, or any other indiscretion he may have none of it is reason enough to kill. People have affairs everyday, no its not right but it happens. Everyone on here running their mouths and starting rumors will be the justification for a change of venue or filing an appeal for not getting a fair trial. If and when this goes to trial everything will come out then. All of those indirectly involved will be called to testify I am sure. Take your vacation then go to court take notes so you donít get the facts wrong and then talk about it.
"If who ever told her would have kept their mouth shut this may have never happened."

This is a very disturbing comment to me. Maybe I have misunderstood it? So now blame is shifted to the person who may have possibly told her?? God forbid. Seriously? If my spouse was cheating on me I would hope and pray someone would tell me and I wouldn't look the fool.

It was a choice, a decision to kill her possibly because she found out, if that is what provoked him, and that will never be justified. If he is that unstable, unhinged and had that severe of uncontrolled anger that he would take the life of his wife and baby's mother into his own hands, my guess is this wasn't the first time she was abused by him. Who knows what she has been going through all this time behind closed doors.

But to say it would have been better for her to not know the truth to possibly spare her life? That is cowardly. He chose to take her life in his own hands. Knowing the truth was her right. If he had this capability in him it was probably only a matter of time. He is the person to be blamed in all aspects of this. Not the mistress, not the person who told her. The one who took her life is at fault.

We can't go around turning a blind eye because we are afraid someone will come unglued and kill someone. If he was an abuser then at some point he may have began abusing his daughter as well.
If he really did drug her, at that age,.... well there you go. The best thing that has come out of this looks to be that this babygirl wil not have to grow up in that environment and see that happen to her mama and possibly her. That she will be far away from him.

He deserves to be punished to the fullest extent for taking his baby's mama away from her.
Grace

Enfield, IL

#379 Jan 21, 2013
I don't understand why he would not have been able to take an insurance policy out the week before. The insurance company would not have stopped him, they didn't know what he had planned. He must not have read the fine writing in the insurance agreement. What you said doesn't make sense.
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What I think wrote:
Life insurance policies normally donít pay until after 30 days, so he wouldnít have been able to take one out the week before. We will never know why he did what he did unless he decides to tell his story and even then he only knows the truth. Also, people need to stop pointing fingers at his boss and his bossesí wife. They may or may not have known what was going on, a lot of people knew about him and other women. I bet most of you on this site have known about an affair or other wrong doing at one time or another and you kept your mouth shut. Thatís what we do we turn a blind eye and hope it will go away. Who knows maybe someone told Mandy and she confronted him and he killed her. If who ever told her would have kept their mouth shut this may have never happened. Just speculation I donít know and none of you do either. I donít care if he had been rode more than Seattle Slew, or was on drugs or owed money for gambling debts, or any other indiscretion he may have none of it is reason enough to kill. People have affairs everyday, no its not right but it happens. Everyone on here running their mouths and starting rumors will be the justification for a change of venue or filing an appeal for not getting a fair trial. If and when this goes to trial everything will come out then. All of those indirectly involved will be called to testify I am sure. Take your vacation then go to court take notes so you donít get the facts wrong and then talk about it.
Grace

Enfield, IL

#380 Jan 21, 2013
I am sure the fact that he tried to cash in on the new insurance policy the Monday after her death was a red flag in the investigation. Just saying...
What I think

Fort Stewart, GA

#381 Jan 21, 2013
Here it is wrote:
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"If who ever told her would have kept their mouth shut this may have never happened."
This is a very disturbing comment to me. Maybe I have misunderstood it? So now blame is shifted to the person who may have possibly told her?? God forbid. Seriously? If my spouse was cheating on me I would hope and pray someone would tell me and I wouldn't look the fool.
It was a choice, a decision to kill her possibly because she found out, if that is what provoked him, and that will never be justified. If he is that unstable, unhinged and had that severe of uncontrolled anger that he would take the life of his wife and baby's mother into his own hands, my guess is this wasn't the first time she was abused by him. Who knows what she has been going through all this time behind closed doors.
But to say it would have been better for her to not know the truth to possibly spare her life? That is cowardly. He chose to take her life in his own hands. Knowing the truth was her right. If he had this capability in him it was probably only a matter of time. He is the person to be blamed in all aspects of this. Not the mistress, not the person who told her. The one who took her life is at fault.
We can't go around turning a blind eye because we are afraid someone will come unglued and kill someone. If he was an abuser then at some point he may have began abusing his daughter as well.
If he really did drug her, at that age,.... well there you go. The best thing that has come out of this looks to be that this babygirl wil not have to grow up in that environment and see that happen to her mama and possibly her. That she will be far away from him.
He deserves to be punished to the fullest extent for taking his baby's mama away from her.
I am not blaming who ever did or didnít tell her, I like everyone else was speculating that IF that is what happened then if she had not been told the confrontation may not have happened. I think he is a sorry POS. My opinion is that if Many had been a family member of mine and hiding the truth from her kept her alive um no question what I would have doneÖÖÖÖ..He worked for one of the kindest people I know if it was for the money if he would have asked I would think his boss would have helped him.
are you serious

Jesup, GA

#382 Jan 21, 2013
What I think wrote:
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I am not blaming who ever did or didnít tell her, I like everyone else was speculating that IF that is what happened then if she had not been told the confrontation may not have happened. I think he is a sorry POS. My opinion is that if Many had been a family member of mine and hiding the truth from her kept her alive um no question what I would have doneÖÖÖÖ..He worked for one of the kindest people I know if it was for the money if he would have asked I would think his boss would have helped him.
NOOOO...
if you think someone is going to kill your loved one if they find out of an affair. You tell them so they can get the hell away from the fool.
You need help.
Ole Ga Pine

Saint Simons Island, GA

#383 Jan 21, 2013
I think it's sad the way you people come on this website and under a false name make the kind of accusations toward Keven and Pam that yall are making, they had nothing to do with any of this, they found out about the relationship after it had been goin on for some time and both were very upset, most of you people on here don't even know them, if you did you would know they are good people, they would give the shirt off their back to help a person in need.
real name

Jesup, GA

#384 Jan 21, 2013
Ole Ga Pine wrote:
I think it's sad the way you people come on this website and under a false name make the kind of accusations toward Keven and Pam that yall are making, they had nothing to do with any of this, they found out about the relationship after it had been goin on for some time and both were very upset, most of you people on here don't know them, if you did you would know they are good people, they would give the shirt off their back to help a person in need.
Is your real name Ole Ga Pine? Just wondering, I've never heard anyone named that.
Anyway, they might be "nice" people. I may or may not know them. However, "nice" doesn't mean they didn't know about it or go along with it in some ways.
If you know that your sister is doing things that are aggravating or disrespectful to a marriage, you don't sit by an act like it's fine.
Cant do it

Alma, GA

#385 Jan 21, 2013
Grace wrote:
I don't understand why he would not have been able to take an insurance policy out the week before. The insurance company would not have stopped him, they didn't know what he had planned. He must not have read the fine writing in the insurance agreement. What you said doesn't make sense.
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Because normal life insurance policies are not valid until 30 days after they are taken out. There is a 30 day waiting period before it goes into effect.
Cant do it

Alma, GA

#386 Jan 21, 2013
So, in other words, he could have taken one out but it wouldn't have done any good. He wouldn't have been able to claim it. You are told all this when you take a policy out.
premeditated

Jesup, GA

#387 Jan 21, 2013
Cant do it wrote:
So, in other words, he could have taken one out but it wouldn't have done any good. He wouldn't have been able to claim it. You are told all this when you take a policy out.
Can't do it, are you saying he knew this and so it was probably more than 30 days and it was most likely not a heat of the moment thing, but was in fact planned?
Ole Ga Pine

Saint Simons Island, GA

#388 Jan 21, 2013
real name wrote:
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Is your real name Ole Ga Pine? Just wondering, I've never heard anyone named that.
Anyway, they might be "nice" people. I may or may not know them. However, "nice" doesn't mean they didn't know about it or go along with it in some ways.
If you know that your sister is doing things that are aggravating or disrespectful to a marriage, you don't sit by an act like it's fine.
No it's not, but Im not here posting stuff about someone that I know nothing about, I didn't say nice, pretty sure I said Good people, there is a difference. You expect me to believe that you have full control over your siblings, you speak and they jump, yeah right, I have siblings, I might tell them how I feel about something they have going on in their life, but thats all I can do, I can't make them listen to me and if you can, trust me you are one of the few. What do you think they should have done or what would you have done to stop 2 adults from doing what they wanted to do? I gotta hear this.
real name

Jesup, GA

#389 Jan 21, 2013
Ole Ga Pine wrote:
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No it's not, but Im not here posting stuff about someone that I know nothing about, I didn't say nice, pretty sure I said Good people, there is a difference. You expect me to believe that you have full control over your siblings, you speak and they jump, yeah right, I have siblings, I might tell them how I feel about something they have going on in their life, but thats all I can do, I can't make them listen to me and if you can, trust me you are one of the few. What do you think they should have done or what would you have done to stop 2 adults from doing what they wanted to do? I gotta hear this.


I'm not on here posting things about them either. What makes you think I don't know them?
I am READING, just like you! I was just commenting that IF they did in any way act like it was ok, that's wrong.
I am VERY well aware that a person can't control another's actions. I do not have any answers for you on that...wish I did. I do , however, have control over MY actions. So...since you asked, I would NOT allow them to meet at my home. I would NOT allow them to meet up/flirt at my place of business. In my presence, they would NOT have put their affair in Mandy's face in any way. I would've made it crystal clear that if they wanted to continue their affair, I wanted no part of it at all.
THAT is what I would do if it had been me.
ole ga pine

Saint Simons Island, GA

#390 Jan 21, 2013
real name wrote:
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I'm not on here posting things about them either. What makes you think I don't know them?
I am READING, just like you! I was just commenting that IF they did in any way act like it was ok, that's wrong.
I am VERY well aware that a person can't control another's actions. I do not have any answers for you on that...wish I did. I do , however, have control over MY actions. So...since you asked, I would NOT allow them to meet at my home. I would NOT allow them to meet up/flirt at my place of business. In my presence, they would NOT have put their affair in Mandy's face in any way. I would've made it crystal clear that if they wanted to continue their affair, I wanted no part of it at all.
THAT is what I would do if it had been me.
Some of what your saying may or may not have legs to it, however I don't believe for one second that they allowed them to meet at their home, I would just about put my life on it, bottom line is this, Keven and Pam were put in a very bad situation, I guess he could have told her to never come back to his place of business, but keep in mind she was his sister in law and her son worked there so that probably wasnt gonna happen, they might have have rubbed it in Mandys face, and I have heard it was, but that shouldn't be blamed on Keven and Pam, they might not have said it in those exact words, but Im pretty sure thay let them both know they wanted no part of it.
frisk

Jesup, GA

#391 Jan 21, 2013
didn't mr kevin say he would be the first one up to post bail for johnathan?? sounds fishy to me.
ole ga pine

Saint Simons Island, GA

#392 Jan 21, 2013
frisk wrote:
didn't mr kevin say he would be the first one up to post bail for johnathan?? sounds fishy to me.
That's definately a rumor
KTB

Jesup, GA

#393 Jan 21, 2013
ole ga pine wrote:
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That's definately a rumor
Yeah...I have to agree with you, I can't see that at all...
real name

Jesup, GA

#394 Jan 21, 2013
ole ga pine wrote:
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Some of what your saying may or may not have legs to it, however I don't believe for one second that they allowed them to meet at their home, I would just about put my life on it, bottom line is this, Keven and Pam were put in a very bad situation, I guess he could have told her to never come back to his place of business, but keep in mind she was his sister in law and her son worked there so that probably wasnt gonna happen, they might have have rubbed it in Mandys face, and I have heard it was, but that shouldn't be blamed on Keven and Pam, they might not have said it in those exact words, but Im pretty sure thay let them both know they wanted no part of it.
Ok...I hope you are right. And yes, I know her son works there and it was/is a complex situation. However, Keven should've said...Listen, you just can't do this...can't hang out here...or PAM should've said it to her. I heard there was more "in her face" behavior too and that Pam and Keven were right there, a party to it all...no matter if they are "good" or not, that's wrong.
They can't go back now, but I guess part of the consequence of them condoning SIN will be that they are talked about too.
Oh well...
real name

Jesup, GA

#395 Jan 21, 2013
ole ga pine wrote:
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Some of what your saying may or may not have legs to it, however I don't believe for one second that they allowed them to meet at their home, I would just about put my life on it, bottom line is this, Keven and Pam were put in a very bad situation, I guess he could have told her to never come back to his place of business, but keep in mind she was his sister in law and her son worked there so that probably wasnt gonna happen, they might have have rubbed it in Mandys face, and I have heard it was, but that shouldn't be blamed on Keven and Pam, they might not have said it in those exact words, but Im pretty sure thay let them both know they wanted no part of it.
AND...I will say this too...because I truly think Keven and Pam have been blessed and favored by God for whatever reason.and that is between the Lord and them...
To them who have been given much, much is required.
They need to remember that and act accordingly and not go along with adultery.
ole ga pine

Saint Simons Island, GA

#396 Jan 21, 2013
real name wrote:
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AND...I will say this too...because I truly think Keven and Pam have been blessed and favored by God for whatever reason.and that is between the Lord and them...
To them who have been given much, much is required.
They need to remember that and act accordingly and not go along with adultery.
I will never believe they condoned it, I think tolerated it is a better fit, I could never see them all hanging out together. What gets me about this whole thing is, there were supposedly several other women, but we are only hearing stuff on the one, dont get me wrong I am not taking up for her, she did this to herself, but why so quiet on the others.

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