Problems wrote:
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That is entirely the wrong way to look at it. If that is what you keep looming over you, somebody in mind? It is absolutely impossible to give the other person 100%. That is what it takes to truly love and have fulfillment inside. Never!.. leave to see how it would be on the other side. It takes being alone to be happy with yourself. In no way depending on a person to do that. Then you can offer your heart. Stop and think, do you really think it would be wise to choose another from lust or temptation with no respect for your current relationship? One thing will change, you will be next to loose. Think on it.
Good comment! If they already are looking outside the relationship it has gone to far. Also it lead to the wrong decisions because they're judgement is clouded.