useless Men who fathers kids

Everyone gets on the mother bc she has kids and is needing state help. What about the Fathers who help create the child than dont support them. If more fathers were around than there would be less people needing state help.

If there were less women spreading their legs to any jackanape who came along, there would be less people needing state help. It is way too easy to place blame after the act of intercourse, but you will never convince me that you thought the guy was going to be "a good dad" before you spread your legs, and then he "all of a sudden" became a deadbeat afterwards.

useless wrote:

Everyone gets on the mother bc she has kids and is needing state help. What about the Fathers who help create the child than dont support them. If more fathers were around than there would be less people needing state help.

don't come any truer than that!

hard truth and me i'm sure yall prolly got kids and get help from the state to.... like yall got room to talk.... im sure i know who this is

Hard Truth wrote:

If there were less women spreading their legs to any jackanape who came along, there would be less people needing state help. It is way too easy to place blame after the act of intercourse, but you will never convince me that you thought the guy was going to be "a good dad" before you spread your legs, and then he "all of a sudden" became a deadbeat afterwards.

Ain't that the truth! Having sex is a way to make babies...Duh Maybe people should consider what the consequences of their actions could be before they strip down. It's not hard to figure out if screwing is a good idea or a bad idea...and if you must, USE PROTECTION. Problem solved.

Ok and what if it's with a husband then they get a divorce and he skips out on his responsibility

My situation was a husband who decided after we divorced that his new girlfriend, and later their child, was more important than my child. His 'baby momma' was even a stay home mom for the 1st 5 yrs of baby's life- which was his excuse for not paying child support. His excuse for not seeing his child? New woman was jealous.

Bunch of crying women! Get a life!

wow wrote:

My situation was a husband who decided after we divorced that his new girlfriend, and later their child, was more important than my child. His 'baby momma' was even a stay home mom for the 1st 5 yrs of baby's life- which was his excuse for not paying child support. His excuse for not seeing his child? New woman was jealous.

totally understand

My situation was my feiance who im with now was with a girl that endin up pregant and after havin the baby and before she got pregant always cheated on him then when the baby come along it got wores and he finally left her for me..... when he left her she wouldnt let him see that baby unless he spent time with her and her family the baby wasnt allowed around me or his family..... and he told her if the baby couldnt come around me or his family he wasnt gonna be able to see her..... then she got mad and was tellin him all kinds of crazy stuff like she anit urs any ways and everything.... so its not always just the guys it's alot of lil wh*res to..... everybody thinks it's the guys and makes them look bad and its not

wow wrote:

My situation was a husband who decided after we divorced that his new girlfriend, and later their child, was more important than my child. His 'baby momma' was even a stay home mom for the 1st 5 yrs of baby's life- which was his excuse for not paying child support. His excuse for not seeing his child? New woman was jealous.

Then I gotta say that he is a pathetic, useless man-child and should feel terrible for what he has done to your child. What a sorry b**tard. I hope his girlfriend is real proud of that prize... <rolls eyes>

sounds like shes a wh*re. and its her fault that her kid doesn't have a dad

I agree.. So if he left her for you. then looks like your gonna be next. I say keep your legs closed stop having kids if you can't take care of them. Hard working people are sick of you moochies.

Both are to blame!!! The child has no choice in it but sadly will be the one hurt in the end.

what about all the worthless mothers who dont take care of their kids. They want to keep having them 4, 5, and so on but thats it

Hard Truth- What about the ladies who have been raped? Or had failed birth control? These women are just whores who needed to keep their legs closed right? I have a job, in the school system. My husband works in concrete. We are both hard workers, and yet we get some government assistance. Does that make us low lives? Your ignorance shows through the things you say. It's quite sad.

I agree with you. I was just pointing out how everyone wants to point out about the fathers when the term should be parents. Women do it just the same

people need to get a life this topix shit is drama with anoniminty

Matt Scott!

If you already have 1 kid you cant afford. why do you keep having them?the system should cut these women off after one. Uncle Sam aint your babies Daddy.Would comment further but I got to go to work and support my family and give my part to feed you and your illegitment children.