Susanne Dobbs???

Does anyone know someone by the name of Susanne/Suzanne Dobbs/Emrick...I think she used to live in Ava and was wondering if anyone knew anything about her or if she was still around Ava? I heard she had really went downhill...

yes she still lives in Ava and has went down hill strong out on drugs

I grew up around her family and she had a lot of really bad stuff happen to her and she may be on drugs and what not but I'd say its a blessing that she is still alive. She lost her 3 year old son and her husband just a couple of years apart.

I see.. huh didn't know her that well. I just heard she didn't have her children anymore at the moment and yes I had heard about her son and spouse...Ty for the info..

i remember that it was really sad when her son got killed i heard that her and her husband were drunk when he fell out of the truck on his birthday.

it was really sad I know Suzan i use to live next to her and her husband before he died.

lovebug wrote:

it was really sad I know Suzan i use to live next to her and her husband before he died.

Yes it was really sad and losing her husband was even worse after losing her baby. Everyone has their problems and everyone deals with them differently. Hell, if I lost my family in the way she did, I would be drunk and drugged 24/7. There are a lot of people who blog on here that are never accurate on the situations but they run their mouths anyway. Evidently they have very low self esteem and they need to learn that when they point fingers their thumbs point back to themselves.
Suzanne is a very good girl who lost her way when she lost her son, then went even deeper when she lost her husband so soon afterward. I would love to see these idiots who talk trash about her after they lose their kids and spouses, bet they wouldn't be tee-totaler either. You should never burn bread on yourself because God don't liike UGLY. Thank you so much for the kind words for Suzanne, She needs all the help she can get right now, but some people are too low to offer her help, all they can do is put her down. I am really surprised she is still amoung us, I really didn't think she would be. KUDO's to Suzanne, whatever you have to do to get through this loss honey, more power to you and if I can ever help you, call me ASAP.

Yeah I wasn't trying to pass judgement.. That would be hard.. so very hard...I just didn't know the circumstances...no hard feelings or anything towards anyone

Susanne would NOT have lost her son had she and her husband NOT been drunk and driving! I have no pity for the women. ONE... at 2 years old, he should have been in a carseat, not allowed to be walking across the cab of the pickup. TWO... if she hadn't of been wasted, she would have been able to keep him away from the open window! THREE... she was soooooo wasted that she didn't even realize he had fallen out of the truck until she had driven over 50 feet! YES!! It's a horrible thing that happened, BUT it wouldn't have happened had she not chosen to get drunk and drive!!!! The other part of this that gets me is if the death of her child and husband drove her further into drugs and alcohol, why can't she focus on the two children she has that are still alive and with her? If it were me, the decision I had made to drink and drive, thus losing my son, would have caused me to be sober and stay sober!! It sure wouldn't have pushed me further into those two evils! Her two little girls have NO clue what its like to be around her when she's sober. THAT is sad... Instead of focusing on the death of her son, she should be focusing on the lives that are in front of her.

Pam... I show no disrespect... but NO ONE can help someone that has no desire to be helped. The deaths of her son and husband were NOT the cause of her sinking so low. She was heavy into drinking BEFORE any of that happened. I do not judge her, just merely stating my opinion on the subject. Her family have ALL tried to help her, but until she wants the help nothing will ever change. I'm not just talking trash about her, I would say the same thing about ANYONE that allows their own stupidity to take the life of someone. You know as well as I do that if your daughter-in-law were drunk and was driving, had an accident that killed your grandaughter you wouldn't be handing her pity. You'd be crushed, pissed off, angry etc... and you would want her punished in one way or another for the stupid act of climbing behind the wheel of a car while drunk. I've said all that to simply say again, that no one can help someone that doesn't see they have a problem and NEED the help. I would feel the same way about ANYONE that a simple act of stupidity caused the loss of someone's life. NOT just Susanne.

Susanne and her boyfriend at the time about 8 months ago came to my house i knew her boyfriend at the time i went to fix me a soda and when i came back into the room they were in the bathroom shooting up drugs i was so mad at them both because i dont't belive in that shit and i dont want drugs in my house i have 2 little girls in my house. I made them leave and to not come back to my house I feel sorry for her she need help and so does her boyfried. before i had kids i was all into the drinking and drugs but when i had my kids i went and got help and have been free of it all for 12 years I dont want to be around it. If she ask me for help i would be glad to help her or any one.

Exactly.. had she not had the child out at 2 in the morning, and had him home in bed where he belonged or even in a car seat that might not have happened. I think she's worthless and might very well always be.. I know for a fact that her and her two daughters tested positive for pot.. even the younger daughter. That is sad.. she don't make them go to school and she needs to focus on making their lives better so they can be a success in life and not have to live like she has.. she's sneaky and a liar and a cheat.. we're not perfect and I am not trying to pass judgement but she can try her best to not ruin her girls' life. She should know better than to have a two year old out at 2 in the morning drunk and not in a carseat. She could at least try to change for the sake of her two remaining children, the oldest one already sleeps around, now that's a good habit to be letting your daughter engage in!!!

What happened to her husband?

About a year after her son's death, he was drinking and wrecked on a 4 wheeler.

her oldest daughther is going to be just like her if she is not already. Her husband stayed drunk and on drugs al the time while in school, and it is not a suprise how things have turned out

We need to be supportive of people in positiv wayz!

when someone always talks negative about you sometimes people tend to do more to themselves people need to stand up and help her and her family

crazywitch2 wrote:

when someone always talks negative about you sometimes people tend to do more to themselves people need to stand up and help her and her family

Okay, what happened happened. How many of you have never made a mistake when you were young? Couldda, wouldda shouldda, If you are so negative and concerned about her kids living now, why don't you befriend her and do what you can to be a positive influence in her life? If the drugs and drinking is the only life you have ever known then when you are shown a different life, it changes things for people. They CAN change and most of them want to, but they NEED positive people in their liveds to teach them. And I would like to know, out of all you bloogers that are saying the meanest things here, how many of you are Christains? Have you ever taken her to church, or even invited her and her children?

"there are a lot of people who blog on here that are never accurate on the situations but they run their mouths anyway. Evidently they have very low self esteem and they need to learn that when they point fingers their thumbs point back to themselves.
Pam you need to take your own advise!!!!!!!!!! You put everyone down and speak of things you have no idea about. Why would anyone listen to a thing you have to say. I seen Suzanne recently and she did not look like she was going down hill. She did not look like she was on drugs either. When people have nothing else to do with their pathetic lifes such as Pam grahm Brayfield they make things up and when people don't have any dirt they make stuff up such as they are on drugs. Pam as many people have said before get a life.

She has a gaping hole and is a worthless hoe with rotting teeth!!