Self-Loathing and Relationships: Believe in Others Who Believe in You<quoted text>
You incoherent fool, if you could connect two sentences together without making a complete jackass of yourself someone might actually read your swill.
And you march in every one of your town's Gay Pride Parades, don't you?
Next question: What custom do you wear -- the Twinkie Pumpkin Princess ensemble or the bathhouse towel boy toga?
...it would seem that a "self-loathing" person is likely not going to be in relationships very long given it would be an unsustainable situation for both parties involved. What does it take for a self-loathing person to stop self-sabotaging? At one point, he/she would have to take a look at themselves—and even if they don't like what they see, at least pretend they do so that they are in suspended disbelief until they buy into the realization they are what they believe they are.
Professor, your problem is real, there is help just around the corner if YOU chose to seek it. Accept your bisexuality, its who you are. Hating your self is not the answer, hating Gays is not the answer.